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mrgoodhead

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looking for lady to work with in surrey/kent
« on: 22 March 2011, 04:27:17 pm »
i'm a mature male working in surrey and kent.

I generally work solo but get occasional demand from a client for a lady partner.

Anyone interested?


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Re: looking for lady to work with in surrey/kent
« Reply #1 on: 22 March 2011, 04:34:02 pm »
Assuming you realise that you will have to pay this lady her usual going rate for seeing multiple clients, I would suggest that your best bet might be to head straight for AW (other directories are available ;D) and just send out a few emails?

That said, in order to avoid (possible, though unlikely) bothersome brothelkeeping offences, it's probably better if you let your client do it, although not many women are likely to agree to seeing two men at the same time unless she has met both of you before - I know I wouldn't. In the infinitessimal chance that you may actually get a female client, many ladies also display 'couples' rates on their ads too.
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Re: looking for lady to work with in surrey/kent
« Reply #2 on: 22 March 2011, 04:47:06 pm »
Assuming you realise that you will have to pay this lady her usual going rate for seeing multiple clients, I would suggest that your best bet might be to head straight for AW (other directories are available ;D) and just send out a few emails?

This is indeed your best bet, apart from just waiting politely for a female escort to approach you should she need someone to work with (this is the best plan!). But if you go searching on Adultwork for female escorts to proposition, could you do us all a favour and read every profile thoroughly before sending your email? For example, my profile does not say, "I am looking for male escorts to contact me about working together" and I would, therefore, prefer not to receive emails from such. It is irritating and off-putting. So in order for you to get the best results, you must make sure only to email the escorts who state clearly that they are looking for someone like you. Thanks!
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Re: looking for lady to work with in surrey/kent
« Reply #3 on: 22 March 2011, 04:53:18 pm »
Assuming you realise that you will have to pay this lady her usual going rate for seeing multiple clients, I would suggest that your best bet might be to head straight for AW (other directories are available ;D) and just send out a few emails?

This is indeed your best bet, apart from just waiting politely for a female escort to approach you should she need someone to work with (this is the best plan!). But if you go searching on Adultwork for female escorts to proposition, could you do us all a favour and read every profile thoroughly before sending your email? For example, my profile does not say, "I am looking for male escorts to contact me about working together" and I would, therefore, prefer not to receive emails from such. It is irritating and off-putting. So in order for you to get the best results, you must make sure only to email the escorts who state clearly that they are looking for someone like you. Thanks!

I'm not bothered provided they don't try to quibble with my rates - a punter is a punter is a punter. I would be inclined to not mention the 'I'm a male escort!' bit at all, tbh - just make out that you are after an MMF (and find a lady who offers this, obviously) and if necessary explain to your client that you are both going to have to book 'one to ones' with the lady beforehand - maybe you could offer him a small discount off your fee for this, but it shouldn't be necessary as most will understand our need for security during these appointments. Seemples.


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Re: looking for lady to work with in surrey/kent
« Reply #4 on: 22 March 2011, 05:07:52 pm »
Assuming you realise that you will have to pay this lady her usual going rate for seeing multiple clients, I would suggest that your best bet might be to head straight for AW (other directories are available ;D) and just send out a few emails?

That said, in order to avoid (possible, though unlikely) bothersome brothelkeeping offences, it's probably better if you let your client do it, although not many women are likely to agree to seeing two men at the same time unless she has met both of you before ...


The plan is to at least meet the lady beforehand and see if we 'gel' first

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Re: looking for lady to work with in surrey/kent
« Reply #5 on: 31 March 2011, 03:12:20 pm »
To be honest, no female escort I know would be interested in meeting up for a 'getting to know you session' to see if you gel, without being paid for her time. Definately not on the basis of  'maybe this will lead to a booking'.

I agree with the booking advice above, and I would add that it's probably best to wait until you have an actual booking request, so the escort you approach doesn't think you are a time waster . Believe it or not I get so many guys emailing me with similar enquiries that are not genuine.

I am sure the escort you book, when the situation arises, will be experienced in this type of thing and will be professional and make sure the client has a good time, regardless of whether you and her are bff's, because cash is the incentive here, remember!

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Re: looking for lady to work with in surrey/kent
« Reply #6 on: 31 March 2011, 03:27:30 pm »
....Cash is my incentive anyway  :)

Another thing I just thought of was that I have done FFM bookings with girls I didn't know, and then became friends with them after. For me I would rather meet duo partners this way.

The reason being, I am good friends with 2 girls I met during working in parlours, but having become friends first, the idea of doing sexy stuff with them is too weird and I can't duo with them as I would probably end up in fits of giggles instead of being sexy!! Again, that is just me though