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Kayci

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Disrespectful - Yobbra (Stoke / Surrey area).
« on: 28 March 2012, 03:37:56 pm »
Hiya everyone,

Friend of mine who is VERY new to this got these emails (safe to say she wont be accepting a booking, i advised her not to)...

First mail :

'hi hun

looking for an overnight meeting with u asap. really wanna be your first ever client is possible as well. happy to pay u ?500 for the night for dinner/drinks first then bedroom fun after at my plush penthouse apartment. I live near stoke not far on train fromu. let me know if you are interested so i can be ur first.

i am good looking guy in early 30s ideal for your first time as you wont look out of place on my arm. i am prob the type of guyu would date anyway. I love spoiling young pretty girls who like to give me sexual pleasure in return. Promise to make your first time better than any date u ever had. I will teach u things sexually u will never forget. I love young girl/older man roleplay so we will get on very well together esp if you are submissive which i love

my msn is j***f***t****@iamanastytwit.co.uk and we can discuss details on there and flirt a little. I really want it to be like a first date rather than punter/escort meeting for both of us so it will be a lot of fun.

Services i would require during the overnight are owo/cim/swallow anal deepthroat rimming on me all of which u say are available on ur profile so it shouldnt be a problem. Also would like u dressed in stockings suspenders and high heels for dinner/drinks under a revealing dress/skirt.

mark xx

Her reply :

'Did you read my profile and my rates?'

His reply :

'i did but ?500 is a reasonable offer for an overnight with a classy guy who is going to show u a good time at his penthouse apartment/ dinner etc and not just stay in a budget hotel with u all night.

It's up to u. I am very interested in meeting you and being your first client. If you choose to decline i understand.'

Her reply :

'I decline.'

His reply :

'ok this is my last offer. I will either do an overnight at a hotel close to you for ?650 for the night so u dont have to travel to mine. IF you still wont move on your ?900 overnight fee which is way above the normal even for central London i will be interested in a 2 hour outcall in a hotel close to you for your standard profile fee of ?250.

Can you let me know which you would prefer. Can you let me know which dates/times are available for whichever one you choose./i]

I assume from your profile all the services i stated in my first email will be available for the meet. Stockings suspenders and high heels will be required as well for the meet.

Can you let me know asap

Mark xx'

And another as she didnt reply :

'can we arrange a 2 hour outcall for your fixed ?250 price then ? I assume you dont want to discuss overnight meets any more so i am happy with 2 hour outcall for ?250.'

Her reply : She lives in Surrey and he has no feedback

'To be honest i am alil put off by your attitude )-: I wouldnt travel to London for a 2hr outcall either.

His reply :

'its just business honey. Nothing personal. You can tell you are new to it by your attitude towards ur overnight fee of ?900 which is ambitious to say the least!!! When you pay a lot of money for a service you have every right to haggle for the best price. There is a recession on and a lot of girls are desperate for money so its a buyers market at the minute esp for overnights. Girls dont do many overnights anymore because most guys cant afford them. I prefer an overnight because its more like a date.

I would come to a hotel close to you for an overnight so you wouldnt have to travel and we could go out for dinner. If you didnt want that for ?650 then i am happy for a 2 hour outcall and i will book a hotel close to you so you dont have to travel.

If you are still interested let me know.'

Her reply :

'Sorry you have no feedback and your trying to school me? I have done my research on this for quite some time now including rates also i have a friend who gets 900 a night easy and this is a VERY good rate considering its 10hrs! I know i dont have to bend on my rates or services because people will pay it.  If they dont then thats my business.'

His reply :

'ok hun. If you think u will get loads of ?900 overnights i wish you well trying. I aint trying to school you. I dont even know what that means. You are a hooker i am trying to arrange a deal to meet u and fuck u. I dont want anything else from you but sexual pleasure. You are obviously a jumped up little spoilt brat daddys girl who fancies herself a little bit too much.

I want to book for a 2 hour outcall for ?250 (your rate on your profile) at a hotel close to you which i will book once you confirm you agree to my requests regarding services and stockings/suspenders etc from my first email.

Can you confirm this as i really want to be your first.

xx'

Her reply :

'Er excuse me!!

(Quote) 'You are obviously a jumped up little spoilt brat daddys girl who fancies herself a little bit too much.' (Un-quote)

Then you carry on asking for a booking and to be my first learn some manners and be a gentleman!'

His reply :

'sweetie i am paying for your time. You are not a gf i dont have to be all nice to you and kiss your arse. You sound like a spoilt brat (which you prob are if u are totally honest) i dont give a toss about that i want to pay to fuck u cus u are young busty pretty and probably braindead bimbo. That turns me on. So can you stop messing around and let me know when we can meet for a 2 hour outcall. Why are you wasting so much time. Guys who use escorts dont want to be messed around they just want to meet up with a whore and do the business then leave. You realy do need to wise up a bit sweetie or realise this job isnt for you if u dont like pandering to mens egos. We are the customers and its all about making us feel special not the other way around because we are the ones with the cash. Which potless whores like you need hence why u do this in the first place. Dont forget that.'

His reply : As she didnt respond

'so are u yet another time waster on aw who i have to report for 'pretending' to be an escort when all you are looking for in a thrill of men paying for sex with you without actually doing it. I have offered you your full 2 hour rate and u dont want to arrange a meet. Obviously you are just a time waster otherwise why wouldnt u arrange a meet with me to earn some money which is what u are here from.

I just dont get why so many girls come on here to waste time. Someone like me with good money wants to book u for 100% of ur asking price and u dont want to arrange a meeting. why? before i report u to the site for being a time wasting profile.'

Her reply :

'Do you have a contact number?'/i]

His reply : So she could get a contact number for here.

'i dont want to give out my contact number until u prove you are serious about meeting. Why do you want my contact number before we even agree to a meet.

Sorry for sounding a bit rude to you earlier. The only reason i use escorts is because i want hassle free sex with young pretty girls. I dont like all the games etc pretty girls tend to play to get attention etc. I find it much easier just hiring them for my needs. This might sound a bit harsh but thats the reality of escorting.

If you are interested in meeting just say. There are loads of girls on aw to choose from. I liked you because you are new pretty got massive natural breasts and you are quite slim given your breast size but i havent got time for games i just want to arrange to meet up book the hotel and fuck and u give me what i want sexually.'

Her reply :

'I think we should conclude our conversation. As you said sorry i will not report you for your rudeness. Sorry i will not offer a booking to you. Please dont mail me again.'

His reply :

'so you are a time waster then? i havent been rude i have just got annoyed because u kept refusing to agree to a meet. I still want to meet u and be ur first and i dont understand why u dont want to. I am clinical about the meet but thats what escorting is. Its not a bf/gf lovey dovey situation. So can you tell me why u wont meet with me if u are a geninune escort?'

Her reply :

'I am allowed to choose who i see i am independent and its because of your rudeness and that you have no respect. I have been polite (i have manners) so please dont contact me again.'



As you may guess (this is where she blocked him) also she then didnt reply.  Not a very nice person she doesnt think she can report him but has blocked him.

Kayci X x
« Last Edit: 28 March 2012, 03:53:20 pm by amy »

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Re: Disrespectful - Yobbra (Stoke / Surrey area).
« Reply #1 on: 29 March 2012, 12:13:44 pm »
Wow! What a complete tool! I would have met up with him just to bitchslap him upside the head!
But assuming these emails were exchanged via Adultwork - What was his username?


Oops! Or was that his username in the thread title? Yobbra?
« Last Edit: 29 March 2012, 12:15:16 pm by Kiko »
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Re: Disrespectful - Yobbra (Stoke / Surrey area).
« Reply #2 on: 29 March 2012, 12:24:29 pm »
I'll leave this one, but only because the question re usernames/AW nicks is something that's worth the OP confirming. I have, however removed three other off topic posts from this thread in the last twenty four hours and I'm getting mightily fed up of it.

Can anybody who has forgotten how to post in this section please read the 'Rules' thread again? We can all see the thread starter for ourselves, and anyone who thinks the OP needs telling that the party concerned is a twat or wishes to express any other personal view which adds nothing useful to the thread is more than welcome to do so providing they use the PM system.
« Last Edit: 29 March 2012, 12:27:15 pm by amy »

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Re: Disrespectful - Yobbra (Stoke / Surrey area).
« Reply #3 on: 29 March 2012, 02:29:07 pm »
Yes in title Kiko.  Shouldnt the forum have a section for things such as this? Good info on how a client / or would be client has spoken to others? I know i wouldnt see this person after this and i have told others i know to avoid.  Sharing indeed is caring isnt it? If we cannot post this sort of thing here where can we post it...

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Re: Disrespectful - Yobbra (Stoke / Surrey area).
« Reply #4 on: 29 March 2012, 02:35:18 pm »
I don't understand what you mean Kayci - we do have a section for things like this, and your thread is in it.

What this section is not for is bunging up with posts about how dreadful it all is - the Blather sections and PM system cover this amply enough, surely? If the rules thread (and I can't post links because I'm on my phone) explaining why this so important is not clear, anybody is very welcome to contact the mod/admin team and we'll try and explain it again, but this section is for information, and information only.
« Last Edit: 29 March 2012, 02:37:16 pm by amy »

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Re: Disrespectful - Yobbra (Stoke / Surrey area).
« Reply #5 on: 29 March 2012, 05:59:21 pm »
Ok well i shared my info didnt i? Bit confused if i am in the wrong? :-/ thats what i mean.

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Re: Disrespectful - Yobbra (Stoke / Surrey area).
« Reply #6 on: 30 March 2012, 11:10:42 am »
Amy is referring to other comments under your post (which have since been deleted - by other posters). The only reason my comment is still there is because i asked a valid question.
You arent in the wrong, Kayci. Its everybody else that comments in the 'Warning' section without an actual warning to give. Such as this reply...
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Re: Disrespectful - Yobbra (Stoke / Surrey area).
« Reply #7 on: 30 March 2012, 01:02:22 pm »
I'm confused by the rules.  Do they mean that we can't comment on a warning? 

I was just surprised that a potential client would claim that 900 was excessive for the London area.  I'd say that's fairly normal for 10 hours, with 600 being the absolute base minimum. 
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Re: Disrespectful - Yobbra (Stoke / Surrey area).
« Reply #8 on: 30 March 2012, 03:38:13 pm »
Amy is referring to other comments under your post (which have since been deleted - by other posters). The only reason my comment is still there is because i asked a valid question.
You arent in the wrong, Kayci. Its everybody else that comments in the 'Warning' section without an actual warning to give. Such as this reply...

Thanks Kiko, yes, that is exactly what I meant. Kayci's warning post is entirely appropriate and not in the wrong at all - the comments I was referring to were off topic, reactive and contained no useful information regarding either the warning or the man posted about in it. This sort of thing is exactly what this post:

In addition to the above, can members please remember that the purpose of the Warnings section is to alert others to potentially dangerous people or situations, and as such it needs to be concise, relevant and informative so that anyone who needs to can find this information easily.

It's great that we all have each other's support, and of course everybody sympathises with those who have had an unpleasant experience but messages which do not add to a thread or contain any useful information need to be sent via the PM system, not posted on the Warnings board. These posts can also needlessly bump older threads to the top of the page, making current/more recent incidents less likely to be quickly spotted.

Please consider what, if anything, your post adds to the thread before sending it. Any information which may help somebody avoid a situation where they may be robbed, abused or harmed is good  :), however patchy you may think it is! Anything other than information, please send a PM instead.

is referring to, and I'm quoting it now so that everybody who has studiously ignored the 'Rules for Posting Warnings' thread can get a good look at it.

I'm confused by the rules.  Do they mean that we can't comment on a warning? 

I was just surprised that a potential client would claim that 900 was excessive for the London area.  I'd say that's fairly normal for 10 hours, with 600 being the absolute base minimum.

Yes and no. You can comment on any thread, warning or otherwise on the board you want and that's fine. Just don't do it in this section. That's what the B&B boards are for.

I will tidy up this thread later - if anybody has any more questions, please PM me.