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Title: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Christina_Rose on 24 March 2018, 09:16:05 pm
Male, white, 47 .Goes by  windsor350 on AW Only 1 feedback, but feedback positive.
Email: s*******@aol.co.uk
Number:077462717**
I got a message on AW requesting a 3 hour booking for a local hotel. Not very clear on other  details  such as location or Incall/Outcall so  Iasked for clarification. The reply was Borehamwood Incall.

I then got a phone call which I thought went well. Guy sounded pleasant, friendly, complimentary about my profile.  He told me that he was looking  for a regular escort and happy to travel to my incall location.He apologised for being unclear in his initial email and said that   he would definitely  book for Thursday afternoon or Friday morning. I asked if he could put a  booking request  through on AW. He said he would do so before he left.I then booked the hotel-. Originally, I was going to just book a day room for Friday morning, but as I already had one confirmed for Friday morning, I decided to book Thursday night instead.

As I was getting ready to leave, I got a text asking for a picture of a specific outfit to be sent via email .I usually do not do this, because in my experience it usually/often equals time-waster and once you say yes to one thing where does it end? I sent a text saying I do not send specific outfit request pictures.  He asked why not, and I gave a brief explanation that it is a blanket policy I have etc.

The tone of the texts changed to angsty and offended; saying that I offer to send a face picture on my profile as my face is pix-elated and I was therefore not fulfilling my FAQ promise. So I messaged to say he asked for a specific outfit picture, not a face photo. He accused me of nit-picking and said that he was requesting a face photo with that specific outfit.Going by his initial email not being clear, I assumed it was a genuine miscommunication on his part.I then felt bad and that I had made an error, apologised profusely and said I was leaving for the hotel, but would email from there.  I sent a text to say I had sent the email.

I then got this text: ?Seen them. Ok? This was followed by ?Maybe, if I can BYE ?
I then sent a text asking what  he meant and was he still proceeding with the booking?
  Reply :?Maybe, if I can in the morning. BYE?

I proceeded to get a torrent of rude abusive messages calling me  paranoid, telling me I sounded  negative and bored. He suggested that I should go to the bar and get a drink, despite my profile clearly stating that I do not drink. He also said that  I should not be doing this job as I am so paranoid. I sent this text? Thank you for proving my point about time-wasting. You are now blacklisted? and blocked the number.

Unfortunately, I blocked texts only..I then got incessant calls and voicemails  .He was  now feeling guilty,  I had made him guilty, well done. Was there anything he could do to make it up to me?. Oh  and I look great. So I blocked the phone number.

I then got a message on AW - Friday morning -asking if I had checked out, and if not could I extend my booking which I ignored. I then got an email ? Okay, try for next week if I am allowed?? , Followed by ? He would really like to meet? and lastly ?I tried to make contact, no answer, I wish you the best. Bye?.

Please stay clear. In the space on one day I experienced a myriad of different personalities, plus various attempts at psychological mind games.



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Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Braziliana on 24 March 2018, 09:50:20 pm
Please share the phone number, replacing the last 2 digits with **
Many thanks.
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Sarastar1 on 24 March 2018, 11:19:35 pm
This bloke has contacted me before through Aw using the name ?David? to sign off in his emails.

He wanted me for a 4 hr booking as apparently I was what he was looking for  ;D
Lucky me haha
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Christina_Rose on 25 March 2018, 12:25:18 am
Please share the phone number, replacing the last 2 digits with **
Oh! I put the mobile number in the title with** at the end..Have I done it wrong?
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This bloke has contacted me before through Aw using the name ?David? to sign off in his emails.

He wanted me for a 4 hr booking as apparently I was what he was looking for  ;D
Lucky me haha

He is still using the name  'David' ??? ::) ???

Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Treetop on 25 March 2018, 12:39:35 am
Have tried to pm buy I can't, page won't load. Can you pm me the number please as I'm local
 
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Christina_Rose on 25 March 2018, 12:44:45 am
I have just received a booking request on AW for tomorrow for four hours from a David someone .(Same first name as before) but different last name..Says call to confirm on 075318363**. Now using Taggers121
I think it is the same person.

Also, the fee amount is lower than it should be for four hours and the booking was made with no prior communication.

If anyone would like  either full phone numbers, surnames and email please PM me.
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: nemature on 12 April 2018, 12:34:44 pm
It seems this man is still trying his luck. I have just received this

Hi xxxxx,

very impressive in every way !

I am in Midllesbrough next week for 4 days ,for various buisness
i am looking for a woman that will be exclusive for the 4 days being able to do 3 hours daytime,and 4 hours evening approx times to vary
i do hope you may consider ,and if interested more details to follow
Kind regards
david xxx
english
51yrs

I was suspicious immediately and looked on here. If the type of booking wasn't a red flag the spelling is certainly not to a standard a business man would normally use. Only contacted through aw using windsor350 aw user id 214778384 (if I have done this correct) and still only has 1 feedback
 
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Blondebbw on 12 April 2018, 11:24:42 pm
Oh my god, this guy messaged me last year, he emailed constantly telling me all his ideas for meets. Then eventually he made an offer for a meet well below my hourly rate which is low anyway, I told him I?m reasonably priced and don?t go any lower and he got so nasty with me, I remember it because he said ?I don?t know where you women get off charging for it, should be free anyway?

I blocked him swiftly but yeah he?s not genuine at all. I?d well avoid that one

X
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: mizuage on 16 May 2018, 06:21:18 pm
Just experienced the same in terms of timewasting and abusive messages from this guy, so he's still going.
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Snow Whitest on 12 September 2018, 07:50:42 am
OMG I'm so glad I checked this number before I spoke to 'David' today. He contacted me under the username windsor350 AW user ID 3820515 asking for a 3 hour booking this Friday at Fleet Services. He told me he likes the secretary look and wanted skirts and blouses.

I gave him my number and he sent me a text last night. I thought I'd check on here as it sounded too good to be true. And clearly it is. He's now b locked on everything. He's still using the 07746 2717** number as I used this to search.

I think I've just dodged a bullet thanks to you girls. Stay safe x
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Croissant on 04 October 2018, 02:51:18 pm
Yeah i foolishly gave mt number before checking on here.. :FF he wont leave me alone now..
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Strawberrygirl on 24 February 2019, 09:14:09 am
He’s now changed his AW name to wace350, told me that I should lower my rates because I’m not British and got abusive. Looking for London girls. Stay safe.
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Curvymamma on 24 February 2019, 07:15:34 pm
I got this message from him recently
Hi 

Obviously a tremendously exciting looking woman !
What really impresses me is the outfits you are wearing ,all of which really complement your superb shape ,and make you look extremely desirable
i would hope to be in London hotel from Tuesday onward 
If you would consider a f booking to combine wearing some of your excellent outfits i would be very grateful 
In London on short business issue ,meetings ,for 4 days
So would offer a generous package for exclusive booking for duration if interested ?

Using the name Wace350.
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: lillybliss on 24 February 2019, 10:36:49 pm
I've written on here before about this guy he is an absolute cock, please don't see him ladies he is a pain in the arse and not in a good way :FF
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Alexia24 on 25 February 2019, 02:57:36 pm
He called himself Ian and David and wasted my time last year with endless messaging on AW and by phone for bookings in the St Albans area.
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Abcd2019 on 26 February 2019, 01:52:24 pm
Ditto to all the above, he messaged me wanting me to bring my entire wardobe. I don't know where these types get the energy to be such utter idiots.
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Louisereturned on 03 March 2019, 03:41:17 pm
agree a total fucking cock!  i’ve just had some email communication with him and I’m fuming

 i’ve only just returned  after being away for five years and  rebuilding  my  AW profile and granted my pictures aren’t up to scratch  compareD to some girls.  anyway I’ll get this email from him


To be honest your pictures are not very good
cant you do pictures that show you full length etc ?
So we can properly see what you look like if we have to pay ?
david x

I responded with
To be honest I don’t recall asking for an opinion from you on my pictures. If you don’t like what you see please consider looking elsewhere.

He further replies with

What i am telling you is that your pictures are not clear at all
Just letting you know it would be best to have better pictures
What do you not understand ? look at other profiles .Have i said something wrong then ? Am i not right then ?

 so close to just saying fuck off
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Louisereturned on 03 March 2019, 03:58:58 pm
and his parting shot

oh ok i give up ,i tried ,just fuck off then !!! some people are so very thick ,and never learn !!

I think i’ll report him
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Louisereturned on 03 March 2019, 06:32:56 pm
And his response to being reported

And I should care because ???
Idiot !!! I was trying to help Did you tell them that !!
I doubt it ???? Amazing !!!
 
I get annoyed by these people ( and perhaps a little amused) not upset but if somebody who wasn’t as emotionally strong could really be hurt by his words
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: M_3 on 04 March 2019, 06:28:02 pm
I've already reported him for abusive language.
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Louisereturned on 21 March 2019, 10:46:05 pm
just insulted me again apparently I’m thick and stupid 
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: sherbet_dab on 22 March 2019, 09:17:02 am
I'm in Ipswich and this guy has been contacting me via AW. I ended up blocking him as he was giving off massive timewaster vibes - saying he wanted to book me to do nothing but sit on his face for 4 hours etc. Then I saw this thread. Clearly has nothing better to do with his time than hassle escorts and waste our time.
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: Louisereturned on 14 September 2019, 12:46:50 pm
he’s back again! requesting a 2hr outcall at Travelodge Stevenage tomorrow, strange as there isn’t one in Stevenage 🤔
Title: Re: Persistent emotionally abusive attention seeker - Borehamwood
Post by: samp on 22 September 2019, 05:15:26 pm
Glad I looked here first.  This guy has multiple names and is requesting several hours for limited funds.

He emailed me last week and it didn't seem right, luckily I had the foresight to check online and came up with this site, thank you so much.

I know to avoid