Hey girls,

Warning for those working in Leeds!

I was visited by someone a few months ago  (Young asian male, probably early 20s)
Came from Bradford (was late and sent me a screenshot of their maps)

When he came to see me at first everything was fine, seemed polite. During the meet he kept doing things that made me uncomfortable.
-Forcing my head down really hard and not letting me get back up.
-Holding my nose 3 times so I couldn’t breathe (he did stop when i asked what he was doing)

I didn’t enjoy the meet and made that clear when he pushed my head down and it was my last straw so I told him to leave and not to book me again.

I wish it ended there..

He tried to book me again and I told him no…
He then started getting abusive calling me:
- Ni**a Slave, Sloppy Black Bitch, Slave, Accusing me of sleeping with my family members and being nasty so I blocked him.

He then proceeded to book me on a different number (key thing is he sent me a screenshot of his maps again on a new number and was late)

This was a first red flag for me and to my surprise it was him when I opened the door. I asked him multiple times to leave as I told him I already said I would not accept another booking but for about 30 mins he kept saying “but I’m here now and that I may as well do the booking” it wasn’t until I said I will go down to reception and ask them to remove him. He wasn’t phased by the fact I said “if I give in and say yes do you understand that is SA”

He eventually left, about 20 mins later I went down and he was waiting by the lifts. I confronted him and said if he does not leave immediately I will call the police. He left.

After this he has been trying to book me countless times and being verbally abusive when I say no. I haven’t blocked his new number as I don’t want him to try book me on a new number. He has since left me alone but that’s only because I threatened to seek legal action if he continues.

He has admitted the reason he does this is because he enjoyed his time with me. But wow why don’t men realise that is not the way to treat someone and it’s not going to get me to change my mind?

Be wary girls! He seems SO polite in person but on text and after being told no he is nasty.