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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: martine21 on 10 June 2014, 05:20:38 pm
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Hiya girls,
Ive been indie now since the end of March, now i have clients that do come back to me, but nothing regular yet? Im working pretty much most days and try to see all I can to build up my clientelle. I have some 30+ decent feedbacks on aw now, but i'm slightly worried nothings regular?
Does this just take alot of time?
Any advice in this would be appreciated!
Thanks x
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Can take a year to notice regulars x
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Many call guys "regular" after three or four bookings, personally if wouldn't call a guy a regular until I'd seen him maybe every couple of weeks for a year. We all have different standards, don't worry about it. If you are getting many different guys then you must be doing something right.
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For me a guy becomes a regular after his second visit.
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There is regular and regular. I have one weekly, a few monthly or less, quarterly, six monthly and one yearly on his birthday. Takes a year to know what's regular.
If you have seen someone more than 3 times that's regular, how ever often you see them.
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Hiya girls,
Ive been indie now since the end of March, now i have clients that do come back to me, but nothing regular yet? Im working pretty much most days and try to see all I can to build up my clientelle. I have some 30+ decent feedbacks on aw now, but i'm slightly worried nothings regular?
Does this just take alot of time?
Any advice in this would be appreciated!
Thanks x
It does take a while to build up regulars I think it took me around a year.
I would say someone becomes a regular after they have seen you 3 times plus x
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Takes times, after one year I got regulars. X
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A regular to me is 3+ visits and I started getting these pretty much straight away, genuinely x
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A regular to me is, someone I see on a regular basis... Ie once or twice a week, month etc, not after their 3rd visit. Bloody hell if someone came 3 times in 12 months I probably wouldn't even register them ???
One guy has been every week (bar illness and holidays) for 15 years, now i call him a regular ;D
When I first started years ago I remember being really surprised having men return again and again, as I thought the whole point and excitement was to see someone new.
I think for some it takes a while to get comfortable with your persona/offering etc and then you'll start to notice them, not sure it's a matter of time for everyone.
As LL says if your getting clients I wouldn't worry
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One of my regulars comes to see me every 4 or 5 months. I have seen him 3 times since I came back to it and about 4 times prior to my 2 year break. He is a regular. Another sees me every couple of months, another about once a month. Its rare to get a regular who is going to see you every week. Thats a lot of disposable cash to have especially if he is someone who needs an hour each time. Plus eventually you will have lots of regulars but remember, your regulars have lots of regulars too, they like to share you know lol xx
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My definition of regular: You recognise them, you know what they want, you probably know their 'name' and background.
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Sorry to be a bit off topic, but I had a guy visit, was his fourth visit ...and I said to him .... Have I seen you before .....and it wasn't him I recognised, it was his football tattoo on his arm that I remembered. He didn't say anything apart from telling me it was his fourth visit. So they have to make a BIG impression on me before I will remember them.
Going by others standards I must have had dozens of regs, but I didn't see them as that. :(
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I don't think you've worked long enough to notice regs, it's only been 2/3 months, it does take time.
I personally don't class someone as a reg unless I see them frequently over a period of time, they're not really regs if you've seen them a few times in the past
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Sorry to be a bit off topic, but I had a guy visit, was his fourth visit ...and I said to him .... Have I seen you before .....and it wasn't him I recognised, it was his football tattoo on his arm that I remembered. He didn't say anything apart from telling me it was his forth visit. So they have to make a BIG impression on me before I will remember them.
Going by others standards I must have had dozens of regs, but I didn't see them as that. :(
Me too! I'm a nightmare for this, so much so I have to be really careful with what I say and do a bit of detective work with a lot of my clients, in the past I've dropped myself in it and I think some find it offensive I've no idea who they are,
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Hiya girls,
Ive been indie now since the end of March, now i have clients that do come back to me, but nothing regular yet? Im working pretty much most days and try to see all I can to build up my clientelle. I have some 30+ decent feedbacks on aw now, but i'm slightly worried nothings regular?
Does this just take alot of time?
Any advice in this would be appreciated!
Thanks x
In any business it takes time to get established then you will know the regulars.
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This thread has made me feel much better, I've only been going since mid February and though I've had some repeats I wouldn't describe any as 'regular' yet...
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Just a little update, since writing this, I must f had between 10-12 clients I've seen come back to me these last few weeks which of course I'm made up about. ;D
Thanks girls x
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I have repeated customers, but only one who seems to be a "regular" in terms of coming back frequently to me.
And to be honest, that's how I've always liked it. I am not comfortable with being someone's regular WG. I love when they return because they liked my service the last time but I like to think that they're also seeing other WGs. I don't want to be so special to any of them.
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I have 1 that visits regularly every 2 weeks, 3 that visit every month think its a payday thing and 1 that visits every 2 weeks with an ongoing roleplay session which builds up with each meeting.
I also have a client who is locked in chastity and I'm his key holder.
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Hiya girls,
Ive been indie now since the end of March, now i have clients that do come back to me, but nothing regular yet? Im working pretty much most days and try to see all I can to build up my clientelle. I have some 30+ decent feedbacks on aw now, but i'm slightly worried nothings regular?
Does this just take alot of time?
Any advice in this would be appreciated!
Thanks x
A good answer to your question is to just relax, clients will come back in due course. Many always comment during the booking that they will be coming back have lost count. If they do then welcome back if not then at least they enjoyed smiling throughout my service like many do already. This gives me more satisfaction feeling proud of myself knowing they enjoyed than regulars coming back. I don't even think about if they will become a regular to me. Just to clarify that never drop hints about for them to come back as to me this would show a sign of being desperate for custom. Which I am not as do all making my business as productive it can be.