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Re: Time waster, potential BB seeker, London - Solentlad81
« Reply #30 on: 20 July 2018, 10:04:28 am »
I had a look and even I got one when I was in London a couple of months ago. A poorly spelt oneliner omitting my name but asking for a three hour booking in the subject line ::). I think I ignored it and left it to my autoreply, although I'll.check.my numbers.

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Re: Time waster, potential BB seeker, London - Solentlad81
« Reply #31 on: 20 July 2018, 10:08:48 am »
Apologies I think I wrote the number wrong!

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Re: Time waster, potential BB seeker, London - Solentlad81
« Reply #32 on: 31 July 2018, 11:56:13 am »
I've literally just had a half hour with Abs and as usual he was polite, clean, well dressed and well mannered!
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Re: Time waster, potential BB seeker, London - Solentlad81
« Reply #33 on: 19 September 2018, 02:05:10 am »
I've literally just had a half hour with Abs and as usual he was polite, clean, well dressed and well mannered!

Quite lucky for you. But any scans of rbs are showing that he's seeking bb. He's posted multiple requests for it in the last year, and quite frankly trying to undermine a warning isn't appreciated.

It's clear from myself and others posting that he is quite changeable in his approach. Admittedly it's been a while, but when I refused bb he went "well why not anal, you can't get pregnant from that".

He may very well be good with his regs, but doesn't mean he's not trying shit with others.

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Re: Time waster, potential BB seeker, London - Solentlad81
« Reply #34 on: 22 September 2018, 11:17:47 pm »
RKitten, no disrespect was intended to any other posters in any of my comments regarding Abs all I can offer is my opinion and that's what I have done..
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Re: Time waster, potential BB seeker, London - Solentlad81
« Reply #35 on: 24 September 2018, 03:02:50 am »
RKitten, no disrespect was intended to any other posters in any of my comments regarding Abs all I can offer is my opinion and that's what I have done..

I get that, but the warning section isn't for it. Saying "Oh he's been fine for me" just undermines a warning.

He regularly posts rbs looking for women to do fake taxi style bookings without condoms.

Maybe for people he's seen for a while he's not pulling shit. But from what I experienced he more than took the piss. I was new to AW when he took me for a fool, so my warning is for other newbies.

To break it down, he insisted: I buy certain clothes, sex toys, send pictures and videos, whined about wanting bb, when I refused that said why not bb anal as I can't get pregnant and he does it all the time. Promised to pay me back the costs by way of a deposit, demanded proof of purchase before paying the deposit, never paid the deposit, scammed me into spending over £150 in setup for the session, and £50 in services provided prior to booking.

Then had the gaul to try and spin me some sob story a week after and want to continue me sending him dirty pics and vids until the rearranged booking, with more purchases and no advance pay. I said only with a AW booking, he refused to do one. Was clearly wanting to milk me for free personal porno.

As I told the first person who questioned me, questioning isn't helpful.

We all know not every bad punter is bad 100% of the time, they need to rack up some pos reviews to get access to more women. But showing up on a warning going "oh he's fine with me" isn't helpful unless you can say he's not pulling shit like that or similar anymore. It's not a review post, it's for people to warn about bad behaviour they have experienced.

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Re: Time waster, potential BB seeker, London - Solentlad81
« Reply #36 on: 24 September 2018, 12:45:30 pm »
He’s messaged me several times. Not met him so thank you for this. I can block him off aw. But he’s in Yorkshire now? Or just in London and messaging everyone?
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Re: Time waster, potential BB seeker, London - Solentlad81
« Reply #37 on: 24 September 2018, 02:29:25 pm »
He’s messaged me several times. Not met him so thank you for this. I can block him off aw. But he’s in Yorkshire now? Or just in London and messaging everyone?

Yes.

I get that, but the warning section isn't for it. Saying "Oh he's been fine for me" just undermines a warning.

Actually, the Warning section is for people to post their experiences of the punter under discussion, and just because not everybody will have or has had the same experience as you is not 'undermining' anything. Some punters are fine with some people and not others and that's as much part of the picture as anything anybody else has posted.

Do not tell other members how to post again, please - apart from anything else (and even if you had been correct, which you are not) if we want another mod, we'll ask. If a post is problematic that's for us to decide, and what the Report button is for.


EDIT: Not that I need to explain myself further, but here's another example of one who was fine with some (including me) and not others.
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Re: Time waster, potential BB seeker, London - Solentlad81
« Reply #38 on: 16 May 2020, 10:10:00 am »
Has changed his username to topleaseu81 sent a message within AW claiming to be a CV-19 free tested keyworker, his profile (the one he fills in) is full of how wonderful he is.

AW ID 818884
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Re: Time waster, potential BB seeker, London - Solentlad81
« Reply #39 on: 16 May 2020, 10:52:11 am »
This person tried to make a 3 hour booking with me last year but refused to give me a contact number. He was using the name Abs

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Re: Time waster, potential BB seeker, London - Solentlad81
« Reply #40 on: 16 May 2020, 08:44:54 pm »
Funnily enough he suddenly popped up on the 4th May wanting a booking. New number (again) +4478170935**. Didn't see him as I was having a can't be arsed day...



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Re: Time waster, potential BB seeker, London - Solentlad81
« Reply #41 on: 15 August 2020, 08:00:42 pm »
Has changed his username to topleaseu81 sent a message within AW claiming to be a CV-19 free tested keyworker, his profile (the one he fills in) is full of how wonderful he is.

AW ID 818884

I thought this rang a bell and looking back I received an email from him claiming the same on 25/4 when I was clearly not working. I’m in the Cotswolds.

And yes on his profile he is still raving about himself and how amazing he is.