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Author Topic: Abuse, harassment, red flags - Cardiff,Newport, Bristol and London  (Read 2256 times)

Secret Lou

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5"7 caucasian Welshman with short light brown/greying hair, usually clean shaven. Often wears shorts or sportswear. Based in Cardiff but travels fairly often. Is fine within meetings but afterwards turned up at my house, drives past repeatedly and when I've asked not to stated "it's a public highway" frequent and repeated calls claiming I've led him on. My own fault for not putting a stop to it sooner but still worth keeping in mind. Brazen and confident about approaching me in street/public areas. Huge gaslighter. Told my friend I had invited him over. Often hanging around my workplace, making himself seen by clients. He contacted and followed some clients (he found them on social media) I threatened to report him for harassment but he continues to call sometimes filling my phone with unknown calls so noone else can get through. Won't take no for an answer. Says what I do is his business and he needs to know. I know of 2 other girls (no longer working) who have had similar issues. Has now taken to harassing on social media. Usually contacts via phone or AW. Last week threatened to 'out' me. 079896007**

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Re: Abuse, harassment, red flags - Cardiff,Newport, Bristol and London
« Reply #1 on: 28 March 2019, 09:59:09 am »
Edit to add, slim frame but large beer belly in proportion to the rest of him. Uses the name Alan but its not his real name.

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Re: Abuse, harassment, red flags - Cardiff,Newport, Bristol and London
« Reply #2 on: 10 April 2019, 08:28:00 pm »
Still having issues with this one, turned up at my house now sending abusive emails to another account.

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Re: Abuse, harassment, red flags - Cardiff,Newport, Bristol and London
« Reply #3 on: 07 December 2020, 09:11:29 am »
I'm really disappointed to report that a colleague (I know who) has told this person about this post and he gave me hell over it and demanded for it to be removed. The whole point of these warnings is to keep others safe. If you choose to see a client once informed, that's absolutely valid, but there is never any reason to tell them of warnings.
You can also find multiple reports about him on a well known app, so it's not just me who has had this problem. Please PLEASE do NOT tell clients of posts about them.

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Re: Abuse, harassment, red flags - Cardiff,Newport, Bristol and London
« Reply #4 on: 07 December 2020, 11:40:19 am »
Since nobody can remove threads or posts apart from administrators anyway, he can throw his toys around all he likes and it won't make a blind bit of difference.

And to whoever went a-tattling, have a word with yourself.