Adele, I realise that no-shows are a pain in the arse, but they are also part and parcel of the job and I really cannot understand why you think this single incident is serious enough to merit a public warning on the internet?

It's clear enough that you didn't enjoy the booking you had previously with this client, but the purpose of this warning section is to alert ladies to persistent offenders who could have a detrimental effect on their business, not the odd random prat who bottles it at the last minute (and there could still be a perfectly reasonable explantation for him not turning up). To post the amount of information you originally did, which would make him easily identifiable to anybody in his community who knew him, is not acceptable when he has done nothing wrong bar cause you a minor irritation.

To all members, please, before posting warnings in future have a think about whether one is actually merited and deserved, or whether you just fancy a rant in the appropriate section instead. We have separated this section so that the nuisance callers and no shows don't get too mixed in with the more serious offenders who are out to rob, rape and harm, but that is not an excuse for everyone to post in it about every single stupid phone call or single no-show they get. Everyone needs to exercise a little more restraint in future, please.

I am asking you to judge whether a single no show from somebody who has previously turned up for a booking without incident merits posting the man's details on the internet - I am not saying it's OK to mess us about, but there is a lower limit to what is a serious enough misdemeanour to warrant a warning here, and an everyday event like this falls well below it (and you are certainly not the only person posting these at the moment by any means).

If everybody here posted a warning every time somebody pissed them about we would have used up all our bandwidth by the 2nd of the month. If you genuinely don't understand what I mean by determining the persistent or serious timewasters rather than the everyday knobheads which we all have to deal with, please just ask. Somebody doing something more than once would be a good starting point.