Yeah I totally agree with you, my profile states a booking can only be accepted with a contact number. He just stinks of TW lol

He actually might well have made bookings with other Escorts in that way, thing is you don't want to arrange things without phone contact - so just make it clear. It's also a good idea for him to phone girls, since what's he going to do if he gets lost, is late or you need to cancel for some reason. It's not good for either party.

I agree - I take lots of bookings by email (the majority, in fact) and whilst I do need a phone call to confirm, I don't insist on this until the day. If he seems to be making up all kinds of stories to avoid speaking to you (and bearing in mind it is the school holidays) then I agree alarm bells would be ringing, but lots of ladies take email bookings and that alone does not a timewaster make any more than the silly name.

If you only take bookings by phone, just be assertive and say so. You could always ask him how he was planning to get to you without a phone call to tell you he's arrived and ask for directions? I wouldn't mind knowing the answer myself, to be honest.

Quote from: amy on 12 August 2011, 09:02:54 pm

If you only take bookings by phone, just be assertive and say so. You could always ask him how he was planning to get to you without a phone call to tell you he's arrived and ask for directions? I wouldn't mind knowing the answer myself, to be honest.

He would contact her by carrier pigeon, of course!

I am also fairly certain that a number of escorts take bookings by text/smoke signal/etc, mainly judging by the amount of texts I get wherein some guy that I've never even spoken to seems to think I'm going to text him my full address. Baffling to me but they sometimes seem convinced that that's how things are done. I rarely reply (lest he just turn out to be a Neverending Texter) but will occasionally try to explain things.

Anyway, like the OP said, there's always a danger that he's just an address collector, so yes - whatever your personal booking procedures are, it's clearly best not to start giving out location information til he's done his on-the-day confirmation and you're speaking on the phone. If someone can't respect that, they don't get an appointment; they'd be better off going to a brothel (i.e. a shared flat where nobody actually lives) anyway.

I work from a flat that I just use for work purposes and never give out the address before the guy calls to say he has arrived at the point I ask them to call me from for further directions.

And while I do take bookings via email through my site and aw they still have to call either on the day of their booking to confirm or if its an on the day booking when they arrive at the said calling point.

I have met this guy... He's into BDSM and is an experienced Dom.

He was nice to begin with... But after about an hour he said 'You know, I dont know why, but I really like you etc etc'.

Literally... Every 5 minutes he said 'You're beautiful... You're reeeeally really beautiful...' - Those words are going to make me grind my teeth forever now!

Anyway, stayed the night... It was fine... But when getting ready to leave in the morning he begs me not to go... I try and get out of bed and he's holding me so tight i cant move... I tell him im about to piss my pants and he lets me go...

I THEN get messages constantly saying 'You're beautiful... You really are... I own you now... You're mine... I'm your daddy and youre my babydoll'... Eewwwwwwwwwwwww I'm cringing as I write this!!

Obsessive, clingy, and when I told him that no-one owns me, I have a partner who I love, and I dont want to see him anymore he gets abusive and does his best to manipulate and lay on the guilt. Luckily I've had many boyfriends who use the same tactics and I cant stomach it.

Just be warned girls... This one's a weirdo!

ALSO... AW claims he has 121 Aliases!!!! Holy shit right?

Nope... Very much a Londoner and lives in the Earls court/chelsea area...