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SellingSummer

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First booking! help?!
« on: 13 April 2016, 09:42:18 pm »
Hey, new here!
Have my first ever client on Saturday.
It's an out-call to his house and I'm so nervous!
I've screened him the best I could have but he does have all lot of positive feedback on AW, so hopefully he won't be a no-show!
I don't know exactly what he is expecting just that he wants a dirty GFE.
I would really appreciate any helpful tips for my first time getting paid for sex haha.
Thanks :D

ameliahoney

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Re: First booking! help?!
« Reply #1 on: 13 April 2016, 10:17:58 pm »
Hi,

I've never done an outcall myself so hopefully someone else will be along too, but my tip is to make sure you've got everything you need with you: lube, condoms, perhaps toys, cash for taxi home if needs be.. Make sure you get money upfront though and have a contact buddy, someone to call when you arrive to let them know you've arrived safely and what time you expect to leave.

Most of all enjoy yourself. Keep your wits about you but have fun. Keep an eye on the clock discreetly. Hope it goes well! X

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Re: First booking! help?!
« Reply #2 on: 13 April 2016, 10:32:35 pm »
What I would say is a house rather than a hotel you may feel like you don't know your bearings and aware you're at someone's house more which make you feel the need to be polite.... If he doesn't pay you within the first 10 mins then make sure you say something such as "lets get the mula out of way then shall we" or whichever phrase works better for you.

GFE usually means lots of kissing and sometimes but doesn't have to include OW, that's up to you. I wouldn't advise drinking any alcohol on a meeting personally but if you feel inclined if its just a one hour meeting, don't have more then one small alcoholic drink. Relax and fun, I'm sure you'll enjoy yourself  ;)

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Re: First booking! help?!
« Reply #3 on: 13 April 2016, 10:38:18 pm »
Good luck! Yes take some cash and make sure you have everything you need.  I would also recommend not taking anything with you that could identify you - id cards or bank cards - and keep your bag with you at all times.

I also like to do a quick check of the house to make sure there's nobody else there.  It can be easy to do this discreetly if they're in a little flat but most punters would expect this, especially if they make a habit of booking outcalls.

And the biggest one.... GET THE MONEY FIRST :) count it in front of him and then go to the bathroom with your bag to stash it in a secret inner pocket ;)

Good luck and have fun!!!! God I remember the buzz the first time I did it, it was brilliant.

SellingSummer

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Re: First booking! help?!
« Reply #4 on: 13 April 2016, 10:42:05 pm »
Hi,

I've never done an outcall myself so hopefully someone else will be along too, but my tip is to make sure you've got everything you need with you: lube, condoms, perhaps toys, cash for taxi home if needs be.. Make sure you get money upfront though and have a contact buddy, someone to call when you arrive to let them know you've arrived safely and what time you expect to leave.

Most of all enjoy yourself. Keep your wits about you but have fun. Keep an eye on the clock discreetly. Hope it goes well! X

Thanks for the advice! Scared he won't have a clock and it'll go over time, feel like a fool it if does :/

What I would say is a house rather than a hotel you may feel like you don't know your bearings and aware you're at someone's house more which make you feel the need to be polite.... If he doesn't pay you within the first 10 mins then make sure you say something such as "lets get the mula out of way then shall we" or whichever phrase works better for you.

GFE usually means lots of kissing and sometimes but doesn't have to include OW, that's up to you. I wouldn't advise drinking any alcohol on a meeting personally but if you feel inclined if its just a one hour meeting, don't have more then one small alcoholic drink. Relax and fun, I'm sure you'll enjoy yourself  ;)

Yeah it's just an hour... might have one cheeky little drink to calm myself haha! Also thanks for the advice :D

SellingSummer

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Re: First booking! help?!
« Reply #5 on: 13 April 2016, 10:52:38 pm »
Good luck! Yes take some cash and make sure you have everything you need.  I would also recommend not taking anything with you that could identify you - id cards or bank cards - and keep your bag with you at all times.

I also like to do a quick check of the house to make sure there's nobody else there.  It can be easy to do this discreetly if they're in a little flat but most punters would expect this, especially if they make a habit of booking outcalls.

And the biggest one.... GET THE MONEY FIRST :) count it in front of him and then go to the bathroom with your bag to stash it in a secret inner pocket ;)

Good luck and have fun!!!! God I remember the buzz the first time I did it, it was brilliant.

Ah okay I'll remember that!
Yeah it seems like most of his bookings are outcalls. To be honest I'm mainly nervous about getting lost as I have to take the train there and I'm the worst with directions!
Hopefully once I get there and check everything out I'll be okay and ready to have fun haha
Thanks for the helpful tips :D

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Re: First booking! help?!
« Reply #6 on: 14 April 2016, 12:12:39 am »
Hey, new here!
Have my first ever client on Saturday.
It's an out-call to his house and I'm so nervous!
I've screened him the best I could have but he does have all lot of positive feedback on AW, so hopefully he won't be a no-show!
I don't know exactly what he is expecting just that he wants a dirty GFE.
I would really appreciate any helpful tips for my first time getting paid for sex haha.
Thanks :D

My first ever job was an outcall to someone's house so I know exactly how you feel. Just stay calm and let someone you trust know all the details you have on him. Be careful not to give too much away about yourself. Good luck and I'm sure you'll be fine  :)
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Gracious

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Re: First booking! help?!
« Reply #7 on: 14 April 2016, 02:23:05 am »
- As you are commuting by public transport, plan your journey well and aim to get there 15 mins early (you never know what might crop up to delay your journey time). You might also want to search his number (excl the last two digits) on this forum to ensure another escort hasnt posted a topic on here about him
- Check his address on Google maps to ensure its a residential area
- Speak with him on the phone before Sat so there is some familiarity which will ease your nerves and also assure you that he is someone safe to visit
- Take condoms, lube, a little bit of makeup to refresh once your done and your phone - leave any personal info/ID at home
- Try and get a security buddy (someone you can call/text to let them know you have arrived/have left). You can use anyone in your personal life or another escort. If you want you can pm me, Id be more then happy to do this for you
- Get him to confirm in the morning and then again just before you leave that you are still good to go
- On arrival, greet him with a kiss on the lips and shortly afterwards, if he hasnt handed you the money, you can say "shall we get the paperwork out of the way?" Always get the money first
- Have fun! With my first booking, I was so focused on him that I forgot to have fun myself lol

Side notes:
You might want to get him to define what a "dirty GFE" is? Dirty can mean 101 things - from dirty talk to anal lol
Confirm your rates and the type of services you offer ie OW (oral with a condom), OWO (without a condon), CIM (cum in mouth) etc so he knows what to expect.

All the best! So excited for you!
« Last Edit: 14 April 2016, 02:25:52 am by Gracious »
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Re: First booking! help?!
« Reply #8 on: 14 April 2016, 09:20:46 am »
Don't rely on clients to have a clock or finish when they should.Wear a discrete watch is my advice!

SellingSummer

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Re: First booking! help?!
« Reply #9 on: 14 April 2016, 09:43:11 am »
- As you are commuting by public transport, plan your journey well and aim to get there 15 mins early (you never know what might crop up to delay your journey time). You might also want to search his number (excl the last two digits) on this forum to ensure another escort hasnt posted a topic on here about him
- Check his address on Google maps to ensure its a residential area
- Speak with him on the phone before Sat so there is some familiarity which will ease your nerves and also assure you that he is someone safe to visit
- Take condoms, lube, a little bit of makeup to refresh once your done and your phone - leave any personal info/ID at home
- Try and get a security buddy (someone you can call/text to let them know you have arrived/have left). You can use anyone in your personal life or another escort. If you want you can pm me, Id be more then happy to do this for you
- Get him to confirm in the morning and then again just before you leave that you are still good to go
- On arrival, greet him with a kiss on the lips and shortly afterwards, if he hasnt handed you the money, you can say "shall we get the paperwork out of the way?" Always get the money first
- Have fun! With my first booking, I was so focused on him that I forgot to have fun myself lol

Side notes:
You might want to get him to define what a "dirty GFE" is? Dirty can mean 101 things - from dirty talk to anal lol
Confirm your rates and the type of services you offer ie OW (oral with a condom), OWO (without a condon), CIM (cum in mouth) etc so he knows what to expect.

All the best! So excited for you!

Thanks this is really helpful!
Should I post a topic in the forum about a security buddy, because there isn't anyone in my personal life I can tell.
Hopefully I will have fun hahaa
Should I message to confirm what he wants now? Or just wait until I'm there as hopefully he has paid attention to my likes list and know what I offer! Sorry if I'm asking silly questions here :O

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Re: First booking! help?!
« Reply #10 on: 14 April 2016, 10:35:02 am »
Or set the alarm on your phone. Hope it goes OK. Maybe too late but never tell a client you are new to escorting as many will think they can take the piss with the less experienced girls.

trashbaby

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Re: First booking! help?!
« Reply #11 on: 14 April 2016, 12:26:24 pm »
- As you are commuting by public transport, plan your journey well and aim to get there 15 mins early (you never know what might crop up to delay your journey time). You might also want to search his number (excl the last two digits) on this forum to ensure another escort hasnt posted a topic on here about him
- Check his address on Google maps to ensure its a residential area
- Speak with him on the phone before Sat so there is some familiarity which will ease your nerves and also assure you that he is someone safe to visit
- Take condoms, lube, a little bit of makeup to refresh once your done and your phone - leave any personal info/ID at home
- Try and get a security buddy (someone you can call/text to let them know you have arrived/have left). You can use anyone in your personal life or another escort. If you want you can pm me, Id be more then happy to do this for you
- Get him to confirm in the morning and then again just before you leave that you are still good to go
- On arrival, greet him with a kiss on the lips and shortly afterwards, if he hasnt handed you the money, you can say "shall we get the paperwork out of the way?" Always get the money first
- Have fun! With my first booking, I was so focused on him that I forgot to have fun myself lol

Side notes:
You might want to get him to define what a "dirty GFE" is? Dirty can mean 101 things - from dirty talk to anal lol
Confirm your rates and the type of services you offer ie OW (oral with a condom), OWO (without a condon), CIM (cum in mouth) etc so he knows what to expect.

All the best! So excited for you!

Thanks this is really helpful!
Should I post a topic in the forum about a security buddy, because there isn't anyone in my personal life I can tell.
Hopefully I will have fun hahaa
Should I message to confirm what he wants now? Or just wait until I'm there as hopefully he has paid attention to my likes list and know what I offer! Sorry if I'm asking silly questions here :O

DEFINITELY confirm the details of his expectations before the booking.  Trust me, it's not fun to turn up at a booking and realise they haven't bothered to read anything, you'd be surprised how many just skim through. I once had a guy spunk down my throat when I clearly state several times that I don't offer CIM, I was really cross and he was mortified - although who knows how genuine his embarrassment was.  Anyway, moral of the story is, make sure he knows what you will and won't do, just ask him to have a good read of your profile and make sure he's happy with everythnig you offer.

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Re: First booking! help?!
« Reply #12 on: 14 April 2016, 05:04:46 pm »
Do not forget to take the payment at the beginning of the meeting.  Be vigilant. Customers like to cheat the new girls.
The day before the meeting you can ask him if he wants something special, it will help you to understand what he wants.
Have fun!

Gracious

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Re: First booking! help?!
« Reply #13 on: 14 April 2016, 07:46:28 pm »
Thanks this is really helpful!

Glad you found it helpful  ;D

Should I post a topic in the forum about a security buddy, because there isn't anyone in my personal life I can tell.
Yes. Either post in the forums here or you can pm me directly and I would be happy to act as security for you

Hopefully I will have fun hahaa

LOL! I hope you do too but the first one is usually the most nerve wracking because you are not sure what to expect. Try to have fun with it because if you are having fun, he will too

Should I message to confirm what he wants now? Or just wait until I'm there as hopefully he has paid attention to my likes list and know what I offer!

DEFINITELY confirm the details of his expectations before the booking

+1. Best to do it beforehand/ASAP then in person

Sorry if I'm asking silly questions here :O

You are silly for thinking you are asking a silly Q  :P Only joking haha!

No need to apologise. You are new so you are bound to have 101 Qs.

Feel free to pm me
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Re: First booking! help?!
« Reply #14 on: 18 April 2016, 03:04:25 am »
So how was your first booking?! Do tell  ;D
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