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missAK

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Forceful kissing and demeaning sex workers LONDON
« on: 25 February 2023, 01:46:54 am »
Hi ladies

For months (since august) I’ve been harassed by a very difficult client. He is very forceful with dfk, borderline chocking you with his tongue  , says awful things about women and sex workers in my face and for this reason I have decided to block him.
He’s been finding ways to write awful and bitter feedbacks about me on a review site because he is bitter that I chose not to see him.
Attempting to ruin my “reputation”

Asian man, 30s, gym goer, stuck up misogynist, usually stays 1h and is VERY forceful about deep french kissing  (London)

Posting as a warning ⚠️
I can share his AW and forum nickname in pm system (if allowed)


PPAT on aw
07900580xxx
« Last Edit: 25 February 2023, 01:08:46 pm by missAK »

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Re: Forceful kissing and demeaning sex workers LONDON
« Reply #1 on: 25 February 2023, 09:21:47 am »
Please post the AW username and ID plus the censored phone number here so it can be searched.

missAK

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Re: Forceful kissing and demeaning sex workers LONDON
« Reply #2 on: 25 February 2023, 01:09:59 pm »
Adjusted. Thanks

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Re: Forceful kissing and demeaning sex workers LONDON
« Reply #3 on: 25 February 2023, 01:38:02 pm »
I’ve had bad experiences with this guy too! He won’t stop trying to book despite me telling him that I don’t want to see him. I’m sure he has other numbers too that he uses to contact you if you wont see him but the one you posted is his main one. It’s usually clear it’s him as he will ask for the specific services he wants and ask to confirm you do them before booking. Comes across as very pushy and I would go as far as to say he is unhinged 

One of his other numbers is definitely:
074708668**

Not sure if he still uses it but has in the past 
« Last Edit: 25 February 2023, 01:56:47 pm by jasmine89 »

missAK

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Re: Forceful kissing and demeaning sex workers LONDON
« Reply #4 on: 25 February 2023, 07:23:17 pm »
I’ve had bad experiences with this guy too! He won’t stop trying to book despite me telling him that I don’t want to see him. I’m sure he has other numbers too that he uses to contact you if you wont see him but the one you posted is his main one. It’s usually clear it’s him as he will ask for the specific services he wants and ask to confirm you do them before booking. Comes across as very pushy and I would go as far as to say he is unhinged 

One of his other numbers is definitely:
074708668**

Not sure if he still uses it but has in the past


Oh my goodness this guy has been around. Sorry you’ve had to deal with him also.
I spoke to my colleague today and she also confirmed that he’s been very demanding and he’s actually taken his toll with her and she’s no longer seeing him. The same messages he’s sent me, he also sent her. Stating that he’s a “good guy” and then bashes SP on the punter forum.

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Re: Forceful kissing and demeaning sex workers LONDON
« Reply #5 on: 04 March 2023, 12:49:07 am »
Hi ladies

For months (since august) I’ve been harassed by a very difficult client. He is very forceful with dfk, borderline chocking you with his tongue  , says awful things about women and sex workers in my face and for this reason I have decided to block him.
He’s been finding ways to write awful and bitter feedbacks about me on a review site because he is bitter that I chose not to see him.
Attempting to ruin my “reputation”

Asian man, 30s, gym goer, stuck up misogynist, usually stays 1h and is VERY forceful about deep french kissing  (London)

Posting as a warning ⚠️
I can share his AW and forum nickname in pm system (if allowed)


PPAT on aw
07900580xxx


Do you use any screening methods ? I mistakenly made a choice to see him and he gave me off vibes from the get go , maybe it’s because me and him are from the same background and therefore he acted the way he did -  I felt him cold/off very observant almost judgmental. Handed me the paperwork and “I paid you so do as I say” scenario. Few weeks later he tried to make another booking and I denied, he proceeded to threaten me saying I would end up on the forum lol

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Re: Forceful kissing and demeaning sex workers LONDON
« Reply #6 on: 14 August 2023, 04:51:12 pm »
Hi girls,


Does anyone have any idea what’s wrong with this guy case as he is non stop texting me for the last 48h to tell me he is a good guy and apparently he was set up .


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Re: Forceful kissing and demeaning sex workers LONDON
« Reply #7 on: 14 August 2023, 05:58:44 pm »
Adjusted. Thanks
Pls censor only the last two number digits .. so it can come up during searches

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Re: Forceful kissing and demeaning sex workers LONDON
« Reply #8 on: 15 August 2023, 10:35:13 pm »
Does anyone have any idea what’s wrong with this guy

Well...

he is non stop texting me for the last 48h to tell me he is a good guy

Bingo.

missAK

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Re: Forceful kissing and demeaning sex workers LONDON
« Reply #9 on: 21 August 2023, 03:13:46 pm »
Hi ladies

I’ve been receiving a ton of emails regarding this post and some of personal exp with this “gentleman”

The harassment continues to new escorts he’s trying to book. He’s very much aware of his issues and tries to accuse girls of lying. May I add — why would a working girl make up such lies & how is so many women coming forward with evidence ?

Unfortunately this guy is back on the forum , I guess he paid his way or something.

I’ve made a report of him on “ugly mugs” happy to share further info.

Take care  x

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Re: Forceful kissing and demeaning sex workers LONDON
« Reply #10 on: 21 August 2023, 03:34:34 pm »
I've no doubt the above is true MissAK, but warnings need to be kept to posters first person experiences only please - third party warnings are not permitted on SAAFE.

Anybody who wants to add their own contribution to the thread is of course encouraged to sign up and do so :)

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Re: Forceful kissing and demeaning sex workers LONDON
« Reply #11 on: 21 August 2023, 03:50:36 pm »
Ah, I've just realised that this is the one who sent us a whiny, entitled email about the warning, and then when he didn't get a response in a nanosecond followed it with a '?' type one. When we pointed out that this did little to disprove the attitude posted about above he quickly switched to the obsequious smarm (I don't know whether we replied after that because I haven't looked).

I doubt he's dangerous, but if his email is anything to go by he's likely to be a monumental pain in the arse in the room, and also to sulk like a petulant toddler if he doesn't get his own way or if you disagree with him about pretty much anything. Whether or not you take a booking from him depends a lot on your tolerance for self-obsessed man babies, but you'd need a lot more than I have.

He also apparently believes that he's the only 30's Asian man in London who goes to a gym (in which case it must be mine because I saw an Asian man in my morning HIIT class), so he's either as dumb as a rock or he genuinely thinks that the universe revolves around him. My guess is a bit of both.