I think that doing this job has made me question the ideals of conventional romance like monogamy. I no longer feel that monogamy is essential to have a loving relationship with someone. I think honesty and communication are most important now rather than monogamy in a healthy and loving relationship. I guess most people don't feel that way but it seems like most people are also wandering around pretending to be monogamous when they are actually not. Maybe the job has made me cynical but really that's how it seems to me!