I saw this guy last week, he really shook me up.
He's not aggressive, but a definite boundary pusher.

Welley-sy on AW. Txt me for a meet, I insisted he called. Sounded fine, I gave him the benefit of the doubt as he was saved as "graphic text" in my phone (maybe he'd matured)

Arrived on time, tried to kiss me as soon as he was through the door.
Tried refuse a shower but I insisted, again attempted action before shower and payment, also invited me into the shower.

During the session he was very non-reactive, he'd asked for my music to be off, so the silence added to his demeanor was very uncomfortable. I should have asked him to leave half way through. (Was a 30min booking).

I finished him off by hand, got up to wash and as I came out of my bathroom, he was there trying to push me into my personal bedroom!
I started to get annoyed and told him to dress, we were now over time.
He then tried to suck my nipples on leaving, delay his exit and asked if he'd be invited back!!! No.

I've not considered defence tactics during a meet for a long time, but with him, I really did.

His numbers 077617291**