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Dani The Masseuse

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Men with poor hygiene
« on: 19 October 2024, 09:01:25 am »
I've been working in the industry for many years and I have found that white men (I am white) have such poor hygiene! I don't find this with my Indian and Muslim clients,  they are usually clean as a whistle but the white men seem to have no clue! Even if they look clean, I'll always get a whiff of s**t. I've even had them have a s**t in the bathroom, no shower, and expect a service.  Anyone else experience this?  I do offer a shower but they don't always take me up on it.

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Re: Men with poor hygiene
« Reply #1 on: 19 October 2024, 09:43:05 am »
Please keep responses general and avoid racial and religious profiling. Do you mean shit?

Dani The Masseuse

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Re: Men with poor hygiene
« Reply #2 on: 19 October 2024, 10:23:37 am »
It's not racial profiling. It's just my experience that white men have the poorest hygiene. Yes, they smell of shit, they shit in the bathroom and are generally the dirtiest race. I find this interesting as I am white and I've always been surprised at how dirty they are. This is over 20 years of working in the industry,  in more than one country. So it's something that stands out for me. Also  I have seen girls post on this site that they will only see white British men, not even poc that have been born in the UK and I'm interested that they are so narrow minded, and if they are aware that out of all the races, the white men are the dirtiest. 

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Re: Men with poor hygiene
« Reply #3 on: 19 October 2024, 10:55:54 am »
I worked in a massage parlour and noticed that taxi drivers were the worst. The change of shift/handover of car was 7 am/pm and it was almost guaranteed that between 7pm and 8pm you'd get drivers coming in after a 12 hour shift and they'd have the most stinking balls and smell of ass sweat from sitting down all day.

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Re: Men with poor hygiene
« Reply #4 on: 19 October 2024, 11:09:12 am »
Attributing a characteristic or set of characteristics - positive or negative - to an otherwise diverse group of people for no reason other than their shared ethnic background is dictionary definition racism/racial profiling, and will not be tolerated here.

Back on topic, I have very few problems with unhygienic or smelly punters (nothing at all which correlates with race, and I'd say at least half of my clients are not white), but if I had to make any sort of generalisation I would say that older punters are more likely to have worse hygiene than younger. Normally this amounts to just smelling a bit 'stale' including breath (which I think is often lack of hydration), but I've had a couple years ago who told me they didn't use anti perspirant or deodorant 'because of the chemicals' and were absolutely fucking rank as a result  :-X

It's worth remembering that people who are only rarely physically intimate with others will often not realise that there's a big difference between being OK to go round Aldi and OK to be unclothed and having sex in a confined space, and often don't know how to shower properly either. I've witnessed a few just standing under the water with their arms hanging by their sides and had to tell them to scrub their underarms properly with hot water and soap like a bloody teacher.
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Re: Men with poor hygiene
« Reply #5 on: 19 October 2024, 05:43:55 pm »
I don’t see how race comes into this

I’ve had smelly clients of all ages and races .


I do find though that Indian men for some reason seem to produce more pre cum

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Re: Men with poor hygiene
« Reply #6 on: 19 October 2024, 06:23:08 pm »
I've also been in business for decades - 3 - and I've met disgustingly dirty-smelling guys from all backgrounds, including Muslim and Asian. i just don't think you can generalise based on race.

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Re: Men with poor hygiene
« Reply #7 on: 19 October 2024, 07:35:23 pm »

This is an easy fix for me nowadays.  I just embarass the hell out of any client who has poor hygiene.  I coddle them like a mum and get them in the shower and wash them myself while talking to them about the basics of washing properly.

I had one client who had bits of toilet paper stuck to his bum and I came right out and said, "How can you not feel that paper rubbing against your arse?  Come on - under the water you go!"  I get a an actual scrubbing brush and go to town!
My little revenge tactic I guess.   

Agreed that the younger men are more hygenic nowadays than the older ones.  They are clean and smell divine.  I attribute it to the instagram and tik tok phenomenon.


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Re: Men with poor hygiene
« Reply #8 on: 20 October 2024, 03:14:34 pm »
I rarely encounter poor hygiene I do encounter bodyspray very close to genitals, I also encounter lack of knowledge about jock itch. Whenever I see this I usually educate and advise. One punter scrupulously clean had been frantically scrubbing it and using Sudacreme without success. Another a long term regular who suddenly developed it, was incredibly embarrassed, took action immediately next time absolutely fine.

Whilst on tour a tour regular left a towel and bathmat stinking to high heaven, I missed housekeeping that day and the towel was so bad I couldn't bring myself to take it to reception. I double bagged it, and hid it.  Getting it out to leave for room service was awful, I was really embarrassed. When he enquired about my next tour I explained I had to tell him because I couldn't risk this happening again. I also mentioned another minor niggle that I wouldn't have done normally, but when in combination with a few other things (I've been very patient and understanding,  accommodating with him) it had to be mentioned. Although I did this gentley, he is too embarrassed to book again.

At least these acknowledge, the situation I describe 're the towel did make me hesitate before raising subsequent other client issues, but they were absolutely fine, they just want to make everything right and continue booking.

Probably another topic but does anyone else see jock itch on clients,  before I knew what it was I had a repeat client for perhaps 2 years who definitely had this. If I knew then what I know now I would have give him the antifungal treatment advice. I do always stipulate I'm not medically qualified, and ask a few questions about it advice consulting a pharmacist or other medical professional if possible.

What does annoy are the few who deny or don't believe me when I mention hygiene problems, I had to photograph one man's cock because he couldn't see it and was telling me had showered. I believe he had showered but he hasn't cleaned under his foreskin, and couldn't see because of his body size. The first time I encountered this underforeskin issue was however with a slim man, a long time ago I used wipes but it wasn't enough and I had to stop. Around this time I also had a repeat booked who obviously didn't shower or launder his clothes regularly, one good shower wasn't enough to get a week or more off him and his clothes hummed. Combined with being difficult to make arrangements with, I told him I couldn't accept any more bookings from him.

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On the whole majority do not have any hygiene issues, the examples above are across 16 years in the biz. One of the regulars I mentioned who developed JI, has probably had 100 bookings, once had a bit of bum smell which I was able to mention and rectified immediately then the JI. He is a human being, reliable, never overstays, books , enjoys his time, goes. No hassle.

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Re: Men with poor hygiene
« Reply #9 on: 20 October 2024, 04:58:39 pm »
I rarely encounter poor hygiene I do encounter bodyspray very close to genitals, I also encounter lack of knowledge about jock itch. Whenever I see this I usually educate and advise. One punter scrupulously clean had been frantically scrubbing it and using Sudacreme without success. Another a long term regular who suddenly developed it, was incredibly embarrassed, took action immediately next time absolutely fine.

Whilst on tour a tour regular left a towel and bathmat stinking to high heaven, I missed housekeeping that day and the towel was so bad I couldn't bring myself to take it to reception. I double bagged it, and hid it.  Getting it out to leave for room service was awful, I was really embarrassed. When he enquired about my next tour I explained I had to tell him because I couldn't risk this happening again. I also mentioned another minor niggle that I wouldn't have done normally, but when in combination with a few other things (I've been very patient and understanding,  accommodating with him) it had to be mentioned. Although I did this gentley, he is too embarrassed to book again.

At least these acknowledge, the situation I describe 're the towel did make me hesitate before raising subsequent other client issues, but they were absolutely fine, they just want to make everything right and continue booking.

Probably another topic but does anyone else see jock itch on clients,  before I knew what it was I had a repeat client for perhaps 2 years who definitely had this. If I knew then what I know now I would have give him the antifungal treatment advice. I do always stipulate I'm not medically qualified, and ask a few questions about it advice consulting a pharmacist or other medical professional if possible.

What does annoy are the few who deny or don't believe me when I mention hygiene problems, I had to photograph one man's cock because he couldn't see it and was telling me had showered. I believe he had showered but he hasn't cleaned under his foreskin, and couldn't see because of his body size. The first time I encountered this underforeskin issue was however with a slim man, a long time ago I used wipes but it wasn't enough and I had to stop. Around this time I also had a repeat booked who obviously didn't shower or launder his clothes regularly, one good shower wasn't enough to get a week or more off him and his clothes hummed. Combined with being difficult to make arrangements with, I told him I couldn't accept any more bookings from him.

BUT

On the whole majority do not have any hygiene issues, the examples above are across 16 years in the biz. One of the regulars I mentioned who developed JI, has probably had 100 bookings, once had a bit of bum smell which I was able to mention and rectified immediately then the JI. He is a human being, reliable, never overstays, books , enjoys his time, goes. No hassle.

I won't put up with it anymore. Designer clothes, expensive aftershave and smelly cocks and arses. I use disposable towels so I don't have to bother with hotel towels and I can bin them. Don't have to raid the hotel trolleys either.

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Re: Men with poor hygiene
« Reply #10 on: 21 October 2024, 07:59:35 am »
I don’t get many stinksters, but my favourites in terms of hygiene are men of any ethnicity who are circumcised as you know the penis will be squeaky clean and no chance of any surprise under the  foreskin😷

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Re: Men with poor hygiene
« Reply #11 on: 21 October 2024, 08:10:42 pm »
I educate them… just because someone has to : ) … - example - 4pm in the afternoon have a booking, I ask would you like to have a shower - answer is no I’ve had one today - I ask when - this morning lol - I simply tell them as it is - you’ve peed how many times today, sat in a car for few hours? Went for nr2? - you have stinky balls and cock - would you like to have an amazing experience or in and out experience / they always end up having a shower : ) … thankfully I Dont get super stinky ones maybe on a couple of occasions and these were told to leave with a good explanation why and I gave them a free soap as a present : )