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Calls himself Martin, says he's a 47yr old white englishman and wanted to book a 2hr facesitting booking for Saturday. Called me on a land-line Manchester number 016128059** but I'm based in London so warning bells sounded for me immediately. I didn't pick up.

Emailed me using d*********@googlemail.com and this is how he originally contacted me, the calls came after I think.

Came across as polite online but was incredibly annoying. I told him I'd need a deposit as I had a strong feeling he was a fantasist (I mean two hours of facesitting???) and couldn't see how he was going to get to a booking the next day what with not being in my area. He insists he wrote he wanted a booking after April 5th on a Saturday. I went back over his mails and there was no mention of a date so I naturally assumed it being a Friday he meant the next day.

Basically he said he couldn't do a bank transfer until the morning so I said he could do PayPal then. Or an Amazon e voucher. More excuses, didn't know how to do it, I literally gave him directions and a link on how to get an evoucher. Still more excuses which I said were quite pathetic. I knew this guy was just on the wind up and so I must admit I was quite curt with him but this just seemed to get him off and he saw it as me being a Mistress which is just what he wanted. Kept going on about how he loved that I was so in control and all this rubbish. He said he would just sort out the deposit in the morning and I said okay but it will now be my usual deposit rate, not what I quoted before (cos I was tired of him messing me about). He seemed okay with this. I gave him my relevant details.

Of course today I knew no money would've come in, it was a given. And of course nothing was in my account from him. I emailed him telling him I wasn't surprised at all and knew he was a timewaster and it was pathetic. He responded by saying he had cancelled his booking for his own reasons and didn't need to give me any excuses! I responded by telling him he ought to think twice before wasting an escorts time and did he realise it was people like him that made escorting a pain in the arse and it wasn't a joke although it may be a bit of fun to him, it was a job and put food on the table and paid the bills. I gave him the old, you wouldn't do it to a plumber or a builder would you? Honestly normally I wouldn't have bothered but I just thought no, he needs to know this is not just something fun to do wasting all evening emailing some twat back and forth for his titillation, it is a livelihood. I don't know if he will respond or not and I don't care but I'd strongly avoid this guy as he just wants to waste as much of your time as possible and will not pay a deposit, do an evoucher, or anything and certainly wouldn't of turned up to any booking. Sad little twat! Also distance is clearly not an issue for him if he is contacting me, I mean as he's only time-wasting he can do that from anywhere anyway and contact girls nowhere near him, such as myself.
« Last Edit: 24 March 2018, 03:23:50 pm by amy »

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Re: Very annoying timewaster from Manchester calling n emails London
« Reply #1 on: 25 March 2018, 06:02:55 pm »
He reads this forum. I've had a problem with him in the distant past, and he STILL messages me about once a year to whinge about my posts about him. "There was no need to do that" etc etc.

Your post regarding his wants are exactly the same as before - he contacts a lady in London, expects YOU to book a hotel (he wanted me to book a hotel in Manchester even though I live in London), wants multiple hours of facesitting, deposit never appears, then multiple emails from him follows, saying things like "GOOD BYE have a nice life" and then "I apologise for the way I spoke to you" and then "I HEREBY WITHDRAW MY BOOKING REQUEST" and then "I do understand why you couldn't do it and I'm sorry we couldn't work things out". And so on. I didn't block him, and didn't reply, so his emails were just him having a convo with himself.
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Re: Very annoying timewaster from Manchester calling n emails London
« Reply #2 on: 25 March 2018, 08:16:28 pm »
Oh isn't he the guy who wants to give you marketing advice and sends those terribly long elaborate messages (texts in my case as they don't have my email address)? Rings a bell... He was claiming to have health problems and hinted at putting me into his will  :FF :FF :FF
I blocked him right after that :)


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Re: Very annoying timewaster from Manchester calling n emails London
« Reply #3 on: 25 March 2018, 11:02:53 pm »
I don't care if he reads this. He was a proper pain on the arse and I told him so, and he had the nerve to send me an email after my own which had a go at him saying who am I to judge him (cos I called him timewaster). Said he was not a timewaster and was a dad who had his kids which is why he couldn't go to the bank to do my deposit...."dear lady". Told me to stop contacting him when he had already 'politely cancelled the booking' and so there was no need for further contact from me. This of course was meant to wind me up. The excuses this guy gives are ridiculous, he didn't just suddenly have kids overnight now did he? One would think he had always had kids he knew he had to look after, which is probably rubbish anyway. And from being overly keen and sending lots of messages all evening to me to promising to sort the deposit the next day to cancelling to DONT MESSAGE ME AGAIN....(yes in caps). It was all obviously calculated and it seems he has done this before too so I was spot on about him right from the start hence asking for a deposit, cos imagine if I'd held a two hour slot one Saturday for him and of course he wouldn't have shown up. What a creep!

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Re: Very annoying timewaster from Manchester calling n emails London
« Reply #4 on: 26 March 2018, 03:30:00 am »
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