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Croydon area
« on: 22 July 2010, 10:31:51 am »
I recently got a booking from a thirtysomething year old man, with black curly hair,fairly tall and a stocky build. He had a strange, possibly Irish accent. He acts very suspiciously and asks lots of questions. I strongly advise women not to take a booking from him.
his number is 075951590**

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Croydon: Boundary pusher - potentially dangerous
« Reply #1 on: 25 September 2011, 10:25:06 pm »
Hi Ladies,

Just to warn you about this man.   He  followed my booking procedure to a T.. Sent an initial email on AW then phoned me to make the arrangements. It was for a Hotel Outcall. So, naturally went through my security procedure. Name and room number etc.

I rang before I set off and he did indeed seem to be staying at this hotel.  He asked me to confirm when I was on the  train  which I did and he offered to meet me at station but I said there was no need.

I was on the train when he seemed to be getting a bit persistent about meeting me at the station.  Maybe this should of concerned me but as the security thing was okayI continued my journey.

When i got off the train he was nowhere to be seen So I rang and got no answer. Then I texted to say okay you must be in the hotel I will come straight there shall  iI?   I  then started getting these weird messages like' walk down this road ' etc etc . I happen to know this are and I know the hotel is not anywhere near where he wanted me to walk to.

I also got ' can I come inside you?. Are you on the pill?  How many punters have I let  come inside me ?' blah blah blah.


Needless to say I turned round and went home sharpish. It was a total wasted journey and a although it was in East Croydon I guess it is possible  he may do this anywhere. Aw profile just says London and county  not specified. He obviously has money to burn on unnecessary hotels unless there is another reason of course.

I actually get the impression that he was somewhere else nearby watching out of a window as he kept wanting me to walk to a particular  part in the road.

Oh, and on the AW site he does have feedback but has opted not to show it on is profile; now I know why. As he followed the booking procedure I decided to give him a chance.



Since  writing this I have noticed he now has a rather revealing pic of his anatomy on his profile. That was not there when I checked before after initial email? Does he just get rid of that pic when making booking and if so why have it there in the first place? Odd.

Number is:075951590** . Pm me for full name  number if you need it.
« Last Edit: 25 September 2011, 10:53:06 pm by Lorissa »

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Re: Croydon: Boundary pusher - potentially dangerous
« Reply #2 on: 06 October 2011, 11:14:47 pm »
Tonight I went to do a hotel outcall and had to terminate it after ten minutes because of the client's strange behaviour.

He was about 6 foot, possibly Mediterranean or middle eastern in ethnicity, slightly accented but fluent English, short dark hair.

Number: 075951590**

 He met me at the station (right beside the hotel) and greeted me by grabbing me from behind, which was not ideal, but I laughed it off and we walked to the hotel. We went up a back staircase and he let me in. The room was quite dark and I instantly felt a bit edgy and said I was going to make a security call (I needed to touch base with my buddy anyway because I was late and she was waiting for my call, so I called her and gave her the room number etc, having left his name and so on with my buddy already.) All the while he was looking at me a bit oddly. Once that was over I addressed the lights issue and he said he'd recently had laser treatment on his eyes and couldn't tolerate the light. I switched on the bedside, which wasn't very bright at all, and he said it was too much. We came to an impasse, with me insisting I'd need more light to feel safe and him saying we couldn't. He kept making remarks about 'safety' under his breath (earlier in the day I'd told him I couldn't visit his house as his landline is ex-directory). I told him that everything I'd done was standard practice, and that in such a vulnerable job it was very important to allow escorts whatever safety procedures they see fit. I asked if he'd ever seen an escort before and he said 'no'.

Then he said "Let's go for a drink," and without waiting for my agreement began to leave the room. I called "We need to see about the business side of things first," after him and he ignored me. I followed him, already thinking that it was time to terminate the appointment. As we walked I politely suggested that he might not be aware, but that the etiquette is for payment to happen at the beginning of the appointment. He just looked at me strangely and continued to guide me to wherever it was that he had in mind for the drink. At this point I said very simply that I didn't think we were going to have an enjoyable evening together and that I was unfortunately going to have to go home. He flipped out a bit and was like "you've been treating me like a criminal from the beginning." I was extremely glad to be in a public place at this point and just walked off quickly and got myself home.

Reading over this I feel like my inexperience is probably shining through (should have insisted on the lights immediately and asked for the money before making my phonecall?), but I was nervous and forgot myself a bit. Anyway I got really bad vibes from him and I was glad I was able to terminate things once out of the darkened room., thought I should mention it.

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Re: Croydon: Boundary pusher - potentially dangerous
« Reply #3 on: 07 October 2011, 02:21:30 am »
Just to say that this is the same guy that I posted about in the timewasters section  a little while ago. I have checked the number  with what is saved in my phone and it matches..


It would appear he is targeting anyone going independent for the first time so newbies please beware and stay aware from this creep.

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Re: Croydon: Boundary pusher - potentially dangerous
« Reply #4 on: 10 October 2011, 05:00:35 am »
(Hii  :) First post! Shame I'm a bit late...)

I took this guys booking too, same number, also at a Croydon hotel. Complete boundary pusher - I would go as far to say he's potentially dangerous! Amongst the other bullshit, he tried to force bb, he was quite strong too. At best I found him very rude, disrespectful and deceptive (it was only on my furious hasty exit that i discovered the hidden webcam filming us, wtf ::)). Very bad news.

So, importantly, he has contacted me again. Calls and texts have obviously been ignored but he's also using this alternative number now too:

- 078435129**

Felt I had to let you know! Take care!!!!!

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Re: Croydon: Boundary pusher - potentially dangerous
« Reply #5 on: 10 October 2011, 12:53:37 pm »
Just to say that this is the same guy that I posted about in the timewasters section  a little while ago. I have checked the number  with what is saved in my phone and it matches..

It would appear he is targeting anyone going independent for the first time so newbies please beware and stay aware from this creep.

In view of these additional posts, I've merged Lorissa's original TW thread in at the beginning of this one. London ladies please take note of the MO (which doesn't seem to be changing much) and beware.

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Re: Croydon: Boundary pusher - potentially dangerous
« Reply #6 on: 20 October 2011, 11:14:32 pm »
Hi Ladies
Just to let you know he contacted me on AW too, calls himself Rob. I asked why he had hidden feedback he had some rubbish story about AW technical issues. He then called and asked if I would arrive wearing nothing under my coat, alarm bells rang, so I absolutely refused to see him. He sent quite a few pushy emails as well. Please be safe.
Jem x

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Re: Croydon: Boundary pusher - potentially dangerous
« Reply #7 on: 21 October 2011, 09:18:55 am »
I would just like to add some further points about his MO which may be helpful, and which I omitted last night.  When I refused to see him as he had hidden feedback, he emailed me with a screen dump of his feedback (he said he can see his feedback but the system has a fault which AW cannot rectify.  The screen dump looks legit, but reading the feedback from girls, they were raving about how sexy he was, in particular how amazing his willy was, with 3 of the feedback's saying they wanted his babies he was so nice (as if!). 

I still wasn't comfortable so cross checked the names of the ladies who had left him feedback, to see if he had left them feedback to ascertain whether these bookings actually had gone ahead, of 8 or 9 feedbacks, only 1 from quite long ago had he left feedback for.  It may just be that he is selfish, but more likely in my mind that he has copy and pasted other people's feedback.  I also emailed AW about his story about the error, they did reply but saying they could not release such info.  I had a rotten feeling about him from the beginning, and these things combined with the info on my previous post, made me refuse flat out to ever see him.  Hope that is not TMI, but thought it may help someone spot him.

And Lorissa, when he booked me all the willy pictures were up (another warning bell to me), as well as a face pic of an impossibly cute looking guy (another warning bell to me).

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Re: Croydon area
« Reply #8 on: 09 December 2011, 07:50:50 pm »
This guy called me yesterday. I took his call and he seemed nice enough on the phone, but after reading his feedback I refused to see him, he has something like 8 disputes and his name on AW is Robert1979. He wants girls to do an outcall to East Croydon, and he'll suggest to meet at the station. After I refused to see him he became very aggitated, and has called and texted me all day.
« Last Edit: 09 December 2011, 11:31:03 pm by Adriana »

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Re: Croydon area
« Reply #9 on: 09 December 2011, 10:43:28 pm »
I've merged this thread with Lorissa's (and I think there was another one too, originally) because the details and phone numbers seem to match up even though the first warning post was well over a year ago.

This man is obviously prolific and in it for the long haul - please everybody covering the area read the whole thread carefully.

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Re: Croydon area
« Reply #10 on: 12 December 2011, 05:08:16 pm »
I rarely post so was surprised to see a topic started by me up here, over a year after I wrote it.
Sorry to hear about your encounters Lorissa, Jem and Lucinda.
This warning page is really useful but i need to get in the habit of actually saving the numbers, or it doesn't work at all.
It freaks me a little that some people target new girls.
Stay safe, be confident and keep your boundaries girls/women.

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Re: Croydon area
« Reply #11 on: 12 December 2011, 05:11:14 pm »
oops, just realised you can't save the full number.
Well i'm just going to read this section of the boards more regularly.

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Re: Croydon area
« Reply #12 on: 07 January 2012, 03:49:48 pm »
Just had a message from him asking for a 4 hour outcall tonight. I'm so glad I decided to search his aw name on here because of his hidden feedback. I'm also so glad I didn't give him my number, (I now only give it when a first appointment is confirmed and I have recieved and checked all the details etc, because I find I really can't handle all these type of guys on the phone, i'm soooo bad at standing up for myself!) I guess I will politely tell him it's a no :)

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Re: Croydon area
« Reply #13 on: 15 January 2012, 01:48:04 am »
I'm new to escorting and received a message from him (Robert1979) a week ago on Adultwork saying that he was "very keen" to see me and asking for my phone number so he could call me to arrange. I sensed that something wasn't right as he had chosen to hide his feedback so I replied asking why he had done to this to which I received no reply! After reading this thread, I'm extremely glad that was the only contact that I've had with him. Fleur x

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Re: Croydon area
« Reply #14 on: 18 January 2012, 01:14:11 am »
Have just found the email from his personal email (not AW) so if anybody would like his email please send me a PM and I will send it on to you.