Last night I met a client that seemed very normal over the phone, he gave me his email address with his real name on it. I stupidly didn't google it before the meet. The meet started with him trying to start being intimate before he had paid. He happily paid when I mentioned it. Next he starts deep french kissing which I hate and can not do, he was just eating the lower half of my face. I tell him I don't like kissing that deeply. So he starts licking my stomach and he asks if I like that I say lets do something else. We go on to owo and he really smelt and tasted bad so I told him he can take a quick shower and he got really offended and said he'd had a bath just before. He refused to take a shower so I told him to just wash with baby wipes. He still smelt but I gave him owo while hes looking over me with his sweat from his face literally pouring off and dripping on me, I was more than disgusted. I really wanted to end the booking but it was only half an hour.

I bought the condoms he requested and when I got them out to have sex he started going on about how I hadn't got the right one out, I showed him the packet and he shut up. He couldn't really get hard so I gave him a hand job in the 5 minutes left. Once he came he went "that was fucking shit" and took the condom off and threw it at the wall. He shoved me to the side and started getting dressed and having a go at me about how bad it was and how I was rude and shouldn't make people "feel like that". I was really shocked as I felt he had been the difficult and inappropriate one for trying to start a booking by trying to get intimate as soon as he was through the door, even without payment. Then he had the nerve to have a go at me for asking for the payment up front and said that you only ask for it after. I was still just shocked at this point standing in the corner thinking what the heck was going on. He next gets his wallet out and starts saying that he's checking it to make sure I've not stolen from him and counts all his money. We had been in the same room in sight of each other for the half an hour, so there was no way I could steal. Anyway we both get dressed and I see him out quickly, as I'm walking him to the door he says how he's going to leave bad feedback which I don't care about at this point.

I later check my feedback and he makes a deal of the kissing, owo and says no value for money. He also put on the feedback that I'm eastern European, which I'm clearly not. It's not an insult in any way, but he obviously thinks it is (explained next), I'm English, with a regional accent.

The next problem is that I left him negative feedback about everything that went wrong. His response was that he had contacted the police and my flat owner for "disturbing the peace".[potentially identifying information redacted] I shouldn't have been so surprised at his behavior. I don't know if I've done anything wrong, I just wanted him to know I knew who he was and have seen his blog which shows how racist and sexist he is. I'm worried he's going to come back and do something because he knows where I live, and lives close by.[potentially identifying information redacted.]

 I don't know where to start with what I'm worried about, that he'll come back and threaten me or worse, turn up when my family or friends are visiting, has actually reported me to the police or landlord (what I did wrong I have no idea) or that I had sex with a guy that somehow thinks rape, paedophilia and murder is justified.Obviously I think it's fine going to escorts - but he writes about escorting, while trying to come across as an outsider, what worries me is if he's writing about and justifying paedophilia what does that say about him??

I wish I hadn't googled this guy but now I don't know what to do to protect myself. I was lucky with the incall as nothing violent happened but he obviously thinks he is being exploited (from his blog stating it's men being exploited in prostitution). Should I still be worried, has anything like this happened to anyone else? What can I do now to protect myself? And what if he really did report me to my landlord and police - would I be in trouble?

Try not to over worry yourself as I think this whinge bag is just trying to play mind games to gain some power over you. Seems like he has too much time on his hands if he's writing blogs & threatening about contacting your landlord & the police etc. As pussycat says,  that's probably an empty threat. I don't think you'll hear anything more from him but do contact the police if he causes you any more bother. You can have him up on harassment charges if he persists to threaten you.

You have every right to refuse owo if someone has bad hygiene, stick a condom on it next time.  Put it down to a bad experience & try to ignore his blogs & feedback. You stood up for yourself & that's the best thing to do in this situation.

Jen, can you give us info on your location, a first name, physical description and phone number for him (last two digits removed)?

She can, but it needs to be in the form of a warning, posted in the appropriate fornat/section, and not include any personally identifying information similar to the content I removed earlier - I could have identified this person in under thirty seconds with a spot of Googling, and anybody else who saw it would have likely been able to also.

Please remember that this is what the PM system is for .

Well the police will think he's a complete idiot and he'll probably now have a note on his sheet for wasting police time, if he doesn't already (and I doubt it's the first time he's tried crap like this on somebody who he took umbrage with, even if it wasn't related to sex work). Did you tell them about him threatening you? If not, do.

You're not breaking the law, but you're probably in breach of your lease so I'd wait to hear from your landlord and have a sob story ready - don't panic too much until you know if anything will come of it though, as nothing might. If you get along with your landlord and have been a good tenant, you may get to at least stay until you can have a proper look for somewhere else more suitable.

As for the university, with a few exceptions course-wise, it's none of their business what you do in your free time any more than it would be if you were working in a pub or at Burger King. You're not going to be the first student sex worker they've known about if they know at all, and you certainly won't be the last .