nasty men come from all corners of the globe, unfortunately. my worst so far was a welshman. i have had lovely asian clients, and indeed my longest non-work sexual relationship ever was with a pakistani man in my twenties who i almost did the whole marriage and kids thing with, he remains a beloved friend. i really don't believe in making sweeping statements along the lines of race or anything else really, except to say that wankers are wankers and gentlemen are gentlemen.
but anyway, enough of my ranting, i am so sorry to hear what happened to you sammy that really doesn't sound nice at all. hope something lovely happens to you soon to balance it out. and thanks for letting us know!
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