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Author Topic: Forced Bareback - Sham in London (near Surbiton tube station)  (Read 16793 times)

alice842

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This happened back in February 2014 when I was working for an agency. I had a driver for the evening and he took me to bookings as they came in through the agency. I only worked two evenings for them and now work independently.

My first client (ever) was this guy named Sham (that's what it sounded like and how the agency spelled it). I don't know his exact address as I was driven there but Surbiton was the nearest tube station. He's Asian, fairly short, a bit overweight and probably in his early 30s, requested I took shoes off on arrival, had a flat split over several levels - bedroom was up two flights of stairs. He also asked persistantly for my real name and lots of personal details and was texting the agency all week after he saw me saying he wanted to take me to dinner etc. (luckily he didn't have my number).

After I arrived he started sorting out the money - agreed to pay extra for OWO, immediately extended the booking by 2 hours. He hinted that he didn't want to use a condom for sex though, I said no and that we definitely had to use a condom but he kept on going on about how he'd agreed to pay extra and he'd make me his new regular girl, and kept saying 'don't worry, I'm clean, I don't use drugs or anything' etc. I wasn't happy about this but was scared to leave or argue too much as my driver had said he's a regular client and books through the agency often (obviously no other girls had had a problem with him, so I didn't want to make a fuss). I also needed the money as it had taken ages to sort out getting work with an agency and organising it all.

So I stayed and he gave me the money. I got out lube and condoms and put them on his bedside table ready, I thought this would be enough of a sign for him that I did not want to do BB. However after lots of kissing, cuddling, chatting, clothes coming off, I sat up to get a condom and he'd say 'no, not yet, not yet', he kept doing this until suddenly just throwing himself on top of me, pushing himself in and starting to have sex. He had his full weight on top of me and I couldn't push him off, he was heavy and I'm quite little. I was too scared to resist or do anything, he did come inside me and a few weeks later when I got test results I found that I had chlamydia. I was too scared to leave early and that the agency would be angry with me etc. so I stayed for the full 3 hours. I told the agency that I didn't want to see him again, that he was disrespectful and pushed boundaries and they said ok, that's fine. Then the next time I worked for them, they made me a booking with him! I refused to go, and after that quit working for them.

I realise now and after working independently that what he did was sexual assault and he must target escorts who are new and inexperienced. He's probably still booking girls through the same agency but may be trying to see independent girls or people from other agencies as well. I know I should have been firmer with him or just left straight away but I was new and scared (worried that my driver would just abandon me there if I came out early without any money).

If anyone has any questions or anything please send me a message, I'd hate for this to happen to anyone else. X
« Last Edit: 14 February 2015, 06:03:03 pm by alice842 »

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Re: Forced Bareback - Sham in London (near Surbiton tube station)
« Reply #1 on: 11 August 2014, 07:40:44 pm »
I've now removed five off topic posts from this thread - can those who've forgotten the posting rules for this section please refresh their memories?

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Re: Forced Bareback - Sham in London (near Surbiton tube station)
« Reply #2 on: 14 February 2015, 05:40:37 pm »
I know this man , he booked me through a agency aswell
what a creep ! im sure the agency knows they shouldn't keep sending girls there

alice842

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Re: Forced Bareback - Sham in London (near Surbiton tube station)
« Reply #3 on: 14 February 2015, 05:58:10 pm »
I know this man , he booked me through a agency aswell
what a creep ! im sure the agency knows they shouldn't keep sending girls there

I doubt they care - they kept on and on trying to convince me to see him a second time, it wasn't until I burst into tears that the driver gave up and cancelled the booking. My driver was also inappropriate and tried to arrange a booking with me. Funnily enough the agency who arranged this booking recently posted an ad for escorts in the seeking/offering section ::)

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Re: Forced Bareback - Sham in London (near Surbiton tube station)
« Reply #4 on: 15 February 2015, 12:22:04 pm »
I doubt they care - they kept on and on trying to convince me to see him a second time, it wasn't until I burst into tears that the driver gave up and cancelled the booking. My driver was also inappropriate and tried to arrange a booking with me. Funnily enough the agency who arranged this booking recently posted an ad for escorts in the seeking/offering section ::)

And here it is: http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=25727.0 :).