I'm looking for a few words of wisdom from the more experienced ladies if that's okay? Many apologies if this has been discussed before but couldn't find it in a search.

In brief, one of my regulars has become a little attached, overly so I feel and I'm a little concerned. He doesn't see anyone else to my knowledge and I'm his first escort experience. The trouble is, he's becoming more emotionally attached, talking about me as his "mistress", telling me our time is really special and he sees more as more than a friend. When I mentioned to him in conversation last night that I might retire one day, he became rather distraught. He often says that were he a few years younger he would marry me (oh no he wouldn't I think and neither would I!) which leads me to feel that his expectations of the client/working girl relationship are crossing boundaries.

Now I definitely don't want to lose him or his bookings as they're a good source of income! Has anyone else experienced this and what should I say to ensure he knows where the boundaries lie?

Thanks in advance

Ok, I know my posts lately have sounded very newbish...but I think I can stick my nose into this one because I definently had an experience like this one.

I had a particular gentleman who was very into me. We seen each other 3 times in our 1st weeek. He even mention hoping to have a relationship with me eventually. Now, some escorts will tell you that it ends up in disaster or tears...but it doesnt have to.

Here's a brief summary of what happened. Basically I didnt get scared or run off, but I told him Im an escort, and that if I see you, there may be a time I have a booking call and if I miss it, then I wont have any money to support myself that week. From that point on he agreed to compensate for everytime we met. Now, although eventually I wasnt charging him my full rates after awhile, we still understood where I stood.

Now, this case is different because that was when I was living in Miami. I had already knew I was going to be moving far away that same month so I knew a relationship wouldnt bloom anyways. Eventually I did tell him I was moving. We had a relationship. It lasted from the time I met until the time I moved. I went back to visit last month. We met again. I was compensated, we had a great time and I spent the night. Then, I flew back home the next day.

You can have a relationship, but it must be understood what kind of relationship it will be. BUSINESS!.

You had a sugar daddy.... lucky you.

LOL...Well, maybe...I guess you could say...YES!

J to the ealous 

Hi Lilly,
      I have a client that is a little like yours. It caused me some headaches actually, constant texting, asking me to not to call him a 'client' going all starry eyed over me, saying other things, involving me in his day to day life with info about himself that was not necessary and asking all the time what I was doing? What I had been up to?  Getting all offhand with me when I was with another client and so on... It was difficult for a while, I was concerned. It's difficult to explain it without coming across as big headed but he really, really has a ginormous crush on me. No matter how much I tried to dissuade him otherwise, he still carried on. In the end I cut down on the times I saw him, I would make a point of leaving hours go by when he would text me before I replied and then told him I was with a client at the time. I made a point of repeating myself in emails about what exactly I am. I don't see him at my place anymore - I go to his place.
It's a tough thing to deal with as it's income and it's good income but the moment I started to dread seeing him, I cut down on seeing him. I upped the talk about my 'job'.
He has calmed down a bit now. I don't feel uneasy going to see him anylonger but I am aware of his 'feelings' and am very careful not to encourage them.
I think he is lonely and I think he has latched onto me as the only person to show him kindness in a long time - I have told him this as well. I did not skirt about the issue with him, I was direct, it helped a lot. I was not cruel but I was firm and it did help. He is still a bit starry eyed but his eyes are now open to what I do for money. I took the risk of not getting another booking with him by laying it out quite plainly as by that stage, I was not feeling too great about seeing him anyhow. Either he was going to stop calling or I was going to stop accepting bookings.
It all worked out in the end.
I am sorry I can't give you more ideas on what to do - somebody will be along later with more experience than I have, but the above helped for my situation.
Jo
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Oh dear, these are really a pain in the ass! When some one is getting too clingy, I will sit them down and have the talk with them, explaining my situation honestly and openly. Thus taking the chance they will never book again, but it is best to be honest. Now as to the mistress thing, well, this is an angle you can also work. PM me for details.

What mistress angle... i might be interested in this.