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Annabela

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WORKING MUM
« on: 09 November 2011, 06:07:29 pm »
Hello everyone,

I have been escorting for the last 14m and everything has been well until the last few days,i have a child who goes to nursery everyday full time and when his gone i do bring in few clients not more than 4 per day and i don't work over the weekend.Or take in clients when his home.

My question is,me and my friend have fallen out and she says she will call the social services for me.....can anyone please give me an advertise if this happens where do i stand.

Thanks

ladyofthemansion

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« Reply #1 on: 09 November 2011, 06:24:08 pm »
You are not breaking any laws though it's not something I would recommend.

Can you afford to rent a cheap place while the child is at Nursery?

If you don't do it again at home she will not be able to prove it.

You could also go to the police and tell them she is hassling you.
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Annabela

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« Reply #2 on: 09 November 2011, 06:53:38 pm »
Thanks allot for your reply,i have totally stopped working from my house and will look into getting a cheap place.If i report her to the police wont i be in trouble as well?she cant proff that i have been working on my flat as i have had to delete all my profiles and got new number so am starting all over again.xx

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Re: WORKING MUM
« Reply #3 on: 09 November 2011, 07:02:32 pm »
You will NOT be in trouble with the police. Nor will you be in trouble with social services if you make a new profile. Just don't work from home again.xx
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Annabela

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Re: WORKING MUM
« Reply #4 on: 09 November 2011, 07:38:28 pm »
Thanks again,i now feel alot better xx

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« Reply #5 on: 12 November 2011, 02:35:46 am »
Also in the future  -  dont tell  anyone  what  you do unless your 100 percent certain  it wont backfire on you
my family know what i do  -   but i know that they are  pretty liberal  also im one of those people who couldnt give a shit what people think or say about me          (until they pay my bills im not  interested in what they have to say )
Plus i stopped listening to my parents when i was about 10 years of age  so i think they pretty much gave up on me     

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« Reply #6 on: 12 November 2011, 10:22:17 am »
Sorry to hear about the friendship going wrong, but don't worry about social services. The standard they have to work to is 'the best interests of the child', and you're not doing anything against those.

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Re: WORKING MUM
« Reply #7 on: 12 November 2011, 04:43:15 pm »
You are not supposed to be working from home. Even if your child is at nursery, school, or your partner takes them out while you have an appointment.  My friend had a visit from the Social Services & they told her she could work as an escort no problem but she cannot work from the same premises that house her children even if they are not there at the same time.

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« Reply #8 on: 12 November 2011, 04:58:42 pm »
You are not supposed to be working from home. Even if your child is at nursery, school, or your partner takes them out while you have an appointment.  My friend had a visit from the Social Services & they told her she could work as an escort no problem but she cannot work from the same premises that house her children even if they are not there at the same time.

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I think staying stopped working until you get suitable premises - that could easily be a hotel one or two days a week - though that may not be practical if your child is coming in from nursery at say 6pm and you cant book into hotel till 2/3pm - come up is your best idea.

Although you say you only work when your child is not on the premises that does not allow for the eejits  (for those south of the border read IDIOTS) who don't think with the brain in their head and use the one in their dick - and think it is ok to turn up at your property day/night/any time they choose.  WE know it is unfair to do that but another slogan I use a lot also implies here - an erect cock has no conscience - and they WILL turn up when and if THEY choose and if your child is on the premises this could turn nasty for if you are like any protective mother you will go apeshit.

Good luck with your choices.  What area of the country do you work in?  Maybe someone in your area can help you out.
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Re: WORKING MUM
« Reply #9 on: 12 November 2011, 05:58:49 pm »
While I agree it is not suitable for somebody to work in a house where a child lives and that it is something I would never do,  we do not know the situation of the OP and maybe she had no choice but to work from home.  However, the priority should be to save for a cheap studio where she can work from. Lots of people rent out rooms for ladies to work from too and there are some people who wont take rent if you dont get any customers.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.