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SJ

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Known amongst girls as Domination/Demolition Man this guy has a particular MO and has been targetting new girls for years. There used to be a lot of detail around about him but much of it has disappeared - I am currently trying to track any old info down.

He has recently tried to book an overnight duo with two ladies who are working under new names. He asked for the same details as in this post from November 2006:

http://www.punterlink.com/modules.php?name=Forums&file=viewtopic&t=13569&highlight=apron

In particular he wants a GFE/wife like overnight, financial domination, girls to wear a pinny, the girls to cook for him and role play which includes sending him out for a bottle of wine.

He has an East London sort of accent and sounds totally plausible. He will usually want to talk to both girls and will offer extra cash (this should always ring alarm bells) as he wants more than 12 hours - normally 5.30pm - 9am.

It looks like he was in Bedford recently (see link above for the post by Ebony Storm) and it could link to this warning but the details are vague (this says asian but other warnings have him as "black") but the timing and general gist seem to fit:

http://southeastpunting.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=17945

In short, he has been about for years and usually asks if you are new as he is aware that the established girls are wise to him.

He changes number and names: he has been Devon, Lester (Leceister?), Phillip, Darren, Steve, Carlton, Carl.

He is plausible so be careful and keep this post and anything that is added to it in mind. Always be wary when anyone offers over the odds for a booking or seems overly keen on you being new. When you are new, you are at your most vulnerable with people like this as they prey on your inexperience of the business and your desire to get up and running and do well.Basically if it sounds too good to be true, it is.

Keep safe.
xx

« Last Edit: 03 March 2010, 02:03:01 pm by Anika Mae »

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Re: Domination Man - This one has been targetting new girls for years.
« Reply #1 on: 07 January 2010, 04:23:54 pm »
Not sure as never got his number. Sheer bordam made me pick up a witheld.
He went on and on about handcuffing ladies. He claimed to be in Manchester area. Stay safe ladies.x
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Re: Domination Man - This one has been targetting new girls for years.
« Reply #2 on: 31 October 2011, 06:33:07 pm »
Hiya

Not sure if this is the same guy who contacts me but he has a stutter and says that he want to meet some time in the future for a lot of cash for a long booking.

He wanted to make a deposit into my bank account.

He mentioned his stutter was due to his disability which I doubted as he didn't have a social worker.

And basically thought how do you know how to pay in to a bank when you can't work paypal.


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Re: Domination Man - This one has been targetting new girls for years.
« Reply #3 on: 11 November 2016, 04:13:24 am »
Good morning to all the night owls out there  :)

Does anyone know what the current situation is in respect of the 'Domination Man', was he ever caught is he still active and if so in what areas and what is his current m.o.?

For the record, the person that I am specifically referring to is an exceptionally well spoken (posh) black man (however it is not necessarily clear that he's black over the phone) with an interest in domination type services. I note that in some of the threads there is varying descriptions of him so for the avoidance of doubt, I'm referring to him being very posh and well spoken (private school educated).

I used to be in the game in the 90's and was in it for a few years. I worked in various areas in London. To date and going back to about the mid 90's he attacked the maids and attempted to force his way into 2 different flats that I was personally working in. On both occasions he used violence but they were able to keep him out. He also attacked a maid in I think it was Hounslow/ Southall and tried to force entry, she was a friend of mine and was basically quite badly beaten. On all of the occasions, I never actually saw him. He also came back for a second go to the flat but by chance I ended up taking the call and had a suspicion it was him and tried to put him off by saying the girl was busy, he still came but I wouldn't open the front door to him at all so only got a very distorted view through the spyhole of a black male, so even though it was quite frightening because he was kicking and punching at the front door he left because the neighbours came out quite quickly and thankfully scared him off. Finally he also attacked another girl I knew in Chelsea, I can't quite remember as it was a long time ago but I believe he got into the flat and I think she and the maid were robbed and/or assaulted. As more ladies were getting wise to him, he started going into different areas. I know back then there was some talk by the Police of him maybe being responsible for attacks going out towards the direction of Chiswick/Ealing and that way.

Anyway any help or advice regarding him would be appreciated as I am thinking about making a return to this work. He was one of a few nutcases I came across but in all honesty he was one of the most terrifying (unfortunately there was a few things that happened and which together completely put me off and I 'retired'). I will contact one of the Outreach Teams at some point to get an Ugly Mugs list but I think I have to get that in person as I don't want anything sent to my home. If anyone does know anything I would be grateful to hear about it?

P.S. I know most of you ladies are independent which is ideally (if you can do it), the correct way to be but be wary when employing maids/receptionists or working for other people as sadly many seem to be more concerned about getting as many people through the door without giving any real thought to who they give the address to or your safety. I learned that at my cost (but when the shoe was on the other foot, other than the occasional timewaster they were mostly harmless).
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Re: Domination Man - This one has been targetting new girls for years.
« Reply #4 on: 11 November 2016, 06:26:21 pm »
Is he the one who asks about wanting to do a half Nelson wrestle/ choke  on ladies ( think that's the correct words) and mentions wrestling and role play

If so he often contact girls and mentions another local Escort that he sees ( he dosent see this escort ) but mentions names that he thinks you might know so say for example you were in Bristol / Bath and he called you he might say that he sees me Paris regulary In order to get your confidence that he is ok


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Re: Domination Man - This one has been targetting new girls for years.
« Reply #5 on: 16 November 2016, 02:03:05 pm »
Sorry for delay in responding ParisB, I'm not actually sure how he operates any more as I have been out of the business for a while (seeing private clients but not advertising) so I'm not 100% certain. TBH, with the passage of time there seems to be so many dangerous guys pretending to be clients that it's actually quite scary. That was why I originally stopped working as too many dangerous ones were getting through (once I went independent it stopped, but was still risky). There seems to be many others now emulating him (whether deliberately or unintentionally, who knows?)

Thank you for the information and warning about him pretending to see other girls, that's useful to know. I'm curious if you or others ever check with other ladies as to a potential new client's suitability? (if there's no feedback at all about them) I can see doing that having its uses but I can also see the guys/girls potentially lying to either protect their own interests or in the case of the customer; not wanting girl's to know that they see other girls.