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Author Topic: Boundary pusher (London)  (Read 866 times)

seraphine

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Boundary pusher (London)
« on: 12 May 2018, 11:45:12 am »
I received a NUM alert on this man in the morning, had a really bad feeling about this but brushed it off. He booked me for the evening. The session was horrible and only after he left I checked NUM again and realized it was him.

Physical description: white, English, tall, 50+, bald with grey closely shaved hair, skinny with a belly, wears glasses (clear with black handles), wears casual clothes. Drives a car and is a landlord. Calls himself John.

Behaviour: At first he seems nice and friendly but is very controlling. It felt like he was inspecting the flat. He brought his own massage oil. I could only massage a part of his body, he was giving me instructions all the time, as if he was supervising my work. He constantly kept chatting, was odd but quite funny which was putting me at ease and I told him too much about myself. He talked a lot about many other WGs and I had an impression that he was 'collecting' them, like it was his life. He precisely knows what he likes and what he doesn't like, it has to be his way; he is very rigid.
At the beginning he was very polite and wanted to know what my boundaries are, which was reassuring for me. Only later I realized that he wanted to know it, so he could break them.
He doesn't get hard, doesn't seem to really enjoy human contact or anything erotic even though he puts this friendly front to make you feel more comfortable. Not much capability for intimacy, I would say. What he wants is to control and push boundaries (make you feel uncomfortable, fearful, intimidated). Submit. That's his fun and joy.
I agreed that he gives me a massage because he agreed to my boundaries. He didn't stick to the boundaries and at one point he tried to kiss me, I jumped and was careful that he wouldn't do it again. He kept talking bollocks about making me do things that I don't do. I could have said no at any point but I was just laying there until I faked an orgasm and wanted him to leave, it was way over time. I think that giving a massage is just another technique to make you feel comfortable, trusting and defenseless. He kept stalling, was showing me his phone (I had a feeling that he wanted to take pics of me), tried to kiss me again to which I ducked, when I was literally pushing him out of the flat, he wanted to check other rooms and left annoyed.

He said that he prefers to book independents, because they don't watch time and he prefers evenings when he is the last client.

NUM alert said that he is a stalker and outs people. Number from NUM is 07971808***
Number he contacted me on is 079304513**

Be careful when you happen to come across this psychopath, don't be fooled by his 'friendliness' and don't let him push you boundaries.
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