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RedLady1991

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Abusive TW texter...
« on: 27 February 2012, 01:39:34 pm »
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Text me at least ten times in five minutes asking for "pics and info". Text him and said that if he wanted details, to call me. I dont "do" texts with new clients. Explained this politely and he kept pestering me, another 5 texts in the space of less than five minutes. Left an answerphone message asking him to ring, and stop texting me.

He stopped for half an hour then started again, and I made it VERY CLEAR that he was to stop texting me ("please stop texting me!") and then followed another four or five text messages "i need info/pics/are you white/English?" etc.

Replied with "i have asked you to stop texting me, if this continues I will consider it harassment and inform the  correct authorities to take this matter further. Additionally, if you require information, feel free to ring me."

Abuse then followed. Im fat, ugly, got saggy tits amongst other things...oh and he also reckons im not worthy of the money I charge. Guess he will never know how good I am now lol!r

EmilyJones

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Re: Abusive TW texter...
« Reply #1 on: 27 February 2012, 02:51:18 pm »
He kept texting you because you kept replying. If someone sends you a text when your site/profile says NO TEXTS then they've already illustrated that they are disrespectful/silly/rude/etc. So don't interact with them at all. Especially not if you need to send a mixed-message text that says, "I'm probably going to have to report you to the police for your foul behaviour... but if not, I will still meet you" (?!). His very first text is a perfect, crystal clear sign that you should never, ever be trying to meet him. In fact, I sometimes almost want to thank TWs/morons sometimes for making themselves so easy to avoid!

A surprising number of texters "discover" that they actually are able to ring you and interact with you like a mature, civil human being if you ignore their initial stupid attempts to draw you into endless texting, too. So learning to ignore texts is very worthwhile.

This warning does not belong in the "Warnings & Wasters" section as that is for bad clients who seriously try to book and rip off (or worse) escorts. An abusive texter is (unfortunately) such a commonplace sort of pillock that we created this subsection for reports about people who are just idiots. Please keep reports that involve only abusive texts here.

Thank you. :)
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RedLady1991

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Re: Abusive TW texter...
« Reply #2 on: 27 February 2012, 06:50:42 pm »
Well to further add to the story, since being at my day job where my phone stays turned off in a locker, I have received six answerphone messages along the lines of "you deserve to die" "i going to hunt you down and make sure you suffer"  and other messages.

While I agree with what you wrote 'EmilyJones', and had these answerphone messages been received, I would have been happy for you to move it elsewhere, but as it stands now, id rather people knew about him. I search all new numbers through this site first, and it has saved me time and energy at times, and just wanted others to be wary :)

I have reported this to the police, and blocked the number.

Thanks again for your reply :)