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Author Topic: Sensual Masseuse required/Tasteful apartment in Southampton/Free accomodation  (Read 18720 times)

ninasouthampton

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We are a new massage establishment opening very soon in a brand new sea view apartment in Southampton (just 90 minutes from London). We are run by an all girl team.

We are looking for an attractive, well presented, English speaking masseuse to join our team on part or full time basis.

« Last Edit: 22 February 2013, 12:48:27 pm by ninasouthampton »

RR

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What, the area that got raided not that long ago?

ladyofthemansion

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Why would the lady have to be attractive if is just massage?



I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

ninasouthampton

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Dear ladyofthemansion,
I have indicated in the subject of my post that it is sensual massage. I would quite agree with you otherwise. Having worked several years as a sensual masseuse, it is clearly an advantage to be attractive or at the very least consider oneself as attractive and be confident how one looks in order to gain regular custom. I would put myself in the latter category (when I have my makeup on and in adequately low level lighting!) If you take some time to look at the website too, the nature of the massages is obvious.

Dear RR,
West Quay is a really lovely area on the harbour and I am not aware of any raids??? Are you familiar with Southampton? For arguments sake, even if there were, our business would not be targeted.

Nina
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Nobody Interesting

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For arguments sake, even if there were, our business would not be targeted.


I wouldn't be so cocky sure myself.

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RR

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Dear RR,
West Quay is a really lovely area on the harbour and I am not aware of any raids??? Are you familiar with Southampton? For arguments sake, even if there were, our business would not be targeted.


Really? Ocean Village was only 3 months ago.

And a 'massage parlour' won't be the target? Really, I wonder if thats what Fellowberrys thought too when they were raided in summer 2012.

I don't need to be familiar with Southampton; I do however prefer to be familiar with UK law and whilst I was born at night, it certainly wasn't last night. A quick look of your website and its certainly like no massage I've ever had. Any well heeled hooker knows they're an incall rate - or semi intelligent CID... Incidentally, all I did was google 'Southampton brothel raids'.

Or as you state yourself, 'the nature... is obvious'.

ninasouthampton

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Hi Holly, RR,
One can never be completely sure, you are right. But I am pretty sure because I've done my homework and I have the experience behind me. I know full well about Ocean Village and EXACTLY why it went down. It is necessary to be confident and self-assured when you invest time and money in to a business... otherwise I wouldn't be setting this up. There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance and it's your  prerogative if you feel I've stepped over it. I've invested a lot of my hard earned money as a masseuse in to the apartment, massage beds, decor, furniture, lighting, music system, etc. and location is one thing I did a lot of research about. RR, there is a distinct difference between Ocean Village's set up and ours but the most salient is that we will not be offering escort services (FACT) and our website does NOT suggest otherwise.
Nina

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..... there is a distinct difference between Ocean Village's set up and ours but the most salient is that we will not be offering escort services (FACT) and our website does NOT suggest otherwise.
Nina

I really would not assume that just because you don't offer escort services you won't be targetted.  I agree with HollyC you really are not coming accross well, your manner so far is very offputting and pompous and would I think alienate a lot of girls from contacting you.

ninasouthampton

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Hello Nameless,
I'm sorry you feel that way (really) but I do feel that's a bit judgemental. I believe I have good manners and I firmly believe what goes around comes around so I try my best to be good and fair to people in my life and also to those who are not.  And due to strict parental upbringing in my formative years, I am incapable of lying... perhaps that's why I'm squinty! All I've tried to do is give honest replies and I will readily accept any criticism and try to learn from it. I am sure everybody on this forum knows there are risks attached to massage work and escort work including raids. I have learnt that putting an ad up in the spamming den is a pretty redundant exercise so I have amended my post. I will stick to word of mouth. I'm still happy to contribute to the forum and hope I can do in some meaningful way... because I appreciate what it is for now.
Nina
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« Last Edit: 22 February 2013, 01:11:31 pm by ninasouthampton »

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Hello Nameless,
I'm sorry you feel that way (really) but I do feel that's a bit judgemental. I believe I have good manners and I firmly believe what goes around comes around so I try my best to be good and fair to people in my life and also to those who are not.  Nina
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We all form judgements continually but judgmental.....no I was just being honest (in a very polite way I may add) as you say you were. Honesty is a two way street after all.

But I'm bowing out of this thread as this is all getting a bit pointless.

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I just asked someone who is a copper (I know, I know) to look at the site

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After he finished talking about the slightly odd area around where the lady's arm meets her bust...

He then said that as a man and also as a law enforcer, he would see the site as potentially offering sexual massages as well as sensual ones.

Maybe if you wish to ensure other men and indeed law enforcers do not view it as he does, you need to change a few things on your site? It will not stop an eye being kept on you, but it will help you attract the right sort of customers surely?

I appreciate that I know NOTHING of massage, nor actually anything about escorting really, but just a word to the wise, based on what a man perceived your site to be.   
« Last Edit: 08 March 2013, 06:34:24 pm by Nobody Interesting »
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ninasouthampton

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Thanks Holly. Points noted gratefully and I will be getting the site amended. We do not/will not offer sexual services and I am duty bound to make sure customers do not expect extras or waste police time in what would be a pointless raid!

Nameless, I completely agree with you and hope we cross paths on the forum again :)

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« Last Edit: 22 February 2013, 01:40:29 pm by ninasouthampton »

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He then said that as a man and also as a law enforcer, he would see the site as potentially offering sexual massages as well as sensual ones.

I agree,  it looks like a semi high-class escort business posing as a "tantric massage" place to avoid problems. I would definately tone it down (the website) and give it a more "holistic look/approach"  in order to gain some "massage credibility".
« Last Edit: 22 February 2013, 02:41:39 pm by Ana30 »
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Nina, if your massages include a sexual service such as hand relief, you are running a brothel and just as liable to prosecution for this as the people running the cathouse up the road (or one of us sharing her flat, and so on).

If you are only offering straightforward massage (such I would go for at a spa), then I would ask a: in what way is it 'sensual' (ie. constituting a sexual service in the eyes of the law) and b: why are you advertising on a sex workers forum?

ninasouthampton

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Amy, thank you for your post.

It's my strict intention to remain within the boundaries of the law so in that respect I would be grateful for your further advice.
It's not a straight forward massage, it's a sensual one but there is no hand relief, in fact no touching of the genitals (I know it's something I need to make clear on the website).  There is a market for this, I know from my own experience in London. There is body to body contact though. In the eyes of the law, does that constitute prostitution? And if it does, then would I be within the boundary of the law if only one masseuse stayed and conducted massages on the premises?

With reference to your last question, it was a mistake to be advertising on a sex workers forum, a stupid error, agreed.
« Last Edit: 23 February 2013, 01:44:27 pm by ninasouthampton »