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LoisLux

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Boundary Pusher - Huddersfield, West Yorkshire
« on: 19 October 2022, 02:52:48 pm »
WAKEFIELDLAD13
This guy is the definition of a boundary pusher.

I offer a FBSM service.
Throughout the duration of the booking he asked multiple times for a full service.

Tbh I am used to being asked, so normally i know how to handle the line of questioning - but this man was just relentless.
Kept trying to kiss and shove his tongue in my mouth/down my throat.
Kept rubbing his bare genitals and trying to touch mine!
Trying to use his fingers.
Also using his body weigh to pin me down! I had to keep shifting my body.

I had to get up mid way and use the excuse i needed more oil, as he was being so handsy and full on, and i just felt too scared to end the booking - but i needed a break!
When i returned he was stood up by the window near the chest of draws but he quickly moved away.
Said he was just getting some!?

Thru out he was asking me very personal questions. At 1st i was just giving vague answers.
But he started to get agitated so i just made things up on the spot.
Never did i give away any personal information.

He spoke about other wgs in the area i was in - in great details within the booking.
I said i was just here on tour for a few days so i didn’t know any of the local girls personally.
He said he knew - he had done his research on me!

He made the booking very awkward and uncomfortable for me, but he seem oblivious to it.

At the end he said - He had been following my profile my quite some time, and had wanted to come and ‘sample’ me for ages, even though he doesn’t normally go for go for petite girls!’

Just all very creepy and odd!

It was just the worst experience.
He was just so mentally and physically draining.The constant boundary pushing.
I felt like i was being chased round the room, along with the non stop Q & A.
I had to cancel the rest of my bookings for the day.

And then.

Not long after the booking finished i got a call from him.

He said offering him extras could benefit us both. He said he was a ‘well respected member’ of a well known site.

He said his name on there was wakefieldlad13
A positive review from him would definitely boost work from me.

I declined.

This when the conversation took a turn -
He said he was free to write whatever he wanted, and could ‘add lib’.

i asked him what he meant.
He said members believed what members write, and his word was gospel!
i might as well offer him a full service, as thats how he was going to write it up, and if i said any different if wouldn’t end well for me!

He said at the moment i had just a few positives, but that he could make or break my reputation on that site! He had done it to others!

He said he would put on hold writing the review until i was next back in the area, and i should have a think on what ‘extras’ i would offer. Then he ended the call using my real name! (i believe when i left the room he went thru the draws and saw a letter with my real name on it!)

Unfortunately i no longer have his number as i have an old school phone, and his number was overwritten by another.

But i believe he just can’t help himself, and will out himself in hopes of getting ‘extras’

This guy is very Non-descript.
Nothing special.
Yorkshire accent - Lives in Wakefield. Middle aged white guy, dark hair, average height.

He says he does see wgs who offer FS. Will travel, but mostly within West Yorkshire.  I believe he targets wgs who offer mainly massage to see what boundaries he can push. And from a few comments he made take advantage of them.

Horrible man.

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Re: Boundary Pusher - Huddersfield, West Yorkshire
« Reply #1 on: 19 October 2022, 03:03:14 pm »
Can you describe this man, Lois? Then at least any members nearby can keep an eye out for him - he may well have dumped the sim anyway so don't feel too bad about the number.

Was there anything even about his voice or things he said on the phone that might be easy to spot? :)

LoisLux

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Re: Boundary Pusher - Huddersfield, West Yorkshire
« Reply #2 on: 19 October 2022, 06:37:14 pm »
Originally contacted me when i was in Doncaster.
Said he could only do short notice/on the day bookings.
Then called me when i moved over to Huddersfield.
In hindsight the writing was on the wall.
When he booked - he spoke at length. He was very complimentary over my profile pictures, brought up my private gallery.
He did come across as if he was trying to sell himself.
Saying his was early 40’s (in fact he did look like he was pushing 60) clean, very polite, always on time, (he turned up 20 mins early, wanted to make his way up and i told him i was still getting ready so would have to wait.)
He did ask for extras - he said it would be rude not to ask, and money wasn’t an issue - i should just name my price. Which seem to be his catchphrase because he said it throughout the booking.

When i said it was not  something i would offered. He seemed very apologetic, so thought maybe he just got a little carried away.

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Re: Boundary Pusher - Huddersfield, West Yorkshire
« Reply #3 on: 23 October 2022, 03:15:23 pm »
Sorry to read about this LL.
Did he use a name at all?
One of the worst bookings I had was in Huddersfield and I reported it to UM and elsewhere.
I have a full address, but he doesn't match the actual physical description very strongly.