Hi,
I met this man 12 days ago on the tenth of august. He is absolute scum.
I met him at London bridge station, I expected a car to come and pick me up, but no, we took 2 different buses and a long walk to get to his. By this point I had no clue where I was, and I know London pretty well as I used to live there. He said we were in Chelsea, but he was probably lying, as he lies about everything. it was a horrible dingy staircase leading up to a very sparsely decorated flat. I suspect that it is not his real home, but I could be wrong If anyone knows the address please send it.
When we got back to his I asked for my payment and he used the same story as usual, about how the bank wouldn't let him withdraw it as it was such a large amount. He said that he had already emailed me to say he was paying by transfer, no such email exists. For some reason I believed him, I feel so stupid now, but I don't know a lot about banking. I gave him my details and then he made a fake call to his bank. Please don't judge me for believing him he made it seem so convincing.
Then we started our session together, I could not get a word in. Definitely the same guy, he has a strong accent, I think he is Nigerian. He was talking utter crap, kept talking about security cameras in London, and mundane facts about celebrities. Then he heated up some food for me, bear in mind that he had even asked what kind of food I like, and I had said Thai, he served up some disgusting greasy mince and rice that I could barely swallow. This is relevant because I think he drugged the food, or the drinks. I drank about 2 glasses of wine, yes, they were large glasses but i know my limits with alcohol, and i would have to drink about 4 times that in order to fall into a comatose state, as I have a high tolerance.
After that we went to his bed, he was persistent, very rough, and wanted to go again right after we had finished, i think we had sex about 3 times, but i do not remember falling asleep and the last thing i remember is him having sex with me and I was wishing it could be over. This makes me think that he slept with me in my sleep, and also the fact that I woke up in so much pain, with ejaculate coming out of me. And then we had sex 2 more times in the morning, it was so so painful.
Then he did the same as to other girls where he insisted on coming with me on the bus (I was going to get the tube on my own, but he persuaded me into getting the bus with him, probably so I didn't remember how to walk to his from the station) I was going to shepherds bush to meet a friend and he accompanied me there and came with me to a cash point to check if the money was there. I had asked to check a cash-point in his area, and he said there were none.. which was bullshit as we passed about 5 in his area on the bus. Of course the money wasn't there, and he said it sometimes takes a few days. by this point I only partly believed him but just wanted to get as far away from him as possible, as he was so annoying, would not shut up, and I could feel myself about to snap and scream at him. So we went our separate ways and I went to meet my friend.
I was then stuck in London staying with my friend for 3 days, I only brought enough money to get up there, as I had been expecting to get paid for my work. Eventually a friend lent me the money to get back to Brighton.
What is strange is that I kept calling him for about a week after this incident, and he still maintained that he had direct debits coming out and that why the money was taking a long time. Of course I didn't believe this, I may have been stupid enough for him to lie to me once, but not again. He kept trying to guilt trip me, saying that he couldn't check why it hadn't come through as he was visiting his brother who had been sectioned, and trying to make me feel bad that ' I didn't care about his brother'. Doubt that the brother even exists, and he's the one that needs to be sectioned. I gave up on calling after a week, and decided to take action through the sexual assault survivors network, they have links with the police. I tried to text him today, and the message wouldn't send, so he either has a new phone, or my number blocked.
The number he was texting me on was 07508 6447**
His adultwork id at the time was James_7k88
it has since been changed to Jamess_7k88#&
I hope this warning is seen and that he has no more victims, but I worry that this will not be the case.
I want to take him down, but alone my voice is not enough, I will still make a report but worry that the police will do nothing. If other girls who he has affected come forward with me we will have more of a chance of getting this man in jail. So please Dm me, I understand that it is hard to talk about, this incident has affected my mental health greatly.
If anyone has more details, please send them to me, especially his address. If the police will do nothing I will do something myself.
Sorry for such a long post, thanks for reading,
Eden xxx