The man: An Indian man with an Irish accent, about 5ft 6 and overweight. He is called Jeremy T***** lives in carryduff and works [removed]. He travels all over NI for appointments (mostly Belfast). He is 33 years old. He is well known.

This man booked an appointment with me via a burner phone and AW username coolcharlie69. He had a lot of feedback and seemed fine. He brought his appointment forward then booked again through AW.

During the meeting he refused to shower and was very quiet. I assumed he was just a socially inept but harmless guy. Tried chatting to him. He told me he called himself Charlie from two and a half men. He told me that he had borrowed 30 grand from his parents to pay for escorts so far this year and he visits one most days and that he wanted a girlfriend.
Red flag number one.

He was very vanilla, not at all kinky as his username would suggest. He wanted a massage and then oral and cowgirl. He stayed his hour then left.

30 mins after he left he started ringing and texting me asking me to leave him AW feedback.
Red flag number two.
At the time I thought this was a bit strange but was busy and again just put it down to him being a sad guy who collects feedback.
Now I see that it was probably also to lure other women like me into trusting him.

After he left me feedback another local girl contacted me and told me he was kinkywhip43 on a punting forum and was the person who was leaving fake reviews and stalking women.

The next day he started sending me Hi messages. I said how can I help? He asked me if I was ok… I replied saying that I don’t entertain back and forth and how could I help him. He said he was just seeing if I was ok.

That night 3am onwards he started ringing me (was asleep) from this number: 075704076**.  When I woke up I checked it on only mugs and it must be his contract phone because there were about 4 years of reports on this number all describing the man I’d met. Reports of violence, knives, fake money, shit on bed, condom removal, no shows, police being called etc. all describing a quiet/shy overweight Indian man called Jeremy. From what I read he is violent to the foreign (potentially more vulnerable women) and stalks/harasses the British women. I blocked him.

He has many EI usernames mentioned on UM one of which is the same as his well known punting forum username.

He rang me from yet another number the day after and I asked him is he kinkywhip he said yes and would I not see him anymore. I said no sorry please stop ringing me and don’t write a review about me. He said if I don’t see him again he will. I hung up and blocked him.

Since this he has put up two (poorly written and quite strange) fake reviews about me on the punting forum. He continues to contact me via new usernames and phone numbers on average 10 times per week. However sometimes it can be 10 times a day, I guess it depends which woman he decides to focus on at that moment in time.

He has made an alias to ask me to please unblock him his punting forum account has been taken over it’s not him writing these things he would never do that.

He tried to book an appointment with my friend who was touring and she refused to see him so he attempted to put a review about her. 

To book with me you need to ring me and at this point I have about 30 video recordings of him ringing from different numbers trying to put on different voices attempting to book with me. If it wasn’t my time he was wasting, the fact he is effecting my mood with booking attempts every day for the past month and his previous reports of violence it might be comical.

It will be hard to avoid this man if you come to Belfast because he is very invested in meeting escorts and uses new numbers. But if a man of this description turns up at your door.. Beware, it could be the not-so-kinky whip and you could end up with a lazy review/stalker.