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Through The Glory Hole

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Do you see Asian punters?
« on: 07 November 2023, 12:45:15 pm »
Hi everyone

Im getting alot of enquiries from Asians. Im not racist or anything so i would happily see them but ive seen a few people on here have had bad experiences. Would you see Asians? Have you had any good or bad clients that are Asian?



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Re: Do you see Asian punters?
« Reply #1 on: 07 November 2023, 12:59:52 pm »
Hi everyone

Im getting alot of enquiries from Asians. Im not racist or anything so i would happily see them but ive seen a few people on here have had bad experiences. Would you see Asians? Have you had any good or bad clients that are Asian?

I see a lot of British asians who speak good English. You can get a bad client or good one in any shape, colour and culture. Speak to them before a booking and if they sound fine then hopefully all good. It's always up to you who you want to see or not.

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« Reply #2 on: 07 November 2023, 01:08:26 pm »
I don’t discriminate on anyone because of race or ethnicity as long as they can’t speak and understand English then it’s no issue to me. There are good and bad Asian clients just as there are with any race. Every individual is different so I can’t give a generalised comment. In some areas if you don’t see Asians you would be left with very few clients. Of course it’s everyone’s choice who they wish to see. Just screen in the same way you do with other clients

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Re: Do you see Asian punters?
« Reply #3 on: 07 November 2023, 01:18:55 pm »
Yes - a large percentage of my clients are asians. From my own experience, I prefer them and they are cleaner than some because they are usually circumcised depending on the country they are from and if they are muslim. Asia is a large continent. I think linking a bad experience to someone ethnicity isn’t right to be honest. There must be some underlying issues there for someone to completely not see a certain race/ethnicity. It is your business and your work so it’s completely up to you who you see although you’ll be cutting out a large percentage of potential clients x
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Through The Glory Hole

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Re: Do you see Asian punters?
« Reply #4 on: 07 November 2023, 01:24:22 pm »
Thanks everyone

I didnt want to cut them out. To me thats abit unfair but i wondered if there was some reason people sometimes people dont see them

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Re: Do you see Asian punters?
« Reply #5 on: 07 November 2023, 01:35:01 pm »
I really appreciate this question as I am of Asian ethnicity.

I am available only every now and then. I only offer massage and it clearly states that I do not offer sexual services just sensual massage, I am clear when speaking to anyone of this but the Pakistani men always push the boundaries. The only clients I have these problems with is Pakistani men who force me mid massage for extras offering me substantial amounts of money, which will not change my mind. As I only do outcalls it’s very intimidating to the point where I have stopped seeing them. I have seen an influx of Asian men calling me wanting service without protection, sexual services and when I try and explain I do not do those services they cannot speak English very well and call me racist when I decline, I am a women of colour too but if they don’t get their own way they get aggressive very quickly.

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Re: Do you see Asian punters?
« Reply #6 on: 07 November 2023, 01:41:28 pm »
I see a lot of British asians who speak good English. You can get a bad client or good one in any shape, colour and culture. Speak to them before a booking and if they sound fine then hopefully all good. It's always up to you who you want to see or not.

My experience too, although because of my location I don't have many Asian clients. Some of those who I've had bookings with booked me on tours, or to travel quite a distance to visit either me or me to them. I also have asian phone chat & webcam clients - of course if I can't see them or their accent is not one of asian heritage I am oblivious.

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« Reply #7 on: 07 November 2023, 01:58:46 pm »
I really appreciate this question as I am of Asian ethnicity.

I am available only every now and then. I only offer massage and it clearly states that I do not offer sexual services just sensual massage, I am clear when speaking to anyone of this but the Pakistani men always push the boundaries. The only clients I have these problems with is Pakistani men who force me mid massage for extras offering me substantial amounts of money, which will not change my mind. As I only do outcalls it’s very intimidating to the point where I have stopped seeing them. I have seen an influx of Asian men calling me wanting service without protection, sexual services and when I try and explain I do not do those services they cannot speak English very well and call me racist when I decline, I am a women of colour too but if they don’t get their own way they get aggressive very quickly.

I'm sorry that this has been the case for you. In my experience when seeing people from the same background as me, they either are overly respectful/sensitive or very disrespectful of boundaries . I'm guessing it's due to the fact that it's an as a Taboo in South Asian culture so unfortunately the bad clients may be viewing us very negatively. Now I've learnt how to filter out the bad ones so I have pleasant experiences and some of my south Asian clients are the most hygienic

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« Reply #8 on: 07 November 2023, 02:13:42 pm »
I'm sorry that this has been the case for you. In my experience when seeing people from the same background as me, they either are overly respectful/sensitive or very disrespectful of boundaries . I'm guessing it's due to the fact that it's an as a Taboo in South Asian culture so unfortunately the bad clients may be viewing us very negatively. Now I've learnt how to filter out the bad ones so I have pleasant experiences and some of my south Asian clients are the most hygienic

Thank you for your reply.

I am of Bengoli heritage and the Pakistani men I have encountered have this presumption that I am looking for Prince Charming or they want to marry me and run off into the sunset. It’s upsets them when I say it’s not what I am looking for, they don’t like to hear no.

I have tried to explain there are so many wonderful escorts for them to choose from but they reply they are not like me which really offends me as I say I am no different to them I just offer something different.

It’s been a bitter pill to swallow because as you have kindly pointed out it is either that they are overly respectful or push all boundaries which has been the case for me so I graciously decline. The most pleasant men for me are English men who make an effort to be culturally aware and the most hygienic.

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Re: Do you see Asian punters?
« Reply #9 on: 07 November 2023, 02:39:41 pm »
If you 'happily see' Asian clients then there is no purpose for this thread. Treating groups of punters differently because of their ethnic origin has been done to death here already and these threads can be easily found.

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