Apologies in advance for the long read.....

I had a client today, he actually seemed nice enough in person but it’s his behaviour after it that’s totally freaked me out.

He comes in and I asked him if he’s ever done anything like this before, I ask everyone that because I get a lot of newbies and a lot of virgins who really don’t know what to do with themselves so I usually help put them at ease from this point on.

Anyway, this guy happened to tell me his entire sexual history and life story which I wasn’t expecting so I was a bit taken back. He went on to talk about all these sex parties that he goes to, sex parties that he hosts, future sex parties that he’s going to host at his new business premises that he’s just bought, swinging, 3sums and sex parties with space cakes and everything else he was into. I haven’t even got his clothes hung up yet and I’m being told all this.

Anyone who knows me, knows I’m really quite vanilla so I was starting to get nervously intimidated at this point that he was gonna be too much for me or that I was just never gonna live up to his expectations but I was mindful that I had made clear what services were available at the point of booking which he agreed were all fine.

So off he pops for a shower, comes back and tells me he wants to cum as much as he possibly can so again this just made me nervous. Silly to some, I know but just the whole thing was making me a bit uncomfortable.

He then starting sucking and licking all over my boobs (fine) but touched my clit in that PSE style fashion like he was frantically trying to get a stain out a carpet which feels like an electric shock to me when I’m not sexually aroused in any way what so ever. I hadn’t even kissed this guy yet, I had just got on the bed but hadn’t even got my arse on the bed yet. I told him off for the way he was touching me which made it really awkward between us and the awkwardness felt worse than feeling intimidated by him sexually.

So I end up just saying to him look, I’m really sorry but I’m not feeling right and I think it would be best if we just leave it and I said I would go and get his money for him.

I know many of you reading this will think none of this sounds that bad but in the moment for me, it was that uncomfortable that I was willing to lose the money and waste my own time.

He left without much of a fuss and actually left £20 on the side. Not sure why he did that but I guess it was nice of him anyway.

I texted him just as he left explaining the situation hoping that he would understand but he didn’t take it very well.

He told me I shouldn’t be asking about anyone’s personal life. I put him right and said I didn’t ask him one single question about his personal life. I asked if he had ever done this before, he willingly told me soooooooooooooooooo much stuff about his whole life it seemed.

He went on to say I should of told him he wasn’t allowed to touch? Touching me has never been an issue. I’m not sure how I would have managed a job like this all this time if touching was a problem for me. Man handling me with very full on touching where it’s physically uncomfortable plus  everything he was saying is what my problem was. I just thought to myself I really don’t want to put myself through this for the next 45 mins which as a human in charge of my own body, I’m entitled to do but he refuses to understand.

Anyway, later on out of the blue, he texts me apologising for everything, said he wished he understood me better and went for a SENSUAL GFE rather than rough PSE (his words) and said he hopes I’m ok etc and then an hour later all these mad texts slagging me off start coming through and threats saying he’s put the word out there in my network and is going to ruin me and kept calling me my previous name that I haven’t used for literally years now and told me the reason I changed my name was cause I was scamming clients by taking their money and refusing service? EH? I’ve no idea what he’s on about but I changed my name for a very different reason and not even close to what he’s talking about.

He then phoned me twice, both times for 16 mins to confront me, very angrily but this is when it gets creepy, his voice kept changing along with his accent. One minute he was well spoken and the next talking like a total ned. When he was polite, he was apologising and saying nice things, being very complimentary about my looks and it sounded like he was understanding where I was coming from but then the next minute, He sounded like a ned,  slagging me to the ground and getting really aggressive, abusive and threatening like he had a split personality disorder.

He kept telling me he was sexually frustrated and hadn’t had sex in 5 months and really needed it so was angry that I asked him to leave.

THEN he said that he phoned a couple of escorts that he knows telling them he needed help as he had the worst terrible experience with me and needed a release. He said one of the girls was a pro £200 an hour girl who’s been doing this 15 years and that she was slagging me off too so clearly very indiscreet and carries stories which can be dangerous in this business, very toxic.

THEN he sent me a cringe text telling me he runs Glasgow then he phoned me and told me he runs the 4 corners of Glasgow what ever the fuck that’s suppose to mean. This wee guy was my height by the way (without heels) and I’ve never seen or heard of him in ma life  but even if he did run Glasgow, I don’t think going off your head at being turned away by an escort will give him much street cred.

He intimidated me in person sexually and was trying to intimidate me afterwards, he’s very angry and is acting like someone who got scammed out of their money and refused service when that just wasn’t the case.

He even told me that he was ragin he wasted £120 on a shite experience and I reminded him AGAIN that he was given his money back but then he told me he gave the money to a homeless person and is still sexually frustrated so therefor, he did waste it? Like that’s my fault lol.

I’ve actually never had anyone act this psycho over something like this. In the entire time I’ve been doing this, I can count on both my hands how many people I’ve had to ask to leave during service so it’s defo not the norm for me.

I tried to explain that when he left with his money, he should of chalked it up to one of those bad experiences and then moved on and never gave it another thought given that nobody got hurt and he walked with his money but instead it’s festered into him all evening and he’s flipped a lid.

He said I don’t offer the services on my profile and he’s going to make me pay for that? I never got far enough to offer him the services I offer on my profile. I quite simply felt this guy was gonna be really rough with me PSE style cause that’s the way he was acting and talking and my body just froze up so I though best call it off rather than put myself through that.

This man believes that when he books you, you owe him that service no matter what and you’ve no right as a human being to say no.

He’s small in height, blondish hair, stubble, slim build but I never really noticed anything else about him.

Despite everything I’ve said, I think he would be ok if you’re a PSE escort or even a kinky/naughty GFE type who can handle guys like that. I don’t think any of this would of happened if I just put up with him.

He’s using the number 079463038**

Sophia while it's great to have plenty of information, a lot of people aren't going to get through the above post (and those people include me; I've tried and failed, and English is my first language unlike a lot of others reading). Could you please post an abridged version with the basics - I assume this is about boundary pushing, intimidating behaviour or similar?

Please also make sure there's a physical description - apologies if it's in there but I couldn't see it and it might help somebody else avoid him

I’ve never been good at getting straight to the point lol but I will try.

Basically he was intimidating sexually in person (for me but might be ok with someone actually suited to him). He had a PSE style about him and the things he was saying was very PSE and he’s very sexually experienced and into sex parties and all sorts.

Was very rough when touching me so I had to tell him off which made it really awkward after that so I asked him if we could just cancel the meet with a full refund.

He left but after he left was trying to intimidate me in other ways and was acting really weird and very, very angry. Phoned me twice to have a go at me and sent me all sorts of texts about how he was going to ruin me.

Small in height, blondish hair, stubble and slim build but that’s really all I got as I was too caught up in all his shite to notice what he looked like.

Phone number in above post, PM for dill details.

That’s about as good as I can do with a short version 🙈