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Vichyssoise

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Need some tips [roleplay and BDSM]
« on: 02 July 2014, 05:44:44 pm »
I have two role play booked for next week. One wants to be kidnapped and tied up and some mild domination and teasing. I have tried being a domme in the past but I don't feel I am good enough to be a full on dominant. Mild stuff I will prob be ok. He has me a bit worried though as he said he is a bit of a Houdini which to me seems to defeat the object. But how can I make sure he doesn't 'escape'. Any suggestions. I have restraints but they are Velcro fastened so a good tug I would have thought would free hands. Also he wants no marks left as he is married. Also is two role play in one day doable or would it be physically/mentally draining.




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Re: Need some tips [roleplay and BDSM]
« Reply #1 on: 02 July 2014, 06:37:56 pm »

Have you tried stockings/hold ups for restraint before? I had a kind of similar querie the other day and received some really helpful answers from ladies on here on another thread. Have a look at my post 'Do whatever you want to me - erm help?' there were some good suggestions for mild BDSM / restraint on there  :)

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Re: Need some tips [roleplay and BDSM]
« Reply #2 on: 02 July 2014, 07:20:12 pm »
Yes kinky boots I did see the thread and as you say some great ideas. It was more how to keep him tied up. If he reckons he is Houdini he obviously tries and struggles to get free and perhaps normal knots and stretchy fabric are easy for him. But I am definitely taking some of the tips from that thread. Thanks for that.
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Re: Need some tips [roleplay and BDSM]
« Reply #3 on: 02 July 2014, 08:12:16 pm »
Perhaps being able to escape is part of the fantasy for him?

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Re: Need some tips [roleplay and BDSM]
« Reply #4 on: 02 July 2014, 09:43:28 pm »
there is always cuffs velco or metal.  or tying to a chair

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Re: Need some tips [roleplay and BDSM]
« Reply #5 on: 03 July 2014, 12:07:01 am »
Decent Velcro bondage stuff is surprisingly hard to break out of and is much less likely to leave marks than metal cuffs etc.
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Re: Need some tips [roleplay and BDSM]
« Reply #6 on: 03 July 2014, 09:32:03 am »
I have pretty decent Velcro ones but never had any one including myself try and get out of them in seriousness. I will restraint my husband tonight and see if he can escape while I finish my novel  ;D. They will have to suffice as I ain't getting any more.
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Re: Need some tips [roleplay and BDSM]
« Reply #7 on: 03 July 2014, 10:53:55 pm »
I use bondage tape and found that wrapped round itself a couple of times is fairly good?! X