Just home from a wasted trip, down time and expenses.

So this Waster goes by the name of Tony, he sounds about in his twenties/early thirties, confident on the phone, talks quite fast. He uses 2 numbers one withheld which he says is his work phone but offers before being asked to provide his own mobile.

Tonights events. Tony phoned this afternoon looking for an outcall this evening to his home address.

As I'm getting ready to leave i text to make sure appointments still on, no reply.

After a second text also gets no reply I phone and the number is engaged.

20 minutes later he calls apologising he was on the phone, fair enough.

so i make the taxi and 2 train rides to the address he gives me.

He phoned once to check i was still on my way

he phones again offers to meet me at train station which i always decline, he gives me clear directions to his house which is about 5/10 minutes walk from station.

Arrive at a dark house, no answer too doorbell

I ring his number several times and let it ring for a long time, no answer, no response to text confirming door number.

Eventually it just said not possible to connect (guessing he just turned his phone off)

I text my partner who then phones and stays on the phone as i head back to station, the station itself is basic so Instead of waiting there i grab a taxi.

Funnily enough Ive not heard from tony at at all.

Yes I am furious, what he got out if it I'll never no 

Other things too note he asked about PVC leather (checked several time i had brought PVC skirt as promised and asked me to wear a short skirt), and asked about watersports even though i don't offer that.

I have the address and mobile number if any ladies in the area want it just pm me 

It's really rubbish when this happens, but do you know about the location checks that most of us do to avoid these situations? It doesn't sound like you did any in this case, and if you're going somewhere alone and relying on someone knowing where you are, it's important for your security as well as your sanity that you know your client is at the address he's given you.

What checks? You mean things like landline number? I guess i could start asking for that for home addresses but when I personally dont even own a home phone i guess its one i dont think of. I know what signs I look for in timewasters and though there were a few unsettling moments all the other boxes were ticked. Its only the second time its happend and luckily in terms of my safety i do have a partner looking out for me too.

Oddly only minutes before hes initial call another timewaster called and i knew he was a timewaster even though he dragged it out giving his address, when i text 5 minutes later to cancel i wasnt suprised.

this guy had plenty of time to cancel so yes I am suspicious of his intentions thats why my partner insisted on staying on the phone until i was safely in a taxi and why im posting here.   

(And actually, re-reading the bit about him wanting to pick you up from the station, it does sound rather like he planned to abduct you, didn't it? Eurgh. I'm glad you have your partner helping you - could you arrange for him to drive you? Or even just pretend that he'll be driving you; telling potential outcall clients that your security will drop you off and pick you up might be an extra are-you-a-freak-test for them to pass.)

(And actually, re-reading the bit about him wanting to pick you up from the station, it does sound rather like he planned to abduct you, didn't it? Eurgh.

(I was ok about considering being picked up, partly the "I'm a man, I can handle it" rubbish, but also the way I could pointedly text the registration plate to someone, and that they'd appear on CCTV with me when asked to come to the station itself instead of being allowed to hang around in the car park. I'd also have had a deposit off them by this point. But, yes, not recommended and forget about it for somewhere that close to the station.)

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thats a good idea, cheers for that