Thank goodness I didn’t book a hotel this time. I decided to wing it and see if I got any firm bookings beforehand.

There is one man that I’m not sure is a TW. He is very friendly and polite, no reports and  wants to know where I’m booking hotel wise before he will book. I told him were this time. Today is confirmation day and he cancelled due to work and said he hopes I will forgive him and that he would get there for the time arrange. But he knows I am available for the evening! . I told him I was booked up the first ever incall day I had (which I wasn’t didn’t take any booking as report app didn’t work), so not sure if he would have turned up or not.

Other than that no firm bookings just a few texts and 2 calls.

The time of the incall hasn’t started yet, checkin is this afternoon. I would like opinions as to whether you would cancel the incall day. I’ve paid fir available today and phone number.

I am loathe to lose money in the hotel, as they seem very expensive for today. I remember someone E else saying that unless they had 3 bookings they would cancel/not book hotel.

Any opinions would be good.

I agree with Caligirl. I stopped doing hotel in calls a long time ago but not because of no profit days. I never had a day that I didn't make good money but that was a different escorting era. No idea if it would be as good for me now.

Booking in and having to do at least one client just to cover the room rate was something you just had to do.  Cancelling the room then finding you would have had a busy day is another aspect and must be very frustrating.

Good luck though OP

Thanks it’s good to hear from the experienced.

I have decided not to do it and instead see what text and phone calls (if any) I would have got as an experiment and perhaps to block more time wasters.

Perhaps it’s because I’m new, but all I seem to get are a bunch of useless texts who have reports or don’t reply when I reply! (Which I guess is a kind of TW perhaps). Otherwise I get people who ignore when my hotel incall day is and ask for when they want! Even then I’m not swamped with enquiries by any means.

I know it sounds mad, but I think next incall day I advertise; I will drive to the location a hotel  wait until someone says they have arrived and then book. It may piss someone off to wait a bit  and the hotel may be booked up so that may be a  problem.

I am willing to risk losing money again just not today as the rooms are more expensive than usual.

I have used a dayroom option before. I was trying a mixture.

Anyway it seems my instincts were right about yesterday. I would have made no money. Only 2 messages at about 5. One I think would have been a no show from history. The other sounded more genuine.

It has been absolutely dire for me since I started this. I have only lust money. I must be doing something wrong. I am beginning to think that I would need to be available everyday at home, to make any money; although I could be available everyday I could not do it from home. I’m actually really starting to feel like a failure!

Aah thank you Fallen Angel,

Although I am not happy to hear that some of you guys are also quiet, it gives me the encouragement that things will turn around and I’ll work it all out in the end. X

To be fair Lushblossom that’s a great point.  I have just looked and there are hardly any in my public gallery, ! I thought I had added more but mustn’t have consented properly. I have added new profile pics though.

Do you mean update my main page with photos or writing? Not really sure what new things I’d write as I’ve said it all! Perhaps a blog. Only thing with a blog is that it’s hard not to reveal yourself too much.