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Title: Your “typical” client
Post by: AnnaConda on 22 February 2024, 09:38:53 pm
My last booking got me thinking about how varied we all are as service providers and how there’s a demographic out there for everyone to cater towards. Who do your clients tend to be?

Mine are usually middle-aged to elderly, white, professional or retired professional, rural-dwelling, divorced. Financially comfortable. Often with some health problems and like to chat.
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: Flo on 22 February 2024, 09:48:03 pm
Same! Just nice run of the mill people (inserts a million caveats!) I have one with a colostomy bag and that was a challenge at first
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: amy on 22 February 2024, 09:57:03 pm
Mine are pretty varied but with the caveat that I don't get many past their late fifties/early sixties (I suspect because of my location; I'm in the City of London so most of mine are coming from work).

The majority are between thirty and fifty and I get a lot of black and asian punters of all ages too, but often younger (thank you racial profilers - you're paying my rent :D), and every nationality I can think of. Most book an hour or less, turn up and pay, get on with it and then bog off back to work without any faff, which suits me perfectly.

They also tend to be very clean and relatively fit; every time I read a post here from someone who finds that bad hygiene is a regular occurance I count myself lucky, because I cannot remember the last time I had any worse than a bit of a manly armpit (which I don't mind that much anyway provided it's not OTT).
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: Flo on 22 February 2024, 10:13:46 pm
Mine are pretty varied but with the caveat that I don't get many past their late fifties/early sixties (I suspect because of my location; I'm in the City of London so most of mine are coming from work).

The majority are between thirty and fifty and I get a lot of black and asian punters of all ages too, but often younger (thank you racial profilers - you're paying my rent :D), and every nationality I can think of. Most book an hour or less, turn up and pay, get on with it and then bog off back to work without any faff, which suits me perfectly.

They also tend to be very clean and relatively fit; every time I read a post here from someone who finds that bad hygiene is a regular occurance I count myself lucky, because I cannot remember the last time I had any worse than a bit of a manly armpit (which I don't mind that much anyway provided it's not OTT).

Amy, that sounds perfect and I like the fact the clients in your location are busy people so they just turn up and cough up!

When I tried the City of London on AW I didn't get much luck but I think that's because I go there irregularly and do outcall only.

Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: Mirror on 23 February 2024, 07:35:09 am
Mine are pretty varied but with the caveat that I don't get many past their late fifties/early sixties (I suspect because of my location; I'm in the City of London so most of mine are coming from work).

The majority are between thirty and fifty and I get a lot of black and asian punters of all ages too, but often younger (thank you racial profilers - you're paying my rent :D), and every nationality I can think of. Most book an hour or less, turn up and pay, get on with it and then bog off back to work without any faff, which suits me perfectly.

They also tend to be very clean and relatively fit; every time I read a post here from someone who finds that bad hygiene is a regular occurance I count myself lucky, because I cannot remember the last time I had any worse than a bit of a manly armpit (which I don't mind that much anyway provided it's not OTT).

I notice more of a 'can do' approach when in London but I do attract a wider age range, and longer bookings but that can be a result of my adverts, reports, pricing structure and the way I work. I too rarely encounter hygiene issue but the one that stand out in recent years have been 60s, with health issues (for example one man's build prevented him from seeing his own cock he was very clean everywhere else). What was annoying was I had to prove it. ::) he also left a sweaty head mark on the wall.
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: MissBetty on 23 February 2024, 08:52:42 am
I would say I have 55% white age range early 30s to late 70s. 40% asain age range late 20s to mid 50s. 5% Black age range 40s.  I would say 70% are married or in relationships. 30% single.   Most are very healthy say for some age related illnesses.

I live in a medium sized city but most my client base is from the surround areas not where I am from.  Lots are travelling through regularly,  so I am a good stop-off for them.  Which is good for me as lots plan in advance as they on a timetable. 

Hygiene wise, I'd say 97% of my clients arrive spotless or jump straight in my shower.  Only complaint i have is bad breath.   I seem to be over sensitive to when people need dental work.  I can smell it a mile off.  Knocks me sick.  I did get a few shitty arses on hotel sheets when I toured, still to this day I swear they did it on purpose.  I not bothered touring since covid and the clients seem to respect my perm base more than the hotels and apartments i rented.

Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: cherryfcuk on 23 February 2024, 09:29:10 am
Mostly white Middle Ages men, i rarely get black clients… more Asian men.
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: Justine on 23 February 2024, 09:54:18 am
After giving this some thought I can say there's no typical client in the many years of this full time work.

All ages from 19 to pushing 90! Predominantly white. Almost every type of booking and duration. I used to do a lot of out calls but only in call now. My maximum booking duration is 90 minutes now and my favourite is perfect little half hours. I can be asked for 2 or 3 or more hours but I don't weaken. As to married or single men there's no sure way of knowing but probably the majority of those over 30 are likely to have a partner. The much older ones can be widowed or have no sex life at home. One older guy was grumpy and a little arrogant in his ten or so bookings and I got really fed up with him then discovered he had recently lost his beloved wife which was a sad story to read in the newspaper (purely by chance and his photo was there!) and I realised he could have been taking his low moods out on me.

Ho hum a whore's life is rarely straightforward. 😏

I've met (serviced 😁) quite a few off the telly or are known in the media but until they've mentioned it themselves I have not let them know I recognised them.

Hygiene wise  there are next to no horror stories to relate.
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: AnnaConda on 23 February 2024, 06:03:55 pm
I am very explicit with regards to my booking instructions on my hygiene expectations for clients and I have only had one unsavoury experience regarding a stale pissy cock so I’m assuming that stating outright that I demand cleanliness does get clients to at least consider having a good wash. Some of the stories on here make me want to retch just reading them.

I would also say about 70% of my bookings are regular repeat clients rather than one-offs, which I prefer by far. I like building a rapport with them and knowing what works for them without having to feel it out.
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: Femme fatale on 23 February 2024, 06:42:17 pm
I'd always wanted reg non nightmare clients but ..
Few met a suitable standard without having high standards
Be clean turn up on time pay up and enjoy
themselves then  come back .
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: liz22 on 23 February 2024, 08:04:28 pm
Most of my clients are middle aged who are not in the best of shape, like to chat and seem to be seeking a companion to share their thought and problems.  Luckily most are clean if not a shower will be offered to the client.
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: Sue69 on 27 February 2024, 08:18:41 am
I get more timewasters under 30 and tend to avoid this age group.  They either think they are God’s gift to women and I should be grateful for sex with them or they make out they are virgins and need lots of reassurance and that never ends in a booking.

Once I am sure he was a virgin, he booked on AW and when I phoned him he was very nervous, but we made the booking.  Then on the morning he txt me to tell me he was a virgin.  In truth I think he was, he didn’t seem sure of anything and needed coaching, I ended up seeing him several times before he said he was ready to try another lady.
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: amy on 27 February 2024, 10:35:49 am
Sue, was this thread you meant to post the above in? I'm asking because it has nothing to do with the OP's question, so if it was intended as a reply to something else I can move it :)
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: matureho on 27 February 2024, 12:57:21 pm
I have a bit of everything and anything, from young fit black guys to 60+ not so fit white guys.
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: Mirror on 27 February 2024, 03:01:58 pm
My last booking got me thinking about how varied we all are as service providers and how there’s a demographic out there for everyone to cater towards. Who do your clients tend to be?

Mine are usually middle-aged to elderly, white, professional or retired professional, rural-dwelling, divorced. Financially comfortable. Often with some health problems and like to chat.

Mine vary many 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s with some visitors - there is a great influx of contractors in my area. Also holiday makers from all around the country. I also have younger clients 20s, 30s who seem to be attracted to my experience. Mix of GFE, BDSM and everywhere inbetween.
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: Lushblossom on 28 February 2024, 09:48:35 am
White married men 50 plus 60 plus. Some 40 plus.

Some fit due to the gym some unfit. Half and half maybe.
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: RedH on 28 February 2024, 10:19:10 pm
Mostly white clients but lately I do seem to be getting more and more asian clients. Sadly not very many black clients.
White clients tend to be all ages and physical fitness’s.
Asians tend to be mid-30s to late 40s and generally not as physically fit.
The ones that are in their 30's are usually married or living with partners.
The ones that are in there 40's are probably a 50:50 spilt of married and divorced.
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: DBLM on 08 March 2024, 06:19:12 am
"Mine are usually middle-aged to elderly, white, professional or retired professional, rural-dwelling, divorced. Financially comfortable. Often with some health problems and like to chat."

Same!
Although the older guy is always who I have marketed to and as an indie I've never done quickies or low process and I guess it is younger men that go for fast and cheap.

I noticed on the anti-whore websites that research shows most men who "use" prostitutes are younger than 20-30. But I have wondered about this - what research? Admittedly, now I won't see young guys, but I have lots of experience over 30 years in various settings in England, including walk-ups and brothels, and in my experience, men under 30 are rare.
Rare enough to actually still remember them!
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: Femme fatale on 18 March 2024, 05:27:07 am
Older gentlemen predominately white ,  time wasters all black guys .some genuine Asian guys mixed ages
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: Tina Sparx on 11 April 2024, 06:36:14 am
Mine are normally white middle aged, married men (who always stress they are straight!).
Lots of Asian timewasters - normally from viva street ads.
Very few blacks these days.
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: amy on 11 April 2024, 10:02:03 am
Folks, this isn't a 'what race are your punters?' thread, and some of the language is getting unacceptable. Keep it general, please.
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: Femme fatale on 14 April 2024, 05:43:28 am
Mostly guys from 30 yrs upwards
I don't see very young like under 20s they are the worst time wasters .
I tend to usually attract guys who want an older woman
 
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: Karena on 14 April 2024, 06:43:04 pm
Guys between 40 ish and 60 ish, professionals, drive BMW's, play golf, married, well off etc. I get a lot of guys out on the road going to meetings and selling stuff. I also get a fair amount of sparky's, plumbers and such. This woman I know years ago she had dealings with the police - can't remember what for - and the police woman said something about never seen so many Mercs, Audi's and BMW's etc parked near her flat. Before I got into this game, I never thought these would be the norm. Most of my guys are lovely.
Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: roseanna on 21 April 2024, 12:28:24 pm

I noticed on the anti-whore websites that research shows most men who "use" prostitutes are younger than 20-30. But I have wondered about this - what research?

I don't remember reading anything that says exactly that. I've seen lots of speculation with all sorts of age profiles, but the statement above is almost the exact opposite of what I think is the case.

I think that most men once they start paying for sex never completely stop. So given that some do not even try it until in their thirties or forties, that means the typical age range is thirties and above, going on to seventies and even eighties in a few cases. Most of my regulars fall between thirty five and sixty five I'd say. Those that book three times a month or more are mostly in the middle of that range. Every client is different, so I'd find it hard to describe a typical one. 

Title: Re: Your “typical” client
Post by: Serendipitydo on 14 May 2024, 11:37:37 pm
Mine are pretty varied but with the caveat that I don't get many past their late fifties/early sixties (I suspect because of my location; I'm in the City of London so most of mine are coming from work).

The majority are between thirty and fifty and I get a lot of black and asian punters of all ages too, but often younger (thank you racial profilers - you're paying my rent :D), and every nationality I can think of. Most book an hour or less, turn up and pay, get on with it and then bog off back to work without any faff, which suits me perfectly.

They also tend to be very clean and relatively fit; every time I read a post here from someone who finds that bad hygiene is a regular occurance I count myself lucky, because I cannot remember the last time I had any worse than a bit of a manly armpit (which I don't mind that much anyway provided it's not OTT).

Mine are mostly the same, however, I did have one... a good looking youngish chap actually, he was a commuter, M40, But oh my gosh.... the smell off him!

I did it but I had to take his clothes into the hall.

Mostly mine are really nice men, usually between the ages of 40 and 60.

Never any trouble.

I think that it makes a big difference how and where you market yourself to avoid the dross.