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Adverts => Spamming in the Lion's Den => Topic started by: xpersuasions on 24 May 2013, 12:51:24 pm
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We provide classified directory and resume posting services for people who are in or want to be in the adult entertainment business,
Since many escorts and people in general also do other types of work in the adult industry this would be a great place to make new friends, we have three type of services, and we would like to include the UK in our classifieds, we are based in the U.S.
Jobseekers:
( talent, dancers, models, webcam, PSO, companion, etc) doesn't matter what your gender or sexual orientation. ( we are not a escort directory or allow the escort ad usual type wording in profile, but you can select you're a companion or have prior experience as one and looking to find work with a agency)
We also provide classified services for those who provide services or hire people in the industry,
Employers/Services:
(webdesigners, photographers, makeup artist etc.) or those that hire people in the industry ( production companies, producers, webcam, phone sex,text companies etc. escort agencies)
And for those that really want to meet people in the industry (not a escort relationship, no pay for play ads allowed)
Admirers:
Those who just admire them and really want a real relationship with someone, not just a sexual one but a real ,open and honest relationship,
if you can use any of our services please visit us and post a profile, free to join
http://www.xpersuasions.com (http://www.xpersuasions.com)
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And for those that really want to meet people in the industry (not a escort relationship, no pay for play ads allowed)
Admirers:
Those who just admire them and really want a real relationship with someone, not just a sexual one but a real ,open and honest relationship,
You have a directory section for stalkers?
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No not at all, If someone wants to be a stalker they can do that much easier on their own, without leaving a trail.
so please let's not make up things, or take things out of context.
You see if someone is being a problem you can simply block them, also you can report people to site management and they can be banned. also you have to join just to view someone profile info, so if you're not a Jobseeker or Employer/Services that makes you a admirer of the adult industry, if you weren't why would you be on the site wanting to view profiles.
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You know there are some people who don't mind having a real and honest relationship with someone who works in the adult industry, this is for them, I found that a lot of ladies in the adult business really don't have relationships with someone that understands their job choices. please take a look at the site, and see what it's about,
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It's hardly out of context is it? You posted it as part of your ad, after all.
The fault is with the unfortunate wording - I doubt very much I was the only person who read that line and wondered what sort of people that was going to attract? Maybe if it said '...meet other people in the industry' it would sound a bit less like a free-for-all for those who think we're going to finish a hard day's whoring and then start dishing freebies out to randoms.
As for the last part, if it's not intended for ' pay for play' ads, why are you posting about it on a prostitution forum? I'm not saying there won't be people somewhere who would be interested, but I doubt they're hanging around here.
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It's hardly out of context is it? You posted it as part of your ad, after all.
The fault is with the unfortunate wording - I doubt very much I was the only person who read that line and wondered what sort of people that was going to attract? Maybe if it said '...meet other people in the industry' it would sound a bit less like a free-for-all for those who think we're going to finish a hard day's whoring and then start dishing freebies out to randoms.
As for the last part, if it's not intended for ' pay for play' ads, why are you posting about it on a prostitution forum? I'm not saying there won't be people somewhere who would be interested, but I doubt they're hanging around here.
I read that and thought the same. I then read your comment and nearly inhaled a pringle. Your way with words is going to be the death of me ;D
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You know there are some people who don't mind having a real and honest relationship with someone who works in the adult industry, this is for them, I found that a lot of ladies in the adult business really don't have relationships with someone that understands their job choices. please take a look at the site, and see what it's about,
I know that, poppet - I've been very happily attached to one of them for a considerable number of years.
It's you who apparently thinks that we should be treated like a separate species that can't meet potential partners in the library or the supermarket and instead ought to be paraded like specimens for people who reckon to 'understand our job choices', the implication being that nobody else would be fool enough to come anywhere near us. If I thought somebody had made a concerted effort to find and approach me just because they wanted to go out with a prossie rather than because of what I'm like as a person, I would run a bloody mile. Who are these people?
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It's hardly out of context is it? You posted it as part of your ad, after all.
The fault is with the unfortunate wording - I doubt very much I was the only person who read that line and wondered what sort of people that was going to attract? Maybe if it said '...meet other people in the industry' it would sound a bit less like a free-for-all for those who think we're going to finish a hard day's whoring and then start dishing freebies out to randoms.
As for the last part, if it's not intended for ' pay for play' ads, why are you posting about it on a prostitution forum? I'm not saying there won't be people somewhere who would be interested, but I doubt they're hanging around here.
Amy you got to step out of the whore board world and smell the roses, and the first sentence of the original post explains it clearly why I posted on a prostitution forum, some prostitute do more that just prostitute, this is for them.
I fully understand that some people only view things a particular hue.
also you speak about handing out freebies, unless the only people you have a intimate relationship with is clients for pay, you may have someone in your life you're being intimate with without the play for pay aspect, unless you're just alone otherwise when you not working. not everyone wants to be a prostitute 100% of the time
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You know there are some people who don't mind having a real and honest relationship with someone who works in the adult industry, this is for them, I found that a lot of ladies in the adult business really don't have relationships with someone that understands their job choices. please take a look at the site, and see what it's about,
I know that, poppet - I've been very happily attached to one of them for a considerable number of years.
It's you who apparently thinks that we should be treated like a separate species that can't meet potential partners in the library or the supermarket and instead ought to be paraded like specimens for people who reckon to 'understand our job choices', the implication being that nobody else would be fool enough to come anywhere near us. If I thought somebody had made a concerted effort to find and approach me just because they wanted to go out with a prossie rather than because of what I'm like as a person, I would run a bloody mile. Who are these people?
here here!!!
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It's you who apparently thinks that we should be treated like a separate species that can't meet potential partners in the library or the supermarket and instead ought to be paraded like specimens for people who reckon to 'understand our job choices', the implication being that nobody else would be fool enough to come anywhere near us. If I thought somebody had made a concerted effort to find and approach me just because they wanted to go out with a prossie rather than because of what I'm like as a person, I would run a bloody mile. Who are these people?
Let me ask you something, do the people you meet in the library or supermarket know what you do when they first meet you, what happens when they find out, for the everything turns out lovely stories, I'm sure there are many more that turned to tears. also remember the site is more that just people that work in this world, it's inclusive of the entire adult industry, and this is just a part of it, not every person in the industry is a prostitute, there are ladies that do porn, model,dance,webcam, etc, but don't work in this profession
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Amy you got to step out of the whore board world and smell the roses, and the first sentence of the original post explains it clearly why I posted on a prostitution forum, some prostitute do more that just prostitute, this is for them.
I fully understand that some people only view things a particular hue.
also you speak about handing out freebies, unless the only people you have a intimate relationship with is clients for pay, you may have someone in your life you're being intimate with without the play for pay aspect, unless you're just alone otherwise when you not working. not everyone wants to be a prostitute 100% of the time
Firstly, any more ridiculous attempts to patronise me or any of our other members and you will be banned without another warning. You are a guest here, and whilst we're tolerating you for now, you have no place on this 'whore board' other than one thread to try and tout your wares to the legitimate, hardworking people who make up our genuine users. Apart from anything else, if you're going to be condescending, it helps an awful lot to be in a position from which to condescend.
Since you obviously missed/chose to ignore my last post, I will point out again that the only people who think we are unable or not deserving enough to meet non-work partners completely outside a work setting is you. You are contradicting yourself - in one sentence we are not prostitutes/'adult industry workers' 24 hours a day, but in another we're supposed to look for non-work/adult industry partners on a dedicated adult industry site? Do us a favour.
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Let me ask you something, do the people you meet in the library or supermarket know what you do when they first meet you, what happens when they find out, for the everything turns out lovely stories, I'm sure there are many more that turned to tears. also remember the site is more that just people that work in this world, it's inclusive of the entire adult industry, and this is just a part of it, not every person in the industry is a prostitute, there are ladies that do porn, model,dance,webcam, etc, but don't work in this profession
No, of course they don't - I leave my placard in the cloakroom because it's a pain in the arse to carry around indoors. They know if and when they ask, just as they would if I was a cleaner, a nurse, a soldier or a shop assistant.
It's worth remembering that we are not criminalised in the UK as we are in the US, and I have no reason whatsoever to lie - others may feel differently and that is up to them, but there is a hell of a gap between that and creating a resource for people who specifically want to meet us because we have sex for living. That's just fucked up, and it would be equally fucked up if it was for people who only wanted to meet florists, trapeze artists or pilots.
This is an industry forum specifically set up and run for, and by, prostitutes - people who have sex with strangers in exchange for money - and nobody else. If you want to post here, please concentrate on what your site offers to those members in terms of helping them improve their business in some way. If you can't do that, I'm locking this thread - the personal lives of our members have no place being picked apart in an advertising post.
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I think you like making controversy where there is none
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I think you like making controversy where there is none
Not at all - I've had a busy day and I can do without having to read this drivel. But this forum is aimed at newbies to the industry, and it is important to all of us here that they see these sites for what they are so they don't waste their time at best, and endanger themselves at worst.
From the section rules:
5. Be prepared for your site to be critiqued by the members here. If you're serious about your work, you won't mind.
If you didn't read it, I suggest you do.
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I read it long before I posted anything, I expected it, and I wasn't disappointed
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Then maybe you can try to stay on topic now. Excellent.
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as you like it
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I find it such a shame that you need to come to a "whore board" to try and find work. Seems like you dont have a very high opinion of workjng girls- you know as we need to find men through you who want morethan sex?
I dknt see why anyone here would read what youvd wrote jn this thread and think oh, she sounds brilliant. I will use her services.
I certajnly will not.
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Sorry if i offended, apologies
whore board is what we say in the U.S. sometimes, no one has a issue with it when used, sorry for the cultural insensitivity.
it really odd that people are hung up on that one section of the site, if you really took the time to view it instead of just reading this thread you would know that it's a option, which you can choose to access or not. and that section is for more then just for dating, sorry I have to repeat this, if you're not a Jobseeker, or Employer/Services, your going to have to be a Admirer if you want to view profile info.