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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: BBW Joi Parker on 03 July 2014, 06:10:54 am
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Today I was on back page and I saw a lot of girls with 24 hr avail. I would love to do that but the way my trust (in men especially) is set up...dobany of you work extremely late if so how do you maintain safety....isn't that when all the crazies come out ?!?!?! ???
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I'm Outcall Only and don't answer my phone after 7pm as my very latest booking would be 9pm or, VERY RARELY 10pm ( if I have known them already for Donkey's years )
Anyone who thinks nothing of a woman being left to arrive at blocks of flats or secluded countryside locations in the dead of night is not deserving of my company anyway. For Incalls, what would the Neighbours think? ( and for my Outcalls there are only so many midnight 'Asda shops' one needs in a week ;)
It's perfectly reasonable to realise you fancy a Shag at 7pm and book accordingly. But midnight through to 6am is just an insult. My phone can be dead as a door mouse all day but show 25 attempted calls through the night. But I still wouldn't take one.
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Guessing by the mention of BP you're US-based, and I have absolutely no experience with NA as a whole, but I figure I'll leave my opinion all the same.
I finish work at 8:00 pm normally, but I will take bookings around the clock as long as it's an advance booking.
The presence of crazies is honestly more down to where you live and how you act than when you're out, in my experience. I'm notoriously out and about at strange hours (I go out to train at around 4 am), and out of three countries I've lived in or stayed in for a decent amount of time, I've only ever been halfheartedly verbally harassed by drunk people a couple of times. Having been on the "hooligan" end of equation as well, I can tell you that I'd be way more likely to pick on people who look out of place (overdressed, skulking or looking uneasy). Not looking like an appealing target goes a long way.
If you live in a town that is known for being full of questionable activities or having high crime rate, you have reasons to be concerned in shoddy areas even during daytime. If the place you're in is relatively calm, then nights should not pose that much more of a risk.
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Screening doesn't stop at 10pm or whenever, and as ever, it depends on what you're comfortable with.
It also depends on where you are. Where I am now, the town effectively closes by 6pm. There are a few supermarkets open later, but you could walk past most pubs and not realise that they're open. In London, there were clubs on the gay scene that didn't open until 4am or so... and that sort of city is going to generate more late night interest, both from the crazy and the sane.
Not looking like an appealing target goes a long way.
If you live in a town that is known for being full of questionable activities or having high crime rate, you have reasons to be concerned in shoddy areas even during daytime. If the place you're in is relatively calm, then nights should not pose that much more of a risk.
Quite.
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Depends on where you are. Here in London I've had some super easy bookings at 4 am, when clubs close, casinos close, jet lagged business travellers can't sleep. I don't feel remotely insulted if somebody tries my number in the middle of the night in order to give me their hard earned money.
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Not for me I'm afraid. I think you are more likely to get the drunks and general dickheads late at night..crime goes on more at night and that is a fact. My phone goes off at 10pm. I have no interest in being up all night and I find in Leeds at any rate the kind of guys who do ring are timewasters, pissed or rude and hoping to find a lass desperate enough to put up with it in the middle of the night.
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I take my last booking at 10pm but im happy to see someone later. If someone called me at 4am and sounded fine and passed my checks and I was awake enough then I would. Then again I am a night owl haha