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frenchknickersnobra

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This is an old one for me, basically when I was a newbie I bid on a ridiculous RB for a ludicrous amount offering an arrangement for 3 months to an escort. Yes yes, naive, silly.
Anyhow I conversed with this guy, I know what he's looking for and he's back posting his ridiculous RB so I thought I'd post a warning.

The RB is VERY so long I won't post it, but it's listed by user "aLittleDid" who I think is userID 2811332 (profile won't show up for me).
Date: 01/11/2015
Bid amount: 35000
Postcode: SO22

I know its the same guy from some of the things he has said in his never-ending blurb... about his divorce, about his sexual prowess, about how he wants this imaginary arrangement to proceed. Now he's referencing feedback to give his profile some legitimacy (the members who left his feedback - all bookings from this year - are inactive).

Basically the sum of what he wants is unprotected sex for free as a "trial", in addition to naughty photos and videos in advance of a meeting. He was using a different profile last year with no feedback which he deleted, now he has a new one with 4 feedbacks from inactive members. He is an elaborate scammer who will try and offer photos of his online banking, may even send photos of himself (I may well still have these, and an old phone number which may or may not still be in use).

I was lucky to never actually sleep with this guy (although I met him once in person - photos are definitely him) and he came back by e-mail trying to convince me of his scam by saying that he had been defrauded online, had his e-mail hacked and had lost a significant amount of money due to the whole debacle lol
« Last Edit: 30 November 2015, 12:39:23 pm by frenchknickersnobra »

Curvygal

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I think he's taken it down, there's nothing with those details still up. 

amy

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I'm guessing the warning is specifically about this AW user being a scammer/freebie hunter, rather than just him having an RB up :).

Curvygal

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I'm guessing the warning is specifically about this AW user being a scammer/freebie hunter, rather than just him having an RB up :).

Yeah I know.  I was just wanting to read this long rambling RB and when it seemed to be removed I thought I'd share that it's off....for now.  ;)

frenchknickersnobra

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Lol he did indeed remove it... I'll keep my eyes peeled and post the ridiculous blurb when he does it again, no doubt he will be back.

Curvygal

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It's strange he removed it just after you posted about it here.

englishrebecca121

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keep seeing this rb pop up and he gets tons of bids!! :(

frenchknickersnobra

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Lol... he's at it again, same username as when I posted in September.
11/01/2016, 24 hours, Outcall, SO51, 5000

And here is the RB... as I said it is long!

Hello!

Summary: Salary ?5000 + ?30000 allowance (per month) + perks (transport, accommodation, surgery, holidays) in exchange an exclusive arrangement, min 24 hours a week

First think to say is thank you, It's going to be quite a read so you may want to get yourself a drink and hopefully when you get too the end you'll have decided that you would like to join me on this journey. Please do make sure you read the entire thing before sending a response.

I'll start with a brief summary and then hopefully be able to answer most of your questions as we continue, of course if you do have any questions at the end feel free to message me. However hopefully you feel confident enough in what you have read to bid and we can take this journey together.

This would be an exclusive arrangement between us, in very simple terms I pay you an amount of money each month, of course with a few bonuses that I shall explain later and in return you see me for at least 24 hours week. The base salary would be ?5000 per month, with an allowance of up too ?30000 each, this will be explained in more detail later :)

What I'm looking for in a girl, ideally under the age of 30 and no taller than 5'7, and who enjoys receiving oral. Oh course for the right girl I'm happy to make exceptions to certain things. I'm looking for girls who don't take life too seriously, who are trustworthy and would enjoy doing this doing this long term. I don't want a girls who's catch phrase is "whatever you want" I'd much rather somebody who has some idea of the things that make them happy and aren't scared to act on them.

I'm not looking for a certain size or shape, just somebody who's happy to make an effort and can have a great time in and out of the bedroom. Somebody who gets that their new job will be not just to make me happy but too make yourself happy too.

I envision the times where we meet would be us doing something fun as a, a day out somewhere fun, shopping or a night out or all of the above. Sharing great experiences, food, nice hotel rooms, shopping whatever it is you'd like.

I'm not looking for a bargain price, I'm looking too make the girl who is going on this journey with me better wherever I can. I'm a very firm believer that a happy, more relaxed girl is a far better lover and company, I find most girls are a lot happier when they are not worrying about debt but can focus things they love and don't have to worry about the next job or how they will cope if anything unexpected comes up, or maybe it's because you can just slow the pace down and enjoy the little things more.

So I should probably at this point talk about myself, I'm in my early 30s and have made my money initially in property but primarily in the IT sector as a consultant after selling my company a few years ago. I'm a very laid back, honest and open person, who after a nasty divorce and lots of changes in my life is trying to find girls who are fun to be around and spend time with. Without the fuss and guessing game that comes from a normal relationship. This is one of the many reasons I have chosen AW to try and find the right girls, as I don't want a girl just looking for a free meal, I'm looking for somebody who wants to enjoy every aspect that this and I have too offer.

Somebody who understands that her job is not just too have sex with me but too make yourself happy too, I'm always going to choose the girl who visibly makes an effort for me. The type of girl who always makes sure she looks her best around me, who gives more than one word answers, who gets that this arrangement is about more than just you or me, it's about the both of us. Hopefully that's you! In regards to my sexual requirements, I'm not looking for anything too crazy, I am very talented in the bedroom as I'm sure you can see from my feedback and like to spoil a girl.

Right, now too the maths bit, you will be paid a base salary of ?5000 a month, this is your money to do what you want with (I'd suggest you save what's left after bills) and will be paid at the start of our arrangement and then every month after that until we decide to end it. You will also be entitled to an allowance, which a few restrictions, of ?30000 a month, this is to be spent on “stuff” the salary will be paid into your account at the start of the month and the allowance will be a bank card which I shall top up. The allowance is for pretty much anything you wish, clothes, shoes, tech, travel, holidays, spa days, showing off to your friends etc.

Although I would ask that you spend a least some of it on treating yourself, weather it be clothes or shoes or watches or video games, whatever your poison, as the entire purpose of this is to make us both happier people. I know money doesn't buy happiness but it's amazing how much easier the sadness is to shed when you have shiny things to distract you. The more reasons you can give a girl too like seeing you the better I think, so if there is anything that would just make this even better for you please let me know.

In regards too how long we see each other for I would suggest that when we meet to see how we get on ahead of starting, we will need to meet before agreeing to go ahead, as you really can't tell how you get on with somebody until you're in the same room, especially for the sorts of things that we would be doing. Anyway, I think the best thing is that we decide to commit to either 3 or 6 months, 3 months being the ideal minimum. Then at the end of the period we can sit down and talk and of course either extend our time together or end things. Hopefully we see each other for a long time! I don't have a specific starting date in mind, just when everyone is ready, I'm currently out of the country on business however that will soon finish for good :)

The few exceptions too the allowance I can think, these are the things you are not allowed to spend your allowance on:
- Vehicles and accommodation, because this essentially a contract that could last anywhere from 3 months too 3 years, or maybe even longer, it would be best that if you are looking for accommodation closer too me, or a nicer car to get too me or around the place that you let me take care off that, as then you won't be tied into any agreements or be responsible for any payments on those things. This is all completely optional!
- Bills and debts, this can come from your salary but the purpose of the allowance is to treat yourself, not to cover the basics
- Getting any work done, surgery or dental work, etc. Most of these types of things require a recovery time where you would be unable too travel or would hinder other physical activities. So I would suggest that if you did want anything done, that we decide on a 6 month minimum term. I'm happy to pay for any work to be done up front so you start feeling you're absolute best, as long as we see each other a few times before hand. Then after your recovery time we can properly our agreement.
- Topping up your salary, the allowance is not for you too keep, it is to spend on “stuff” not to pad out your bank account

I imagine you're wondering why not just give you all the money in cash, there are a few reasons for this, mostly to do with tax and that the card I will give you in order to use your allowance itself comes with certain perks such as complimentary hotel and travel upgrades. It's also I'd imagine has a much higher limit than your current card so wouldn't limit you spending it on things you love.

I am very happy to provide proof that I have the money and am happy to do this, should after you respond I feel that you are as serious as I am about all this :)

In regards to what is required from you in the short term, if you bid or message me saying you are interested in doing this with me and I think you would be suitable. Then I shall send you a secure online form, you will be also expected to take and email specified sets of photos to myself. I can assure you that this data will be kept safe and secure and will be for my eyes only. Next is that should after filling out the form and sending the photos and talking too me then we need to meet up so that we can see how we get on and of course then we can both decide if we want to go ahead.

At that point when we're both happy we can all meet as a group to make sure nobody hates each other and then together pick a start date.

In regards too holiday, you can have one week off within every three month period and I would also insist that you treat yourself too a spa day and get pampered, to ensure you always feel your best at least once a month. When I say holiday, I mean holiday from this job, I would hope that we can take as many holidays together as possible.

I've had far too many girls in the past who clearly been too blinded by the few hundred pounds they would potentially loose out on, as well as not understand that this is not just a one off booking. That it is us both finding out if we are compatible enough to go ahead. Due to that us meeting before going ahead will not be paid for. I'm aware that may put some people off, however I know that the girls who actually want to do this would be willing to put in the effort and see me on there own time. I can't say I've every been paid to go to an interview and just because you're pretty doesn't mean I will you. I understand that there are time wasters on this site and a number of girls who are jealous they haven't made the cut or simply put no effort in have called me just that. However it is very far from the truth and I hope you can see from the effort I've put into this as well as the fact that I am willing to show that I have the finances to do this long term that you will join me.

I won't be seeing just anybody, I will only meet with the one girl who I truly feel things could work out and this will be done at a hotel. So that I know you have read this, as I intend to pay whoever I select the amount suggested please put 9876 in the either the comment box or the price box as well as how many hours a week you'd be happy to see me. If you do not i simply won’t get back too you.

Please don't bid if you aren't prepared to fill in the form or send the required photos, or if you are in a couple. I'm looking for an exclusive agreement not to share you with somebody else.

Looking forward to meeting you :) x

frenchknickersnobra

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And another one is up, now for a different location:

14/01/2016, 24 hours, Outcall, SW3, 5000