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Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Working during your period
« Reply #390 on: 21 October 2016, 08:27:37 pm »
Is it a Beppy sponge?

I reckon that might work for maybe 3-4 times but I'd imagine after a while the sponge will start to fall apart and then you would risk a chunk of it getting stuck in there.

I did it with beppy and with that baby sponge I use and like because I get hold of it easily when I get it out.
Well I cut it first. Then I sort of cut off all edges that could fall apart so I get those nice smooth pieces to insert. Not sure why the sponge would fall apart?

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Re: Working during your period
« Reply #391 on: 22 October 2016, 01:12:31 pm »
I did it with beppy and with that baby sponge I use and like because I get hold of it easily when I get it out.
Well I cut it first. Then I sort of cut off all edges that could fall apart so I get those nice smooth pieces to insert. Not sure why the sponge would fall apart?

Because if you put it in boiling water, you're going to change its structure. I would guess it would become more brittle.
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Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Working during your period
« Reply #392 on: 22 October 2016, 02:32:26 pm »
Because if you put it in boiling water, you're going to change its structure. I would guess it would become more brittle.

Oh good point! Thanks!

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Re: Working during your period
« Reply #393 on: 12 November 2016, 10:02:08 am »
I've had a quick scout through but I haven't seen anything, but I'm sorry if this has been covered.

I used beppy sponges years ago and I'm sure by the clients face he could feel something was up there when he was fingering me! Is this always the case or was it just that the sponge hadn't been pushed up far enough?

I have problems with really irregular periods so I can never really plan when I'm coming on, but I have a full day of incalls booked for the end of the week and now I can feel myself coming on!

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Re: Working during your period
« Reply #394 on: 14 November 2016, 11:34:15 am »
I've had a quick scout through but I haven't seen anything, but I'm sorry if this has been covered.

I used beppy sponges years ago and I'm sure by the clients face he could feel something was up there when he was fingering me! Is this always the case or was it just that the sponge hadn't been pushed up far enough?

I have problems with really irregular periods so I can never really plan when I'm coming on, but I have a full day of incalls booked for the end of the week and now I can feel myself coming on!


It depends how far they shove their fingers up. They won't feel it if it's high enough and they finger lightly, but if they're shoving their fingers so far in that they're almost losing part of their hand inside you, then they will probably feel it. Because the sponge can only go up high enough so that we can grab it and pull it out. If we can reach it, they probably can with their huge sausage fingers. I allow light fingering but if I can feel them going for it too hard, I'll try to change position and give them something else to focus on.

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Re: Working during your period
« Reply #395 on: 15 November 2016, 11:00:10 pm »
Cant believe Im 32 and never heard of a beppy sponge!

Started the pill back in June and now my periods are weekly rather than monthly, or when Ive got a good few days ahead, bam, the bitch turns up  :FF

Surely menopause should be due by now  ::)

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Re: Working during your period
« Reply #396 on: 17 November 2016, 07:30:58 pm »

It depends how far they shove their fingers up. They won't feel it if it's high enough and they finger lightly, but if they're shoving their fingers so far in that they're almost losing part of their hand inside you, then they will probably feel it. Because the sponge can only go up high enough so that we can grab it and pull it out. If we can reach it, they probably can with their huge sausage fingers. I allow light fingering but if I can feel them going for it too hard, I'll try to change position and give them something else to focus on.

+1. Though on 2 days when I know I bleed the most I just don't let them finger me. Remember that plenty of women don't like fingering so actually when you gently push their fingers away or tell them you prefer something else, they don't mind.
Just careful with regulars :))))
Also when you insert the sponge try to place it right "in the middle" and right size, if you see what I mean. If it's slightly lubricated then, should they incidentally touch it,  most guys shouldn't be able to make a difference between the sponge or "whatever they think we have up there inside": it feels soft and warm.

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Re: Working during your period
« Reply #397 on: 17 November 2016, 08:01:39 pm »
The Nuvaring actually delay menstrual cycle after 3 week put fresh one in because it birth control and will expire in 3 weeks

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Re: Working during your period
« Reply #398 on: 24 November 2016, 10:54:13 am »
Hey guys ..new to this site  :)
I have an overnight booking Saturday that I agreed to a couple of weeks ago but I can feel my period coming ..I know it will be here in the next day or so. I've read through this thread but I don't think a sponge will wok out well over night especially if I'm heavy. Really don't want to lose this booking but think I may have too :-\ what should I message the client saying? I don't really want to go into details but I don't want him to think I've wasted his time by cancelling short notice xx

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Re: Working during your period
« Reply #399 on: 24 November 2016, 12:12:49 pm »
Hey guys ..new to this site  :)
I have an overnight booking Saturday that I agreed to a couple of weeks ago but I can feel my period coming ..I know it will be here in the next day or so. I've read through this thread but I don't think a sponge will wok out well over night especially if I'm heavy. Really don't want to lose this booking but think I may have too :-\ what should I message the client saying? I don't really want to go into details but I don't want him to think I've wasted his time by cancelling short notice xx

If you don't think the beppy sponge will work, maybe be truthful to the client and let him decide. Some guys really don't care as long as there isn't blood everywhere. Then you can discreetly excuse yourself before any sexual encounter and pop in a sponge / replace it at any time you see fit.x

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Re: Working during your period
« Reply #400 on: 24 November 2016, 12:39:53 pm »
Yeah that is true..il give him a message and mention it and see what he says. Thank you for the reply x

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Re: Working during your period
« Reply #401 on: 21 February 2017, 11:12:14 am »
I've mentioned it ages ago but instead softcups(amazon)  are great combined with a sponge... A belt and braces approach! I can't feel it at all when it's in.

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Re: Working during your period
« Reply #402 on: 21 February 2017, 11:43:11 am »
I've mentioned it ages ago but instead softcups(amazon)  are great combined with a sponge... A belt and braces approach! I can't feel it at all when it's in.

Might be worth a try. Do you put the softcup in first? I used to use a mooncup years ago but they were very rigid.
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Re: Working during your period
« Reply #403 on: 23 February 2017, 02:29:33 am »
I've mentioned it ages ago but instead softcups(amazon)  are great combined with a sponge... A belt and braces approach! I can't feel it at all when it's in.

+1. Agreed. A tried and tested method that works 99% of the time for me. The only time it failed when I left it on too long and hadnt changed the sponge or empty the cup on the first day which is the heaviest for me. Thankfully client had dark sheets.

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Re: Working during your period
« Reply #404 on: 24 February 2017, 01:42:42 pm »
Is this beppy sponge reliable for heavy flow? I never used it before and I have  very heavy period so I am a bit worried if there is a leak.