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"Martin" from Bury - Domination app TW - turns nasty.
« on: 03 November 2014, 10:17:57 pm »
Sorry this is a bit of a long one  , but I think the backstory is relevant as he seemed a perfect client until he flipped and started bombarding me with nasty texts. Never got to meet him ( thank God) , hence he's in "tw" section , although I believe he does meet with Mistresses/Escorts ( as opposed to just timewasting/no-showing) , make your own mind up from his texts , but he is not the sort of man Id risk been stuck with....and he seemed SO nice and polite at first , just goes to show that you always need to be careful , even if they seem a nice guy in their initial contacts.


This man contacted me via email a month ago , said he wanted to book well in advance as he has little spare time and would be travelling on train and wanted plenty time to plan the journey. He seemed great , very polite email addressing me as "Ma'am" , "Mistress" etc , the language he used made him come across as a good submissive. After a few emails back and forth I said he would need to speak to me via phone ( I wont meet anyone without getting a "feel " for them in a call)  , and that I'm in X area of X town , but I cant give full address until the day he visits. He made a 2hr Domination/facesitting app for this sat just gone and all seemed well.

Last Thurs eve I got a call on my escort phone , I didn't pick it up in time so I called straight back , now let me clarify here that I don't ring/text  clients at random due to discretion , but I figure that if they have rung me 5 seconds ago then they are obviously not with the wife !!  He didn't pick up but sent a text saying
 
" Its me Martin , what the fuck do you want , i haven't given you fucking permission to ring me you dumb cunt. Appointment is henceforth cancelled !! GOOD BYE AND GOOD LUCK TO YOU  , do NOT contact me again "  ( i didn't respond)

Thought id heard the last of him then 2 hours later he bombards me with various texts . I should not have responded and ignored him as i did the first bad text , but I don't appreciate been harassed on an evening , so yes against my better judgement I responded.

"You Yorkshire cunts are all the same , think your king of the fucking hill. Well you yorkshire sheepshagger , you are just another fucking nobody. Fuck you !".

This I did respond to , I said I'm glad he has cancelled as he seems like a nutter and why he is he still contacting me when he demanded "NO CONTACT" . ( i didn't swear at him apart from "bugger off"  or lose it with him although his behaviour warrants it)

"What kind of a lady are you to swear at me !! You fucking Mistresses are all the same , think you can speak to subs like shit eh , just cos we subs !!  Thick stupid whores who cant get a proper job. I work split shifts every day and I'm fucked if I'm gonna give my money to a stuck up whore slag like you . You lost a two hour app bitch , fuck you !! You gonna have to go suck cock for tenner on street corner ...LOOOOOLLLLLLLL "

I responded again to point out that  ,

a- Yes Ive swore in telling him to "bugger off" , although ONLY after been subjected to his crazy waffle full of swearing and insults.

b- Ive not "spoke to him like shit" in any of our communications , having been professional and polite up until this eve when he decided to take his anger out on me. . . and even so Ive been pretty restrained in the circumstances. I am very protective and appreciative of my true submissives continued support and devotion , and I never "speak to them like shit" out of session. ( In session is a diff matter of course , especially for those who get off on been spoke to in that manner)  , oh , and that true and "proper" subs would NEVER speak to a lady in such a manner.

c - I don't contact clients without prior warning , but if one has literally just called 5 seconds ago then I call them back , then obvs they are "free to speak" , or why they calling me in first place. Explained that I ignored/left him alone after 1st text , but he decided to harass me later in the eve with nasty texts. . . . Told him his texts are been saved and to go away , I wont be responding to any more texts/calls/emails from him.

d- I actually have a "proper job" .  :)


Then I get

Are you a man in drag  , a  tranny or hermaphrodite ...cos you no fucking lady , so I wont speak to you like one ..... My Mistress is with me now , and we are fucking laughing at you throwing a hissy fit cos I cancellled the booking....Grow up bitch and stop expecting to get your own way. You have been played bitch !! Now fuck off and stop tyring to have the last word , you yorkshire sheep  shagging twat. ( ignored)

It would only be too easy for me to ring you off a throwaway number and make a booking , ill get your address and then tell all your neighbours that your a filthy whore prozzie . Or ill book a service and at end ill take my money back and you wont be able to do fuck all about it. Watch your back whore. YORKSHIRE SHEEPSHAGGER ( ignored)

He gave up after that when I wasn't giving him the satisfaction of a response. Ive got an email address , phone number and full name for him. Name prob an alias but its worth watching out for that name booking you. Ive no idea if he intended to TW me from the start , or if he cancelled in a fit of rage as id "had the nerve to call him back " ...Whatever , this guy obvs has major issues!! I guess he is bitter as he has to pay for his kinks therefore secretly despising the women he "submits " to . Guys can get their kinks attended to for free , in the kinky/fetish scene ( I go to the parties , socialising not working) , but of course those guys are genuinely nice men who can actually have a conversation and a relationship with women, and not antisocial douchebags who spit their dummy out at the slightest "wrong". And why is he mailing women in Yorkshire if he hates us all so much ....Nutter ...Although I laughed at the "yorkshire sheep shagger " part. Insult = Epic fail.

078182242**

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He says he from Bury.
« Last Edit: 03 November 2014, 10:25:00 pm by KinkyVixen »
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Re: "Martin" from Bury - Domination app TW - turns nasty.
« Reply #1 on: 03 November 2014, 10:23:20 pm »
Ive actually taken my email off AW now as its too easy for TWs/nutters to contact with no trace . I only put it on in first place as i then get the email notifications to my smartphone , and its easier than logging into AW every hour. Before smartphone I never used to show an email.

At least if they have to mail through AW they can be blocked  , negatived etc.
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Re: "Martin" from Bury - Domination app TW - turns nasty.
« Reply #2 on: 03 November 2014, 11:26:25 pm »
Well it seems that someone has just wrote something about " irrelavant posts" that is now deleted.

Im not so green that Ill post every single text/email idiot that comes along. But I think when one of them is threatening to book an app via a diff numb so they can "get free service" and "get your address so i can out you to your neighbours " then it  IS relevant.

This guy obviously has issues regarding escorts/mistresses and I believe him to be a "real" client rather than just another TW text fantasist. I couldnt work fri/sat as he'd got me stressed out with his threats , so I dont know why other escorts are making comments about it been "irrelevant". Unless your the Mistress he claims to have.
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Re: "Martin" from Bury - Domination app TW - turns nasty.
« Reply #3 on: 03 November 2014, 11:27:57 pm »
Whoever thinks it irrelevant , ask yourself this .....would you want to be stuck in a booking with a nutjob like that.....and he seems so nice at first , no red flags at all.

From SAAFE rules , Re this section .

If you're posting about a timewaster or nuisance who you don't believe to be dangerous, include the word "timewaster" in your title.

Warnings should include as much information as possible that could help other people to identify the subject, such as accent, ethnicity, scars and tattoos. However we can't publicise full phone numbers, addresses and email addresses, so please censor part of each. You can include the uncensored details in a private message to another user if she PMs you to ask for them.


Now , as I have'nt met him and dont know if he actually is dangerous , or is just another saddo getting his kicks , that is why ive labelled him "timewaster" . Its within the rules so I dont know why another escort  would write a post about it been "irrelevant" .
« Last Edit: 03 November 2014, 11:37:01 pm by KinkyVixen »
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Re: "Martin" from Bury - Domination app TW - turns nasty.
« Reply #4 on: 04 November 2014, 02:45:24 am »
This guy contacted me about a face sitting three hour booking, initially back in September 2013.  I am not a mistress and yet he addressed me as Miss etc.  His first email started off with quite over the top flattery etc, very subservient.  But very quickly he becomes a bit neurotic and unhinged.  His communication style is very similar each time he contacts a mistress/escort.  He then seems to deliberately create an antagonistic situation to rile whoever he contacts.  He appears to get off on the drama and gets more preposterous in his messages trying to get reactions.  He then throws his toys out of the pram and announces how he is now withdrawing his booking but then keeps emailing, trying to still get escorts into an argument with him.  He is at best quite a deliberate and prolific timewaster who tries to upset escorts and mistresses.  Btw he told me he was from Manchester.  He was going to come and see me in London but expected a full detailed travel itinerary and address without having even set an actual date.  But he seems to have escalated his behaviour with those abusive calls and texts since he contacted me again a few weeks ago so he may be stepping up his nuisance behaviour.  He gave his name as Martin too, was 43 years old, now 44 and gave his surname, starting with T.  He may also use the nic ?Diceman?.         

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Re: "Martin" from Bury - Domination app TW - turns nasty.
« Reply #5 on: 05 November 2014, 03:08:52 pm »
This man is a definate time waster and seems to hassle women from all over the country.

He wanted me to go to Manchester and it had to be to a certain hotel, seemed ok at first and more than happy to pay deposit, but then he kept emailing with demands and asking if I would definately be there, reminded him he needed to pay the deposit and thats when his attitude changed and I ended up cancelling.

He has been mentioned a few times on the HNTBAE thread too.

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Re: "Martin" from Bury - Domination app TW - turns nasty.
« Reply #6 on: 06 November 2014, 04:56:50 pm »
Yes thats him "diceman" , Thanks ladies. Yes he is obviously targetting all escorts .


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Re: "Martin" from Bury - Domination app TW - turns nasty.
« Reply #7 on: 06 November 2014, 11:48:49 pm »
This guy contacted me about a face sitting three hour booking, initially back in September 2013.  I am not a mistress and yet he addressed me as Miss etc.  His first email started off with quite over the top flattery etc, very subservient.  But very quickly he becomes a bit neurotic and unhinged.  His communication style is very similar each time he contacts a mistress/escort.  He then seems to deliberately create an antagonistic situation to rile whoever he contacts.  He appears to get off on the drama and gets more preposterous in his messages trying to get reactions.  He then throws his toys out of the pram and announces how he is now withdrawing his booking but then keeps emailing, trying to still get escorts into an argument with him.  He is at best quite a deliberate and prolific timewaster who tries to upset escorts and mistresses.  Btw he told me he was from Manchester.  He was going to come and see me in London but expected a full detailed travel itinerary and address without having even set an actual date.  But he seems to have escalated his behaviour with those abusive calls and texts since he contacted me again a few weeks ago so he may be stepping up his nuisance behaviour.  He gave his name as Martin too, was 43 years old, now 44 and gave his surname, starting with T.  He may also use the nic ?Diceman?.       

Martin (initials: MT) was playing me and another escort for mugs at the same time, story here:

http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=23494.0

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Re: "Martin" from Bury - Domination app TW - turns nasty.
« Reply #8 on: 08 November 2014, 06:14:28 am »
Yep he has rung me too, but thanks to this post, and grumpy cows post, I spoke to him once, checked SAAFE and in the words of GC ' Bingo!' , he hasn't emailed or rung me back so hopefully that's the last of it, but I won't be responding to him, got him in my phone as Martin TW

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Re: "Martin" from Bury - Domination app TW - turns nasty.
« Reply #9 on: 23 December 2014, 11:29:46 pm »
Hello Everyone,

Am new here and am so glad i found this forum :) . I had the same issue with this so called martin ! lmao he kept bugging me with text messages like 5 in less than 10 mins and this went on for days  , i tried so hard to ignore him and then i was like call me when you need me . Then he replied saying " ok i shall book you soon :) mid jan or feb ..." . I did ignore the last text i got from him but as if that was not enough, he carried on messaging me on whats app  :FF so i had to block him everywhere till he stopped. Am sure he has moved on to someone else now lol. i saved his number as time waster no26( martin) and when i typed in his number on saafe it this post came up ! . Glad i found saafe :)
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Re: "Martin" from Bury - Domination app TW - turns nasty.
« Reply #10 on: 14 July 2015, 09:36:40 pm »
Seems he is still on the go just had a text from him on 078182242** (pm me for full number).

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Re: "Martin" from Bury - Domination app TW - turns nasty.
« Reply #11 on: 15 July 2015, 10:45:40 am »
This guy contacted me a couple of years ago, didn't make a booking but also didn't cause a problem.

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Re: "Martin" from Bury - Domination app TW - turns nasty.
« Reply #12 on: 16 June 2016, 01:38:20 pm »
New number: 079018959** and now goes by Jonathan

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Re: "Martin" from Bury - Domination app TW - turns nasty.
« Reply #13 on: 15 August 2017, 05:55:02 am »
This Martin guy has being in contact with me recently via backpage ..he's using 078182242**..claims to be in Manchester
Made appointment for a three hour facesitting session claims to be coming into London on a weekend
Then all of a sudden cancels 10mins before the allocated time,,cooking up excuses then suggest you should to Manchester and he will pay for my train ticket.
I just blocked him.
He's definitely back at it again
« Last Edit: 15 August 2017, 05:59:45 am by Missyblue »

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Re: "Martin" from Bury - Domination app TW - turns nasty.
« Reply #14 on: 15 August 2017, 09:43:02 am »
About a year and a half ago I had a similar experience with this man. He claimed to be called Martin. He called me at 10am one morning claiming to be my client for midday when I knew for a fact that I had nobody booked in and that he was lying. Throughout the day I had a series of threatening messages and texts from him Including one saying how he would book an appointment and switch on me and again take money back. And I had wasted his time etc etc. He said he had travelled a long way and he would get me back and report my address to the police etc etc. He carried on doing this for the space of about three days before he left me alone. This man is unhinged and needs professional help!
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