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TeenKylie

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Re: Being an escort... Do you have to look like a model?
« Reply #15 on: 06 December 2012, 09:47:01 pm »
As always my opinion will be different from everyone's else's. I do think the typical 'model' look or page 3 look if you like ie slim, perfect shaped boobs, facially attractive 'pretty' (as in what we are told and shown in the media to be typically facially attractive) will the majority of the time always win and appeal to guys the most. I'm not saying that's right but I think that it's true. However being confident in yourself whatever size, shape, look that you have is always going to be attractive to men and there is a market for every type of girl in this industry.

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Re: Being an escort... Do you have to look like a model?
« Reply #16 on: 06 December 2012, 09:58:24 pm »
Every man has his own mental blueprint of what he thinks is perfect. It can be bigger, smaller, older or younger than what the media thinks is 'model' worthy and it can be fixed for life or just be a preference that passes his fancy in the space of ten minutes.

So, to answer the OP's question - no, I dont have to compete against 'Models.' I just have to make sure I can hold my own against the others in my particular niche. Luckily for me the 'Central London, extreme BBW, works according to a very irregular schedule, very strict booking procedures with a  sarcastic blog and no tolerance for bad manners' is relatively free of competition.

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Re: Being an escort... Do you have to look like a model?
« Reply #17 on: 06 December 2012, 09:58:38 pm »
As always my opinion will be different from everyone's else's. I do think the typical 'model' look or page 3 look if you like ie slim, perfect shaped boobs, facially attractive 'pretty' (as in what we are told and shown in the media to be typically facially attractive) will the majority of the time always win and appeal to guys the most. I'm not saying that's right but I think that it's true. However being confident in yourself whatever size, shape, look that you have is always going to be attractive to men and there is a market for every type of girl in this industry.

Some men in my opinion through experience are learning that looks doesn't equal quality.If any thing page 3 models ect on the shelves are only for them to get off on. Like for example just because there great looking doesn't mean they're all good.  This stigma in society will always remain, to what extent don't know as society is ever growing change. But for one thing is the media drawing people in to believe this way. So if any thing the media are part of this form of peoples judgment in the making.

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Re: Being an escort... Do you have to look like a model?
« Reply #18 on: 06 December 2012, 10:16:50 pm »
Not at all unless you mean a model as in the blob toy figurine they used to have as I manage that look very well.
I am far from model looking but I do ok.  I have clients from all ages groups and backgrounds as everyone has different tastes and I appeal to those who like a curvier woman with big boobs and a slight disposition to say it as it is which is not always what they want to hear yet they still come back ??? ??? No idea why sometimes as I am not one to faun over them telling them they are wonderful and sexy and have a huuuuge cock.  Infact when they start asking things like tht I tend to keep my mouth busy now so I dont blurt out the truth
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Re: Being an escort... Do you have to look like a model?
« Reply #19 on: 09 December 2012, 09:35:17 am »
Be aware that one of the most popular escort photographers in London who does a lot of the agencies girls, absolutely photoshops her work TO THE MAX

Even the regular ones photoshop a lot.  Having spoken to photogs, a lot of agencies demand pretty extreme photoshopping, including facial features etc.

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Re: Being an escort... Do you have to look like a model?
« Reply #20 on: 09 December 2012, 10:22:41 am »
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Be aware that one of the most popular escort photographers in London who does a lot of the agencies girls, absolutely photoshops her work TO THE MAX

Even the regular ones photoshop a lot.  Having spoken to photogs, a lot of agencies demand pretty extreme photoshopping, including facial features etc.

Yep. And it's completely misleading because they end up looking like an ageless, spotless, barbie doll cartoon. Punters hate it and keep slagging off the agencies in the forums because of it.
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Re: Being an escort... Do you have to look like a model?
« Reply #21 on: 13 December 2012, 02:48:38 am »
Well good to see everyone does their own thing and is good at what they do. No, haven't been doing it long, just about to get started again. Just it has a wide range, seen people selling themselves for ?40, and make me wonder what types of clients they get!

At the risk of "blowing my own trumpet" so to speak , I "sell myself" for ?40/30mins and i get very nice clients. It is not a "no frills " service and i get a hell of a lot of repeat business from men who are very happy to return instead of paying a lot more for the same or worse service. Of course i get wankers calling up , but they are rejected in favour for nice guys .

A parlour punt for ?40 is usually basic ( no kissing ect ) and they do end up seeing a lot of guys in one day - my mate does it and likes it , I couldnt do it............. the same mate also charges ?120ph when shes not at the parlour , that is more a GFE and not as rushed as she has no receptionist knocking on the door to say  "times up" .

People need to stop looking down on what they deem "not enough" money.

And botox ect is a waste of money IMO - Injecting botulism toxin into your face isnt going to make you provide a better service
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Re: Being an escort... Do you have to look like a model?
« Reply #22 on: 13 December 2012, 04:53:42 am »
Well i would most definitely be out of a job if we had to all look like 'Models'.. And this industry wouldn't be what it is today.
Variety is the spice of life..
IMO, especially for established girls its more on the service offered and as mentioned before making that instant connection - it's just about finding your niche in this game.
I've worked in the industry for about 10yrs now on & off.
At the beginning i was a busty size 10 and i'm 5'10... Now a curvy size 14/16 with a huge ass lol and im glad that i look nothing like a model, that's what makes me stand out - Cos 90% off my bookings are due to the size off my BIIIG ASS lol Looking like Heidi Klum or Kate Moss wouldn't make the slightest bit off difference in this world.
Great Example to how men think - FHM'S WORLDS Sexiest Women List 2012 - picked by normal blokes.. Winner is: Tulisa Contostavlos (X-factor judge because she's a normal girl) she was picked over Rihanna, Kelly Brooke (Model), Kim Kardashian etc.

Hope this makes sense.. lol

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Re: Being an escort... Do you have to look like a model?
« Reply #23 on: 15 December 2012, 01:05:20 pm »
Interesting little factoid from the nerd in the room: When a guy has a good chance of having sex with a woman, his brain makes her look hotter.

Your brain will effect the way you see the world to make you act in your own best interest. A bottle of water on the table will look closer if you feel thirsty and a steep incline will seem steeper to try and prevent you from falling down and getting hurt. Your body want's you to go up the less steep, meandering path instead.

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Re: Being an escort... Do you have to look like a model?
« Reply #24 on: 15 December 2012, 05:26:03 pm »
Well good to see everyone does their own thing and is good at what they do. No, haven't been doing it long, just about to get started again. Just it has a wide range, seen people selling themselves for ?40, and make me wonder what types of clients they get!



And botox ect is a waste of money IMO - Injecting botulism toxin into your face isnt going to make you provide a better service

I agree with this, I think surgery and the like to up business is a waste of money unless the body part is affecting your confidence, I get loads of clients who comment on how great it is that my boobs are still natural and that they dont often find girls like me that still have their real tits xx

i worked with a girl in a parlour who still had a bush down there and she'd get many extra clients cos of it who couldnt find the natural look anywhere else, as most girls now shave xx

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Re: Being an escort... Do you have to look like a model?
« Reply #25 on: 15 December 2012, 05:29:45 pm »

Great Example to how men think - FHM'S WORLDS Sexiest Women List 2012 - picked by normal blokes.. Winner is: Tulisa Contostavlos (X-factor judge because she's a normal girl) she was picked over Rihanna, Kelly Brooke (Model), Kim Kardashian etc.

Hope this makes sense.. lol

the person who wins this is nearly always the female tabloid darling of the year whos been in the press/on tv/talked about loads at the time, I think cheryl cole won it when she was really popular, I dont personally think it has anything to do with what men actually find sexy xx


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Re: Being an escort... Do you have to look like a model?
« Reply #26 on: 15 December 2012, 10:54:53 pm »
I am over weight, wear glasses, my nose is too big and quite frankly without make up look like a man...

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