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I know I made a lot of dumb mistakes here, I should have realised earlier that he was drunk and not taken the booking, looking back I feel like an idiot. But in case any girls fall for this BS the same way I did, here's the details.

I got an outcall last night to the Holiday Inn Express by the Metro Centre in Gateshead (near Newcastle).

He wasn't local and said he was in town on business, he had a strong Scottish accent so may live in Scotland (but as my boyfriend pointed out to me after, he may live elsewhere but have been born in Scotland, I have no idea). He claimed to have never been to an escort before.

He was white and a fairly large build, slightly overweight but not obese. About average height I would say, would estimate between 5'10 and 6' as he seemed on a level with me in my heels. Pale skin, his hair was very short (almost shaved).

He called to book from a withheld number, I answered and told him he would have to call back from his mobile if he wanted to see me as I don't take bookings from withheld numbers. He then called back from 079470769**. He was indecisive about time and I told him to call me back when he knew his plans - I also told him I had an appointment between 7 and 8 so my phone would be off during that time. After my appointment, surprise surprise, I had 10 missed calls from him.

He called again about 8.15 and said he'd like to see me as soon as possible for an hour, I told him I could be there for 9pm and asked him to text me the details. He mentioned that he was in a pub next to the hotel and asked if I'd like to meet there for a drink first. I said it was entirely up to him but that I wouldn't be drinking as I don't drink alcohol while I'm working. He said he'd text me about 10 to and tell me whether he wanted me to come to the pub or straight up to his room. He also asked repetedly if I would be discrete, I told him I would be dressed smart and conservative and would keep all his details confidential, he seemed happy with that, but did ask it several more times.

He texted me while I was on my way over to say he was in the hotel lobby watching the football and to meet him there. I told him what I was wearing so he could recognize me and then headed into the hotel. There were a LOT of men sitting around watching the football, about 15-20 of them and a group of children as well. I did not know what the client looked like so I walked in and stood at the back and waited to be approached. Nothing. I texted him asking where he was and he texted back saying "here". I texted back "I am here, I'm waiting for you to approach me. I don't know who you are. So much for discrete, everyone is looking at me." That got him to hurry up and he came over from the other side of the bar, no where near the fucking TV.

He seemed very polite and friendly, a little nervous but I expect that from clients who say they haven't been with an escort before. We talked for a minute then headed up to his room. As soon as we got in I realised this was a mistake, there were empty wine bottles everywhere and he wouldn't turn on the lights so the room was very dim. In the small space I realised he smelled strongly of alcohol. He struggled to find his wallet in his coat pocket, and then realised he was ?5 short to pay me. I decided to go ahead with the booking anyway, I'm not sure why I probably should have just left, but I still thought it would be ok as he didn't seem at all aggressive, just a bit unsure of what he was doing.

We got undressed and he asked me to keep my stockings and heels on, then as soon as we'd sat down on the bed he said he wanted us to shower together instead. I took my stockings and heels off and went into the shower room, I asked him to avoid getting my hair and face wet because I wanted to look good for the rest of the appointment so he kept splashing me in the face and dragging me under the water, I got a bit annoyed and suggested we head back through to the bedroom. He also asked me if I was his last booking of the day and I said yes, I'm spending the evening with my boyfriend. He snapped "I don't want to hear the word boyfriend when I've paid for you". I know some guys don't like to hear about relationships and stuff and I don't usually mention it but I thought if he was asking about other bookings he probably wouldn't care about me having a partner as well.

Once we got back to the bed he got very weird, asking me over and over how old I was and saying I was too young for this job (I'm 20). He was really rude about my breasts, kept saying I shouldn't have got them enhanced and that they looked fake, they don't suit me, I should get rid of them, they were a waste of money, etc. I asked him to stop and reminded him that I show myself topless on my profile and that I state on my profile that I am a 32DD enhanced. He backed off and asked me to let him watch me with a toy, I got on with that but was really weirded out by this point so I couldn't orgasm, I faked it and he could tell. He got really nasty again, shouting at me and saying "you are too beautiful to lie" (what?).

He got back onto my age and started saying I should "find something better to do" and that I "was worth more than this" (which explains why he underpaid, right? -_-). He asked me what services I do and when I mentioned anal he went off ranting again about how disgusting it is that I'm doing that for "perverts". He also said "if you'd been 40 I would have been fine with this" and I was like "then why didn't you call a 40 year old escort? I put my age on my profile" and he said "well everyone lies on there" like he knows so much about it. I seriously doubt there's any 40 year olds pretending to be 20.

He obviously wasn't happy so I asked if he'd like me to get dressed and leave and he said no, then came and sat on the bed and leaned on my legs so I couldn't move which I didn't like and I asked him to move, which he eventually did. Then he asked if we could have sex, and I got out a condom and started trying to get him hard, and after about a minute he jumped up and started drinking more wine and ranting about my age and my breasts again. I put the condom away and had a quick look at the time, we only had 10 mins left and I started to get dressed.

He got really whiny and started asking me if we had time for a quickie, I said yes, got the condom out and straight away he was drinking and ranting again, so I put it away and finished getting dressed. At this point there were 4 mins left on the clock and he started whining that he wanted sex, I told him that there wasn't time and it wasn't going to happen and he started asking me if he could book me again next time he was in town. I said yes to keep him happy and got my stuff and got out of there fast.

I've put on my profile now I won't see clients who are drinking at all, even one drink, so I know if they say that they're in a pub or if they're holding a drink when I turn up that I can walk away. Because he honestly seemed sober till we got to the room, just a bit nervous and unsure what to do. The constant personality changes and random aggression really freaked me out. Sorry for the length, I don't know how much of the detail is relevant and how much is just stuff I needed to get out of my head. Definitely one to avoid.
« Last Edit: 06 April 2010, 08:08:08 pm by Krystal Champagne »
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I'm sorry you had to deal with that wanker. :-\ Are you feeling okay about it? The horror can belatedly sneak up on you sometimes! Definitely best to let it all out and maybe even take some time off - unless a favourite reg who always tips calls! :)
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I feel better having put the warning up. My boyfriend was here last night when I got back and I had a chat to him and we ordered pizza. I've gone back to work today and been really busy which has helped a lot to be honest, I saw two regulars this morning, a new client this afternoon and I've got a long booking this evening with a man who seems very businesslike and polite so shouldn't give me any trouble. It's nice to be reminded that this job is a lot of fun most of the time. I've got a day off tomorrow anyway because I'm seeing friends during the day and then I'm having some studio photos taken for my website which should be fun.
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Okay, that's all good to hear! I hope yesterday went well and you had no further problems with anyone. Rereading your first post makes me want to hunt that guy down and punch him in the face! But he's not even important enough to bother and I expect his behaviour will get him into some very messy, painful trouble soon enough on his own so I'm content with that. Glad you're alright! :)
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Krystal, I do hope you're feeling better after this - it must have been horrible. I had a similar upsetting experience years ago in a hotel, and I won't see anyone who has clearly been drinking because however nice they can seem, they are just so unpredictable.

To clarify a couple of things you mentioned, it is fine to post the name of the hotel where you were booked, and it is also helpful to post as much identifying detail about the client as possible - first name and first initial of surname, rough age/height, build, ethnicity, hair colour, scars or tattoos - anything.

Hope your photoshoot went well! :D

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Thanks Amy, I am feeling much better now, my photoshoot was loads of fun and I can't wait to get the pictures later this week, work has been busy and fun, and when I find time for socialising, that's good too. I get pretty upset by stuff like this but I bounce back fast, it doesn't feel scary at all any more though of course I am being more careful! I've changed my profile to say I won't see anyone who has had anything to drink and I will be very strict with that even if they seem sober, I have definitely learned my lesson.

I'll edit my post now with the name of the hotel - I didn't take a name but I'll add a physical description. There wasn't anything majorly useful to identify him by looks though, no tats that I noticed, no piercings, no obvious scars or anything.
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I won't see anyone who has clearly been drinking because however nice they can seem, they are just so unpredictable.

I guess everyone is different...however, I feel that way about anyone who is doing drugs. I had a very similar situation. Guy was still drugged up from the night before and couldn't find his wallet. I never told that story here I dont think...but it was a long one. So deffo no more druggies.

As for drinks, I cant see having 1 or 2 to be alarming. Another poster here wrote about having a glass of chardonnay with a client...I mean, whats more romantic and enchanted than sipping the finest glasses of spirits in the finest hotels? (I know the Holiday Inn Express isn't the finest, but...)

I just think to say that ANYONE who has just 1 drink is going to be a wacko is...a bit extreme. I certainly wouldn't want a client to think that about me. Because everytime I have an incall, I have a drink nearest me.

Nevertheless, Im sure it must have been a frightening experience. And obviously, if he was drunk...then by no means do I condone seeing them.