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Micah

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Working in Dubai as Male Escort?
« on: 10 March 2017, 06:50:31 pm »
I am on the fence about traveling to Dubai soon and working there.

Can anyone give me a clue as to what to expect?

Also, where to stay, how to book hotels there, and how to handle clients there?

If there is a certain area to stay in or hotels to avoid?

Should I do incalls only or both?

So many questions.

Any advice greatly appreciated



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Re: Working in Dubai as Male Escort?
« Reply #1 on: 10 March 2017, 09:31:07 pm »
I am on the fence about traveling to Dubai soon and working there.

Can anyone give me a clue as to what to expect?

Also, where to stay, how to book hotels there, and how to handle clients there?

If there is a certain area to stay in or hotels to avoid?

Should I do incalls only or both?

So many questions.

Any advice greatly appreciated

Do you currently work as a male escort? Is that straight or gay?

Aussie Male Escort

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Re: Working in Dubai as Male Escort?
« Reply #2 on: 10 March 2017, 11:38:24 pm »
I go there on tour once or twice every year for a few weeks each time. If you're straight and not ok having any kind of sexual contact with men, then there's no work there for you (and very little chance of you getting paid escort jobs anywhere) but if you're ok with male clients, let me know and I can answer your questions.

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Re: Working in Dubai as Male Escort?
« Reply #3 on: 11 March 2017, 10:40:40 pm »
I go there on tour once or twice every year for a few weeks each time. If you're straight and not ok having any kind of sexual contact with men, then there's no work there for you (and very little chance of you getting paid escort jobs anywhere) but if you're ok with male clients, let me know and I can answer your questions.

Hey, do you know if there is there any work for couples? Guy is fully bi, so he could work by his own too. But he could work for MMF booking too.
Can you share your working experience there? You can write personal message too.

Micah

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Re: Working in Dubai as Male Escort?
« Reply #4 on: 12 March 2017, 09:30:54 am »

Thanks for responding.
I am a black male escort and more than half of my clients are couples, and the rest gay. I am bisexual and I also work in tandem with female escorts as well. But I have lived in the Middle East before and never escorted, but I would like to try in Dubai once and see how it goes. I am also wondering how much I should charge there per hour and for overnights in general.

And are there certain hotels that I should avoid and are there ones that are better than others?



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Re: Working in Dubai as Male Escort?
« Reply #5 on: 12 March 2017, 04:04:50 pm »
I am on the fence about traveling to Dubai soon and working there.

Can anyone give me a clue as to what to expect?

Also, where to stay, how to book hotels there, and how to handle clients there?

If there is a certain area to stay in or hotels to avoid?

Should I do incalls only or both?

So many questions.

Any advice greatly appreciated

I usually go in October or November when I leave UK for the winter, stay for a few weeks and then go home to Australia to spend a non working holiday with my family over xmas and NY then back to Dubai in January or February. Usually via a few other stop offs on the way to and from Aus eg HK, Singapore, KL, Thailand etc. the year before I went the opposite direction via USA instead but always fit Dubai in there somewhere because I can charge double my UK rate there.

You do need to be very careful there. Escorting, homosexuality and any kind of sex outside of marriage are all illegal there. Sting operations do happen. If hotel staff realise you're escorting, they will kick you out and might report you to the police. Choose the biggest hotels you can in terms of number of rooms. The bigger and busier the lobby, the better. If the hotel has restaurants, a spa etc that non guests visit, even better. Less likely that staff will notice your clients coming and going [redacted]. I move to a different hotel [redacted] every 3 or 4 days when I'm there. Stay in one of the areas with a high concentration of 4 star plus hotels eg downtown, financial, Barsha or marina. I usually stay around the latter two. I like Marina best but I try to time my hotel moves so I'm not there on weekends because marina becomes one big traffic jam for the whole weekend so guys who are driving won't go there. It's very rare for clients to come by metro. They all drive or get taxis. Taxis are cheap there. I use the metro sometimes too but if you do, I recommend getting the old class card. Especially for rush hour. The non gold carriages get very crowded and deodorant is not popular.

In Dubai, and anywhere else sex work is illegal, I remove all mention of sex for money from my ads. I just post massage ads with the bare minimum of information. Pretty much my rates and contact details and that's it. They can guess from my rates and pics what's on offer without me incriminating myself. I don't mention sex by phone, email, txt, whatsapp etc either. I don't do outcalls to private residences there. Some escorts don't see Arab clients at all to avoid getting caught in a sting. Others take a deposit for every booking for the same reason. Others have their own screening point procedure eg getting guys to call from somewhere they can be seen from the window. Depending on where I'm staying, I usually just give them the hotel name but not my room number and arrange to meet them somewhere eg in the lobby by the lifts so I can make sure just one clienty looking guy is coming. I get money from them as soon as they enter the room and still don't mention anything to do with sex for money until they're naked on my bed.

If you're used to having genuine clients outnumber timewasters ten to one, expect it to be the opposite there ie for every ten guys who book an appointment, maybe one will show up. And for every one of those who book, dozens will contact you wanting to chat, asking for pics etc with no intention of ever booking. Not sure why it is that way. Seems to be some kind of perfect storm of factors. eg being in a country where only a small % can afford my rate, guys are very repressed so the excitement of doing the timewaster thing has more appeal, seems to be a lot of bi curious guys there who are terrified to act on their fantasies, porn sites are blocked, it's very hard for them to have pre marital or extra marital sex and it seems to be culturally normal to have no respect for, or an active dislike for, women they view as promiscuous, sex workers of all kinds, and men who have sex with men (even if they themselves are gay or bi). All these factors seem to combine such that the second your ad drops you'll be inundated with a lot of very abrupt, crude, Borat style messages. Lots of whatsapp. Lots of demands for dick pics. And very few of them booking appointments. But the money is great and if you're very careful and very patient and thick skinned, you can work well there.
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Re: Working in Dubai as Male Escort?
« Reply #6 on: 12 March 2017, 10:43:52 pm »
Aussie Male Escort - don't you feel scared there?  I'd be too freaked out I think.  the penalties for getting caught are SO high.

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Re: Working in Dubai as Male Escort?
« Reply #7 on: 12 March 2017, 11:11:56 pm »
Aussie Male Escort - don't you feel scared there?  I'd be too freaked out I think.  the penalties for getting caught are SO high.

ParisB works there loads doesn't she? I have always thought the same as you though.
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Re: Working in Dubai as Male Escort?
« Reply #8 on: 13 March 2017, 12:51:15 am »
And I would imagine penalties would be harsher for a gay male escort.

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Re: Working in Dubai as Male Escort?
« Reply #9 on: 13 March 2017, 04:01:49 am »
Aussie Male Escort - don't you feel scared there?  I'd be too freaked out I think.  the penalties for getting caught are SO high.

+1 Especially doing gay male escorting ?

Micah

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Re: Working in Dubai as Male Escort?
« Reply #10 on: 14 March 2017, 06:29:26 pm »
I lived in Istanbul for  3 years so I am familiar with the way Middle Easterners are when it comes to sex and their undercover lives.

But I never escorted in Istanbul because I was there mainly as a performer. I don't plan on having many clients that are Middle Eastern. I already moved my profile to there and am getting tons of requests for photos that I am ignoring by and large. I am not so worried about making money. I just don't want to lose any while I am there. If it goes well and I get some decent clients, I will make it a regular pitstop once every few months.

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Re: Working in Dubai as Male Escort?
« Reply #11 on: 15 March 2017, 11:08:02 am »
+1 Especially doing gay male escorting ?

Exactly.