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Arnie85

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looking for female to work with in colchester
« on: 30 October 2012, 05:41:00 pm »
Im 27yrs old male living  (Colchester essex)  alone in flat, can drive. Looking for a female who would like to work and live or just work together as a couple or use the premises for business on her own. Flat is in highwoods, colchester, essex. Got parking space few miles from A12. For more info please email to kamasutriukas@yahoo.com P.S. Open for any sugestion.

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Re: looking for female to work with in colchester
« Reply #1 on: 30 October 2012, 05:46:02 pm »
Arnie, I'll leave this post up but I think you're being very optimistic - generally if you're going to have sex with prostitutes you have to pay us like everybody else. There is a minimal amount of work for MF escort 'couples', but most of us would be offering this service with our regular partners, not random chancers off the internet and if (as I suspect) you'd thought it might be a way into sex work I think you're going to be sorely disappointed.

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Re: looking for female to work with in colchester
« Reply #2 on: 30 October 2012, 06:16:19 pm »
Thank you for advise Amy.  :) I always was optimistic cant do anything with that. Its not about free sex (as long i like sex very much but...) its just get into that and make some extra money. If not this ill try another.
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Re: looking for female to work with in colchester
« Reply #3 on: 30 October 2012, 06:49:13 pm »
Hi Arnie,

I'm working as a male escort in Notting Hill, london and doing ok. I average 1-2 clients a day for 100 for incalls and 150 for outcalls. Some days 0 clients. 3 or 4 is about the most I can do. My clients are almost always men, very rarely under 30 years old, usually much older, usually bi curious and often married rather than out and proud gay. I occasionally get couples but these can be hard work as the man is usually much more into it than the woman. I spend about ?500 a month on advertising via various websites and magazines. If you want to be busy as a male escort you have to advertise a lot, be fairly good looking, have good photos, have at least 8 inches and be able to get hard and stay hard for men you're not remotely attracted to (1/4 pill of kamagra 30 mins before booking helps). If you're going to do this, don't ever touch drugs. I've seen too many escorts end up working to support a habit and if it gets that way you'll say yes to bareback when you're desperate for a fix. Take security seriously. See the main website for more info. And take care of yourself psychologically. Best thing is to be friends with other escorts so you can talk openly when you need to. I have found some transsexual and female escorts to do duos with. I get quite a few enquiries about this but not that many bookings as it's my rate plus her's so it gets expensive for anyone to go from enquiring (fantasy) to actually booking (reality). It's hard to find female escorts willing to do duos. No idea what business is like in Colchester but if I can help you with anything, ask me here or pm me.

good luck,

Michael


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Re: looking for female to work with in colchester
« Reply #4 on: 30 October 2012, 07:02:14 pm »
Thank you very much Mychael. London is london but here is still ok i think. Hope ill find a female and we can work together cose im not so much into gay thing mate. And thank you again for your advise mate.

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Re: looking for female to work with in colchester
« Reply #5 on: 30 October 2012, 07:23:19 pm »
Arnie, this doesn't make sense - even if you found somebody to do these couples bookings with (and the noun for a female adult is WOMAN), your clients will still be men? They won't all expect you to get intimate with them, but a fair few will. I don't understand the scenario you're envisaging - are you saying you think a female prostitute should get into a situation where she is interacting sexually with two men but only being paid by one of them? How does that work?

I would strongly recommend you read the 'straight male escorts' thread, and hopefully somebody who isn't on a phone will link to it.
« Last Edit: 30 October 2012, 07:34:00 pm by amy »

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Re: looking for female to work with in colchester
« Reply #6 on: 30 October 2012, 07:36:52 pm »
http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=506.msg92424#msg92424


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Re: looking for female to work with in colchester
« Reply #7 on: 30 October 2012, 09:57:43 pm »
You're welcome Arnie. As per Amy's post and the straight male escort thread, there's almost no demand and all the 'agencies' are scams.

The woman I usually do duo appointments with is a good friend of mine so she doesn't charge double. Those bookings are usually 4 handed massage and some oral, sometimes the guy is bi, sometimes wants to just watch me with her, or me to watch etc but I'd never expect her to take a booking that involved say an hour of non stop DP especially at the same rate as her 1-1 bookings.

Sorry for the use of the word 'female', Amy. I meant no disrespect. Just force of habit from using the word in the escort context but I understand it's a word better left in zoology text books.

Thought about webcamming? Either solo or as a couple if you know a woman who'd be up for it. Try adultwork. The clients would still all be men though..

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« Reply #8 on: 30 October 2012, 10:30:41 pm »
Sorry for the use of the word 'female', Amy. I meant no disrespect. Just force of habit from using the word in the escort context but I understand it's a word better left in zoology text books.

Thought about webcamming? Either solo or as a couple if you know a woman who'd be up for it. Try adultwork. The clients would still all be men though..

Oh, it wasn't you I was objecting to, it was Arnie's repeated description of individual women as 'females' rather than the perfectly correct use of the word to describe a characteristic of something else (female escort, female bunny rabbit, female tyrannosaur and so forth). I'm not even convinced it's a hard and fast grammatical rule but as you say, it's generally pretty derogatory when applied to humans, at least.

Anyway, roughly back on topic I agree that the webcamming might be a plan - there do seem to be a few on AW with some feedbacks. If you're still reading Arnie, maybe check out the camming section here? :)

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Re: looking for female to work with in colchester
« Reply #9 on: 01 November 2012, 10:44:57 am »
Thank you guys for your advices very much and sorry if you think im rude but im not, sorry again if what offends.