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Bunny

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Worried and scared and need advice,
« on: 21 August 2014, 08:58:44 pm »
Hi, today I saw a client and when he pulled out the condom wasnt on him, it was like stuck inside me!

He did ejaculate in the condom and there is quite abit in there, im just wondering what are the chances of me catching anything?
I have a long term partner whom I don't use condoms with and he dosent know what I do and until i get tested and get my results im going to have to avoid sex with him somehow, i dont know what to say cuz i guess im gonna have to wait a week to get tested with the bank holiday coming up

Im really scared, any advice will be much appreciated. X
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elainegirl

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Re: Worried and scared and need advice,
« Reply #1 on: 21 August 2014, 09:12:11 pm »
Hi

This happened to me before. I was having doggy style sex and he kept asking for unprotected. He was American and said he would pay extra. I refused. Anyway when he pulled out the condom wasn't on it.  It was stuck at the very top of my cervix.

You have to put your fingers and pull it out. Get an STI check is about 2 weeks and take the morning after pill if your not taking the pill.

I hope everything works out ok.

Take care
Elaine



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alice842

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Re: Worried and scared and need advice,
« Reply #2 on: 21 August 2014, 09:32:04 pm »
Hopefully the chance is quite small if he still came inside the condom - even if it did get stuck.

Just so you know, you'll have to wait 6 weeks to get a blood test for things like hiv and hepatitis, the body doesn't start producing antibodies for several weeks so it won't show up immediately. You'll have to wait about 2 weeks for things like chlamydia and gonorrhoea to show up so you can't have unprotected sex with your boyfriend for at least 6 weeks. Maybe tell him you're changing birth control and need to use condoms for a couple of months during the interchange?
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