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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Clarabella on 01 August 2013, 04:03:59 pm
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Hey everyone,
I've not had a holiday in years and I've found as I'm getting older, it's harder to manage my very disproportioned pear shaped figure - no matter what I do! So I've decided to treat myself to Liposuction and I'm so excited :D
I was wondering If anyone else has had any experiences (both good and bad) of any type of surgery and how long you were not able to work for? How did clients react to any scarring or bandages, were they easy going with it or pissed off? I'm getting lipo on my inner and outer thighs, buttocks, and hips and I'll have to wear a compression suit for a month night and day (fun and games lol) but I'm planning to remove it after 3 weeks for bookings only. As soon as they've gone and I'm showered, i'll put it back on and only do one hour bookings max. I figure I'll be able to get away with it like that. I feel I can't take too much time off. If there is a bit of scarring and bruising left, I'm hoping regulars will be understanding :-\
I'm going to work very hard and budget incase the scarring and bruising takes a long time to heal and I don't feel up to working or not able to.
Clarabella xx
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I think I have a sadistic side to my nature as I love to watch these programmes.
I just wanted to say, if you think 'going back' to escorting so early is a good idea I think it might be time to reconsider things. You really shouldn't try and cut corners with your recovery.
I wouldn't consider getting it done without a months money behind me at least and then maybe I would ease myself in slowly. Like they say baby steps before giant steps and running.
I know its not what you really want to read but our health is paramount in this business.
Good Luck.
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I agree with LL, your recovery will be the most important thing. Surgery is very stressful on the body.
I broke my leg 2 mths ago and I am just starting to ease myself back into work. I hoped to work as soon as my cast was off but i under estimated how difficult it would be entertaining clients when your movement and mobility is restricted. It is also very tiring if you are not fully recovered. I have only been able to see 1 client a day for no more than an hour and they have to be trusted regulars!
I have a leg brace which I do take off for appointments but I have to be very careful. Without the support I am in danger of making my injury worse. I can imagine it would be similiar with post-surgery bandages etc.
I know it is a different situation than having liposuction but I'm sure you might experience similiar problems. Definitely make sure you have money behind you first so you don't have to rush your recovery. I was very fortunate to have a tax rebate when I first injured myself and even had to claim some ESA based on my NI contributions. I was able to claim because it was an accident but if you elect to have surgery you may not be able to claim if there are complications or a longer than anticapated recovery period.
I hope that helps a little x
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Hey :) The one piece of advice (which I never took :() was do listen to the recovery times. They are there for a reason. I had an abdominoplasty (tummy tuck) 8 years ago, thought 'as if the recovery time will apply to me' ............... it did! In all honesty, you are paying for the results you really want, trust the professionals, and what is an extra week of not earning compared to what you have paid AND the results you want...................?
Good luck, and congrats on doing something you really want to do, it CAN transform your life xxx
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I have had liposuction on my tummy, results were amazing !! The few days following surgery were not pleasant however and the bruising lasted for at least a month.
I had to take quite a long time off work but I knew that when I had it done, it was well worth it in the end. It is best to buy some Arnica cream and tablets from health stores as this will help with the bruising :)
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Hi there
I have just had surgery (boob job with implants and uplift) I was told to take 6 weeks off work, I went back after 4 BIG MISTAKE!!! Ive caused myself a longer healing process, more pain than necessary and more discomfort. My clients weren't grossed out but they were very aware so scared to touch me lol. I'm not happy with my boobs on top of everything else so looking to have revision surgery.
Lipo isn't something I need but I would like to have it so I have recently had a consultation and I was told again 6 weeks off work and 6 weeks in the garment. If you don't wear the garment for the recommended time you WILL end up worse off as it may affect your end result and trust me you don't want to spend thousands on surgery then not follow the requirements.
Also another factor is infection. If your having sex with random strangers they're sweat and other bodily fluids may give you an infection.
I'd suggest either waiting till you give up this industry (assuming your planning to at some point) if you don't want to take too much time off OR save enough to keep you going while you recover and take the time you've been told to take off.
My family and friends don't know I am an escort so I went back to work out of sheer boredom and next time I have surgery I will definitely be doing what I'm told.
xx
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i had lipo at clinic Beacare in belgium a few years ago ( its a fraction of the cost of the uk ?2300 compared to 6000 for 6 areas /3 sides
I didn't work for 6 - 8 weeks but i was on holiday anyway & I did mine at christmas and then went away on holiday in january
I've also had a mini tummy tuck & lipo and a boob job as well and for all of them i was off for 6 weeks
what i will say about lipo particularly in the areas that your having is that is changes your shape ,rather than permanent weight loss you can and will put the weight back on you will just be a different shape than before Prior to lipo i could wear jeans now i can even though I'm heavier than i was pre lipo
A lot of the weight loss is often down to the general anaesthetic / feeling like shit crap afterwards
if you bruise easily ( i do ) then the bruising & swelling is horrible my ankles looked like a little old lady with water on the ankles i.e. really really swollen and i couldn't sit on my ass properly had to use a maternity rubber ring for the toilet
with the lipo that i had done which sounds similar to your's i kept the adult baby grow on for 4 weeks once i was on holiday in Mexico it was to fucking hot so i only wore it at night and wore a bikini in the daytime with a wrap around me to hide any bruising but most of it had gone by then
I really wouldn't work for at least a month and if you can go away on holiday then thats even better so that you relax totally
Make sure you have enough money to cover your bills You really don't want to work when your feeling like shit
I would say that if your bottom heavy then personally i would try to lose some weight first, If your prone to yo - yo dieting then trust me lipo will change your shape initially but you can and will put the weight back on eventually You will be a different shape but just as big
Sometimes you will end up with loads of cellulite if you can imagine a ballon taken out the air and not replacing it it goes saggy well thats lipo for you
Sorry if that sounds negative but I'm trying to be realistic i don't regret having lipo and I'm sure that i would have more but I'm more into doing boot camps a few times a year and losing weight that way
I've just done a two week residential boot camp and lost over a stone - Im going back to do another 2 weeks in a few weeks time You will get healthy fit and lose weight at the same time
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Thank you ladies kindly for the very insightful advice. Definitely some major things to be aware of. I feel much more prepared now.
Arnica cream and tablets sounds like the way forward to help speed up the healing. Great tip!
Also many thanks to Pinkie as she pm'd me with her personal experience too and I found it a great help!
I'm going to exercise portion control and move my ass some more before my treatment. I literally cannot wait, I've been miserably pear shaped my whole life. Thanks to this job I can now afford it.
C xx
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I used Arnica but there's no real evidence that it really works. Some people use arnica for a week before surgery and a week afer but if you read the bottle it does say only use for 5 days.
Also pre op you should try and have your body clean and clear of everything, have a clear system as certain herbal things can cause complications. Garlic for example is in a lot of herbal things and it causes you to bleed a lot more (you don't want that during surgery) We don't really know whats in Arnica so if you want to use it I'd use it starting the day after surgery and continue for 5 days (that's what I did)
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P.S I don't think any amount of cream or arnica will make much difference to bruising when it comes to lipo as bruising is just one of the downfalls of having that procedure.
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I was wondering if anyone has had Laser lipo/ any simular procedure and how much time they took off working for it?
The clinics site recommends 3 days off but our work is a bit more..... Physically demanding than others so I was wondering if more time should be taken off before returning to work.
Any pearls of wisdom would be greatly appreciated thanks ;D
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I have only had my boobs done, was told to take 2 weeks off work but with this type of work I took 4 weeks off since I was bored but really should have taken 6 weeks off. I am having another boob job next year so will be taking 6 weeks off for sure that time.
ParisB is the best person to ask about this sort of stuff cause she's had lipo and things.
I am thinking of having the laser lipo too since its far less intrusive than actual lipo just to get rid of little bits that annoy me.
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I had lipo on my thighs and hips six weeks ago and I'm still healing! Still have some bruising and the 8 little incision scars are very very visible. I'm still swollen on the back of my legs and it took so long to heal. I was pretty shocked at how much pain I was in and the recovery time. I guess everyone will be different but I wasn't able to work for 4 weeks no way. I was still stiff and in pain getting up and walking. Stockings do a great job of hiding all the incision marks and the fading bruises, but I have two little incision scars on either side of my groin and that's not an area you want little purple/red marks in this job lol I've covered them up with some concealer and it works a treat. You'll also have wear a compression suit for months. They told me to wear mine night and day for 4 months which I'm doing, but obviously take it off to see clients.
Everyone is going to recover differently, but just ensure you budget and work your arse off before your procedure so you have a months back up and can relax during your healing without stressing yourself to return to work before you're physically able to.
Arnica cream and tablets (little pestules) helped massively with the worst of the bruising and swelling. I was very impressed with the product. You can get these from boots. Lipo is extremely painful, so just be prepared. I'm really pleased with the results so far though ;D
C xx
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The best way to decide if you can go back to work or not is when the pain has gone. Lipo for some can be bloody painful for weeks or months even. Everyone has a different reaction. I know when I had mine I had it done on my ribs area and was black and blue and it hurt to even breathe for almost 3 months. Another woman had hers doen at the same time and had hardly any bruising and barely any pain and was back to work the following week.
It does depend on your body.
Arnica pills for 3 weeks before and after can help with the bruising
At the end of the day its best to save enough incase your body reacts badly afterwards with swelling, bruising and pain so that you don't have to rush back to work when your body is not ready.
I would say though that most surgery takes around 4-6weeks to get over and be healed properly and sometimes longer so as long as you have enough money put by for a couple of months of work then you don't have to worry and if you are better quicker than that then you will still have savings left over for a little holiday
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OK Im probably at the extreme end of it as i bruise incredibly easily I only have to hit a door or carry a bag on my shoulder thats to heavy and i get bruised
i would say that your paying a fair whack of money so don't waste it by being in a hurry to get back to work
I normally had mine done in jan as I'm always away for 3 - 4 weeks anyway so it normally just an extra 1 or two weeks that I'm off and not working
6 weeks for lipo i had hips and thighs done a few years ago in Belgium i was joking that i would be up and about and going shopping reality i was flat on my ass watching re runs of faulty towers and feeling sorry for myself
Although 3 weeks after i was on holiday in Mexico in a bikini but i was still bruised and a bit swollen and wouldn't have been able to work and i had to wear a sarong to hide the bruise on my hips and still sleep in the baby grow lol
The first two weeks though iwas bruised like i had done 10 rounds with mike tyson and then got hit by a truck my ankles were swollen and i coulnt even see my toes You know what those little old ladies with really swollen ankles are like well that was me but i had nice painted toe nails courtesy of my darling sister
I was driving after two week though
Boob job 6 weeks they were so big they walked into the room before me very tender and sensitive
mini tummy tuck & lipo 6 weeks worse thing ever sneezing crying laughing coughing brought intense pain though i was going to die one day but it was indigestion
couldn't stand up straight for a week or 10 days but each day it got better
couldn't drive for 3 weeks and couldn't walk my dog for 3 weeks in case he pulled me over
but again i was on holiday around 3 weeks after although i was still badly bruised around the hips area
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and In my experience lipo does not get rid of your fat ( well it does but if you don't change your diet /lifestyle ) you will put it all back on just in a different area
and its more about changing you shape than weight Ie i was hip heavy I'm still hip heavy but a better shape for wearing jeans and stuff before i could get jean over my thighs but then the waist would be massive baggy on me
Now i can as I'm more in proportion
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Yikes, I was thinking of getting some cosmetic surgery. Might give that one a miss haha! I'm sure the pain is worth it in the end, no pain no gain and what not ;D
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Hi :)
I have been looking into vaser lipo and from what I can see it is minimally invasive, but you have to wear pads after?
Has anybody on here had this surgery, if so how long did you have you to take off work?
Lost all of my baby weight, but got a tiny bit on my stomach I just can't shift, so would be great to hear from you girls.
The other thing is, I am not wanting to get traditional lipo, at least with vaser lipo it is a 2 hour procedure...
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Hey hun
Don't think we're allowed to post links on here but you should google cosmetic surgery forums (that's what I do when having something done). You will get all the info and advice there for this sort of thing cause I don't think the admin on here will see that question as anything to do with sex work xx
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Well the admin merged it into this thread because the original title asked about the amount of time off required, but yes, general discussion about cosmetic surgery belongs on a CS forum and not here.
It's fine to send links by PM if needs be, but again yes - we don't need to drive traffic to other sites and nor do we need them to notice they're getting hits from us and this goes especially for the gutter press. There are occasional exceptions, but the best thing to do if you're not sure is not post it :).
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I have had long looks at the cs forums, but unfortunately I couldn't actually find anything about how long an escort should have off work.
The people on these forums seem to hold down normal jobs...and with a job like ours where we seem to take our clothes off it could prove to be difficult with tenderness and bruising. Unless a client would mind seeing an escort wearing a compression garment ???
Hence asking the question on here. Sorry i was just trying to find another escort who had vaser so I could get as much info as possible.
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I have had long looks at the cs forums, but unfortunately I couldn't actually find anything about how long an escort should have off work.
The people on these forums seem to hold down normal jobs...and with a job like ours where we seem to take our clothes off it could prove to be difficult with tenderness and bruising. Unless a client would mind seeing an escort wearing a compression garment ???
Hence asking the question on here. Sorry i was just trying to find another escort who had vaser so I could get as much info as possible.
From my research (but not experience) vaser means compression for 24 hours for 4 weeks and 12 hours for another 4 and bruising, swelling and tenderness that can last for 6 weeks.
I'd say you need to plan a minimum of one month off.
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Yeah its a minimum 4 weeks and upto 6 weeks I think for you to get the best result. No point in spending thousands on surgery then not looking after yourself properly and ending up with shit results.
I was thinking of having it done for the stubborn areas that annoy me at the same time as my second boon job since I will be taking 6 weeks off anyway.
If you don't save your money, make sure you have enough money to cover your bills and living expenses for 6 weeks while you recover.
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I guess it depends on how many areas you get done?
I am aware that if you get 4 areas done then you will have to wear a body suit. .. Obviously the recovery process will take longer and to look after the surgery you have to wear the suit at all times.
I was only interested in getting my stomach done. My thoughts after are that I will have to wear a garment just around my stomach. I could be wrong though. But I was thinking if it just around my stomach I might be able to go back to work after 2 1/2 weeks. And just make clients aware of the garment. Confused.com
Maybe it is worth me phoning the clinic and just being honest about my job and go from there
I can't really afford to take 6 weeks off work. I do save and do have savings but nursery fees are ongoing etc car on finance plus rent which is expensive. It would make a large hole in my savings :(
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Escort2345, cosmetic surgery can be very traumatic and everybody's body heals differently. Going back to work so soon can put you at risk of complications if you aren't fully healed. I plan on having cosmetic surgery this year, but now saving up for the 6 Weeks of not working has to be done. You have to prepare yourself for worst case scenario. Not working for 6 weeks is really painful, maybe plan it around your yearly holiday?
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I guess it depends on how many areas you get done?
I am aware that if you get 4 areas done then you will have to wear a body suit. .. Obviously the recovery process will take longer and to look after the surgery you have to wear the suit at all times.
I was only interested in getting my stomach done. My thoughts after are that I will have to wear a garment just around my stomach. I could be wrong though. But I was thinking if it just around my stomach I might be able to go back to work after 2 1/2 weeks. And just make clients aware of the garment. Confused.com
Maybe it is worth me phoning the clinic and just being honest about my job and go from there
I can't really afford to take 6 weeks off work. I do save and do have savings but nursery fees are ongoing etc car on finance plus rent which is expensive. It would make a large hole in my savings :(
You then put yourself at risk of infection and I don't think clients would like to see your body or tummy garment as they aren't very attractive and will not be very clean either since you'll be wearing it all the time.
Best advice any of us can give you if you do decide to go down the surgery route is to either wait till you have stopped working as an escort OR take the right amount of time off to heal.
I went back to work after my first boob job after 4 weeks and I really shouldn't have and it didn't do me any favours, I am having to have them redone this year.
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If its traditional lipo then even with just one area I would say 3 week the bruising can be very bad but it depends on how you bruise
I was bruised from my ass to my toes even my feet/ankles were swollen up but I do bruise very very easily
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If its traditional lipo then even with just one area I would say 3 week the bruising can be very bad but it depends on how you bruise
I was bruised from my ass to my toes even my feet/ankles were swollen up but I do bruise very very easily
Lol, poor thing. I really wouldn't mind having it done too but, will have it done when I get my boobs done again x
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I plan on getting my breasts enlarged in May, how long do you think I'll need to take off work?
I'm saving up extra money to accommodate for the time off after the surgery, I just needed a rough guide from experienced ladies who've had surgery!
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4-6 weeks but everyone heals differently but definitely not a day before 4 weeks. My incisions didn't heal properly since I was allergic to internal stitches so they took about 8 weeks to close completely x
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I am seriously considering Botox and fillers and would like to ask does time need to be taken off from escorting. If so how long?. Have others had bad side effects or good experiences. It is for laughter lines really.
Thanks in advance.
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I've never had fillers but had Botox, been getting it done since I was 23 I think lol as a preservative, I don't have any wrinkles but I want to avoid them ever getting there lol. You get it done and have little lumps where they inject you but that goes away in about a half hour to an hour! No need to take anytime off work. I literally go in when I am out doing banking and what not.
Make sure you use an actual doctor and not a beautician.
I go to the SKIN clinic for mine and there is a SKIN clinic in Belfast, they are the best.
I've never had laugher lines done, I must not laugh a lot as I don't have any lines at all there lol but I have my full forehead done and my frown line done. I am due my next appointment in 3 weeks time.
First time you have it done will only last about 3 months, second time you have it done will last 4 or 5 months then after that you should only need it done twice a year.
Xx
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Hiya ladies.
I'm booking to have my boobs done in March, it will be just the implants, hopefully with the incision underneath the breast.
To those of you that's has this procedure; how long did you need off work?
Thanks x
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Hiya ladies.
I'm booking to have my boobs done in March, it will be just the implants, hopefully with the incision underneath the breast.
To those of you that's has this procedure; how long did you need off work?
Thanks x
I was off from work for 5 weeks and then i took it easy. The first 3 weeks i was in pain
A girlfrend of mine just change the ones she had and she return to work after 10 days
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Anyone on here had a tummy tuck done?
How long did you require off work? X
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I think you should make sure you have enough money to take as much time as you need, incase there are complications or infections that will slow healing, you never know and you've spent such a lot of money on the procedure you don't want to undo the good work.
I've had breast uplift and reduction and really struggled with healing as I was allergic to the sutures, and because I was stressing about healing it slowed even more. So you don't want to be stressing about work or money when healing.
In my opinion lipo didn't work for me and was very painful for little difference, I agree with Paris it's not a weight loss fix.
Botox and fillers you don't need time off, botox for me lasted 6 months the first time then 5 & 4 now I'm down to every 3.
Best advise save more than you need and plan for the boredom whilst healing!
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Anyone on here had a tummy tuck done?
How long did you require off work? X
Yes but it was a mini one not a full one where they reposition your belly button or give you a new one
I think I was off for 6 weeks maybe a bit longer. I know I definatly had sex when I was on hloudly if that' helps ;D
I had it done at Xmas time so around the week before Xmas then went on holiday in jan for three weeks so def a min of 6 weeks before I went back to work. But I had factored in for 8 -10 weeks off
But mine was quite simple operation , just reopening a previous C section scar removing the excess bit of skin which wasn't a lot and tightening up the stomach muscles
The whole op took about 1 hr from start to finish and it's not visible even in underwear / beach wear as the scar is very very low down and not that wide either
A full tummy tuck takes a lot longer to do operation wise and probably longer to recover from as well I think the scaring is a lot more noticeable as you will probably have a scar from the belly button to pubic bone ( going downwards if you get the idea ) and one going from hip to hip like a C section scar but bigger
Only you would know what you need /want .I knew I wanted/ needed a mini tummy tuck because my stomach wasn't fat if that makes sense
If you want any more info feel free to PM me
You will need a full tummy tuck if you have a beer belly type belly but if it's mainly because of a C-section and you have lost the stomach muscles and have a small bit of loose skin then a mini tummy tuck is what you need
Do some reasearch and compare pictures so you know what u want because I saw a lot of surgeons
( well medical advisors all from the big chains like transform, Harley medical & hospital group ) and they all said f/ TT - cynically I think because it's more money
I also I paid privately to have 3 seperate consultations with surgeons and they all said mini TT
I wont lie it's very painfull I couldn't sit up straight laugh and dreaded sneezing for 10 days
I think I paid ?4500 that was with a lovely surgeon with Bupa in bristol and it was probably 6 years ago maybe more and it was for a mini tummy tuck with a small bit of lipo
If you want the surgeons name PM me
I also have a client that I have known for years who also had the fully tummy tuck and lots of excess skin removal and he looks amazing 😃
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I had a full tummy tuck and muscles tightened last summer i had 2 months off to be on the safe side it really is a drastic op, coughing sneezing even straining a poo out hurts like hell then theres the swelling very tender for weeks, you need time to re-cooperate i paid 4700 it would of been more but i got a bit of discount as had my boobs uplifted by them in 2011 i went with hospital group.
I saved a lump sum of money to live off while i was off work as well so you need to think about that and choose your surgeon carefully don't rush i can recommend surgeon for boobs an tummy tuck if any one wants, just research a LOT first, i still need a tad bit tweakin of bits that stubborn to gym an diet so having vaser lipo next year ;D
Edit* i didnt have a fat belly just loose skin on an other wise flat tum always been slim but pregnancy stretched me
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I had a full tummy tuck and muscles tightened last summer i had 2 months off to be on the safe side it really is a drastic op, coughing sneezing even straining a poo out hurts like hell then theres the swelling very tender for weeks, you need time to re-cooperate i paid 4700 it would of been more but i got a bit of discount as had my boobs uplifted by them in 2011 i went with hospital group.
I saved a lump sum of money to live off while i was off work as well so you need to think about that and choose your surgeon carefully don't rush i can recommend surgeon for boobs an tummy tuck if any one wants, just research a LOT first, i still need a tad bit tweakin of bits that stubborn to gym an diet so having vaser lipo next year ;D
Edit* i didnt have a fat belly just loose skin on an other wise flat tum always been slim but pregnancy stretched me
Lol I remember the sneezing poohing and coughing dread and laughing some sick bastard got me the Chris Rock Live DVD for Xmas and I was trying my hardest not to laugh as it hurt so much Just missed you I am availible today please call back thanks P
I actually went out a few days after for a Boxing Day lunch hardly ate anything but had a few roast potatoes. I thought I was having a heart attack ( it was indigestion lol)
Like the above I can recommend my surgeon that I had for a tummy tuck
But don't under estimate the pain and that you really can't do much at all for the first 2 weeks
I would aim for 2 months with maybe -an extra month just In case
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As an escort, I'm considering having breast enhancements done to tryt and boost my income. After speaking to some of my punters though, who are very much against the idea, I'm worried that it will result in me losing income, rather than making any. So I'm asking those girls who have had it done, did you notice a difference in your income as an escort? Was it a positive or a negative one? Is it something you would recommend as a business decision for someone working as a full-time escort?
Thanks!
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I certainly wouldn't advise it unless you really, really want it done for yourself. As you say, many men don't like fake breasts - especially the stuck on porn-type ones. It's not without medical risk, and unless you can afford a really good surgeon who'd make them as natural looking as possible I don't see that they'd necessarily boost your income.
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There will certainly be a big market for girls with big fake ones as its a novelty for a lot of men. But there's just as many clients who hate them and would much rather opt for a girl with natural ones regardless of shape and size.
I thought about getting mine done too as they aren't very big but every client ive mentioned this too has said they wouldn't book me again as they wouldn't be able to be sexually attracted to me anymore.
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I had done mine two years ago and i went from B cup to D cup. I did not see any diference on work . So if you want to do it for yoursefl then go for it but for work i will not do it.
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I think any major decision to permanently alter your body for your clients would be a wrong one. Get a boob job if you want one for yourself.
Anyhoo, men have different tastes so you'll attract some but you'll also put some off.
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I have vaguely thought about this too. But 2 things stop me, pretty much all my clients say they hate them, and also I'd worry about losing nipple sensitivity (which my clients love).
Obviously yes some guys love fake, but as someone else said, you should do it for you. After all you are the one who has to live with them. You might find you get them done, hate them but then it'd be too late.
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It's likely that some of the clients you see at the moment are drawn to you because they particularly like small/natural breasts. The guys who have a thing for big/enhanced ones won't be booking you at the moment. But they might if you change them. But you might lose some of your current clients...
It's a gamble.
How much bigger are you thinking of going?
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What do you actually want to do?
Unless you're pining for the surgery, doing it in the hope that enough new clients to replace the old ones will like it to cover the costs of surgery plus time off recovering seems very optimistic.
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I want to get mine done for me. I want the naturally looking tear drop shape not the basketball one. If it increases business then great. Men love big tits, but probably don't like fake ones. I'm shocked you didn't see an increase Sandra :(
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Thanks for the responses :) I'm currently a D and I was thinking of going to DD. The response seems very negative towards having it done, so I'm steering towards not doing it. I must stress though, for me to have enhancements done as a business decision, even if it isn't just a personal cosmetic desire, would be for me, as to be as successful as possible in this industry is what I want. The two come hand in hand.
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I think there is a kind of assumption that all men like bigger boobs, whether real or fake whereas I've found certainly that for many guys this isn't so. For other guys the size of boobs isn't as important as other things, too many to mention!
I don't think the response has been particularly negative its just I think not to assume that it will necessarily increase business. But obviously totally your call, good luck with your decision.
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Hey zoe :)
I'm contemplating getting my breasts done too! I have researched the best doctor and everything and i'm just saving up right now. I had a look around AW and messaged a few girls who I thought had perfect boob jobs.
There always seems to be a negative feeling (especially when speaking to clients) about breasts implants. I have no idea why but when it is presented to them they probably won't not say no (if that makes sense)
Like my ex would bang on about how much they hated me wearing makeup and how I don't need it but when I wear it they would salivate like dogs.
I think the most important thing is to get your breasts done with someone who is amazing and can make them look at natural as possible! Bad breast implants is what everyone hates.
I think even though people rag on it being big busted actually has a quite big "market" and i have noticed certain people have found it easier to do well because they have them. This is not a general statement. It might be tied to other factors but I have a certain person/people in mind when I say this.
Not everyone will love them but some people will if they're something you want then you should go ahead! just make sure you spend ages finding the perfect doctor and always remember that sometimes cheaper is not better. You want perfect looking breasts if you have to pay for them ;D
Also sign up for real self! The plastic surgery website. Thousands of reviews.
if you want to have a look at the surgeon I picked (I can honestly say his work is great) please feel free to PM me.
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Fat grafting, give it a Google. Long as you have the fat to spare. Feels like I've been saving forever though as it's double the price plus flights to america. I put a deposit down to get fake ones then saw one too many bad jobs and freaked out and researched the f out of fat grafting. It is So hard to find a good clinic in UK so I'm getting it done in LA. But best of both worlds, big(er) natural bubs
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Thanks for the responses :) I'm currently a D and I was thinking of going to DD.
I had to look up what that was: going from staggeringly average to barely above average.
It sounds like the equivalent of a man paying to have his penis lengthened from 6" to 6 1/2" - if they can't live without it, good luck, but most people wouldn't be able to tell the difference.
to be as successful as possible in this industry is what I want.
It's your decision, but you could get more business for a lot less money (and risk) than this.
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I got implants a few years ago and can't say business increased or decreased. Some men like them, some do not. A lot of guys can't tell I have implants as they look so natural ( so I've been told).
If you're already a D cup I really don't see why you should go up. D is pretty big and if they are natural I think a lot of guys prefer it.
I'm happy I got mine done as I was quite small before but sometimes I wish I hadn't gone quite so large!
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I'd have to agree with Ian - going from D to DD hardly seems worth the pain, risk of complications, time off work, and expense. Yet if you go bigger you can look out of proportion and they're less likely to look real. Maybe a lift rather than implants is the answer?
But, I think there are easier/better ways to boost business (especially if you're more GFE than PSE).
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I got mine done when I just turned 19, 5 years later no regrets at all. I think it either boosted business or it stayed the same.
You have to do it for yourself. I was a B cup and felt that I had almost no cleavage in a little black dress. I went to a D cup and just love how I look in bodycon dresses now, men really take notice of me more as I used to just rely on showing as much leg as possible.
I've had a lot of clients who have said they're surprised that they like the look and feel of my boobs, some recently saying they didn't think I had implants. You just have to warn men when they start to squeeze hard...
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I want to get mine done for me. I want the naturally looking tear drop shape not the basketball one. If it increases business then great. Men love big tits, but probably don't like fake ones. I'm shocked you didn't see an increase Sandra :(
I did not see i increase in clients requests :)
Mine they are very soft and feel natural. I have a 290cc gel teardrop implants and they are great
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As an escort, I'm considering having breast enhancements done to tryt and boost my income. After speaking to some of my punters though, who are very much against the idea, I'm worried that it will result in me losing income, rather than making any. So I'm asking those girls who have had it done, did you notice a difference in your income as an escort? Was it a positive or a negative one? Is it something you would recommend as a business decision for someone working as a full-time escort?
Thanks!
I had my boobs done and while 50% of my clients liked the idea......50% hated the idea.
It really is one of those things where you'll attract as many clients as you will put off with breast implants.
I had mine done anyway and regretted it so had them taken out the following year. After having them taken out, they have to cut away excess skin which means more scarring however I am very happy with the shape of them now and how pert they are.
I took 6 weeks off when having them removed, was completely healed but having sex and all the sucking and squeezing of my boobs when I returned to work meant there was a lot of pressure on fresh scars so therefor I'm going to have to have scar revision later down the line. I would only do this if I was retired from escorting otherwise switch from escorting to massage and H/R only. Obviously I would have to go on courses for massages first because I'm hopeless at them now I think.
Thankfully my scars are completely white so there are no red raw or purple scars so they are easier to hide but I know they are there so for my own personal reasons, I would like to have more surgery to correct them.
It's a lot to think about. Surgery doesn't always go well and it costs a lot of money plus all the money you loose on recovery time.
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I don't know a lot about it (and I'm never likely to being a G cup) but thousands of pounds plus surgery, pain and recovery time including loss of earnings to go up one cup size seems pretty unnecessary to me too?
Somebody further up mentioned a 'lift'; if it's the shape or position of them you don't like I'm sure there must be something you can have done without putting fake stuff in your body? I can't imagine the punters who like huge fake tits will be that fussed about DDs if they were D's to start with and lots of them certainly like natural ones so I doubt you're missing out on much business with them as they are :).
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I used to think that being very small breasted meant that men wouldn't look at me. As I've gotten older I've found qquite the opposite. I have a tidy figure, good skin partly because I avoid the sun, and great hair once iI stopped dying and trying to style it.
A big smile, hair brushed and learning to dress get the attention without surgery or scars.
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So true Mirror! I think partly because the stereotypical escort is big breasted it makes a lot of ladies think thats all guys like, whereas though of course its true lots of guys like big boobs, just as many don't!
Most guys actually comment how they love small breasts, obviously if they are booking me then that will be their preference anyway, but still nice to hear.
Doesn't mean to say I haven't vaguely considered it, but yes ladies you are more than your breasts! An awful lot of guys, in my experience anyway, want the full package. Just as many guys like slender, long legged soft skinned ladies with small busts, as the opposite.
The recovery time has always put me off also.
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I'm not talking specifically about work either. I get looks even at 40+ without a tiny skirt, low cut tops or a cleavage.
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There's a lot more emphasis on booty over boobs and building an amazing bubble butt is actually doable. Check out the book Strong Curves. If you are willing to lift weights you can transform your body and not mess with your breasts and silicone.
But it takes commitment and time. Easier said than done. I lift weights but not as hard or as frequently as I should.
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There's a lot more emphasis on booty over boobs and building an amazing bubble butt is actually doable. Check out the book Strong Curves. If you are willing to lift weights you can transform your body and not mess with your breasts and silicone.
But it takes commitment and time. Easier said than done. I lift weights but not as hard or as frequently as I should.
I'd second the recommendation of Strong Curves. While I run strictly strength programs myself (Texas Method for life!), Bret Contreras is one of people who really have female-centric programming nailed down.
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Thanks for the responses :) I'm currently a D and I was thinking of going to DD. The response seems very negative towards having it done, so I'm steering towards not doing it. I must stress though, for me to have enhancements done as a business decision, even if it isn't just a personal cosmetic desire, would be for me, as to be as successful as possible in this industry is what I want. The two come hand in hand.
So you want to gain 1/2 to 1 inch? Why bother going through all that pain and recovery? A D cup is a pretty good average Large size for many people (men AND women).
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Thanks for the responses :) I'm currently a D and I was thinking of going to DD. The response seems very negative towards having it done, so I'm steering towards not doing it. I must stress though, for me to have enhancements done as a business decision, even if it isn't just a personal cosmetic desire, would be for me, as to be as successful as possible in this industry is what I want. The two come hand in hand.
So you want to gain 1/2 to 1 inch? Why bother going through all that pain and recovery? A D cup is a pretty good average Large size for many people (men AND women).
Agreed. I am AA I will do anything for a D. :( It's just so expensive. Money for the surgery, money in case something goes wrong and you need revision, money for time off, then back to work and any money made go towards saving to get them redone in case they rupture. For me it's a sacrifice I am willing to make as I am not happy with the size of my tiny boobs. I am fed up with stuffing my bra with socks when I go out lol.
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Thanks for the responses :) I'm currently a D and I was thinking of going to DD. The response seems very negative towards having it done, so I'm steering towards not doing it. I must stress though, for me to have enhancements done as a business decision, even if it isn't just a personal cosmetic desire, would be for me, as to be as successful as possible in this industry is what I want. The two come hand in hand.
So you want to gain 1/2 to 1 inch? Why bother going through all that pain and recovery? A D cup is a pretty good average Large size for many people (men AND women).
Agreed. I am AA I will do anything for a D. :( It's just so expensive. Money for the surgery, money in case something goes wrong and you need revision, money for time off, then back to work and any money made go towards saving to get them redone in case they rupture. For me it's a sacrifice I am willing to make as I am not happy with the size of my tiny boobs. I am fed up with stuffing my bra with socks when I go out lol.
Ah but do you have a small body as well as small boobs? If so then your in perfect proportion.
I personally think small, petite women look beautiful with teeny boobs and then women who are shapely to have bigger boobs equally look great as they are all in proportion.
If I could turn back the clock, I wouldn't have had my boobs done.
But if you are feeling insecure and there's something you can do about it and it turns out well then you have to do what makes you feel better but yes, you need to be prepared for things going wrong.
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I have always been a cup F to G and by contrast I keep thinking of reducing them for quite some time. My back hurts terribly and gym sessions or massages only help temporarily. I always hated my huge bras that made my ex partners laugh when they put them on their heads looking like ants.
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I had my boobs done a long time ago but not for work for myself. I have picked up and lost a few clients but I really wouldn't get any surgery done for work, you can't claim it against your tax bill either. I tried ;D
I echo what other ladies say here, it doesn't increase work, and there are always risks of complications.
A few ladies I have met have had quite a bit of temporary/perm work done to them and all I can say is it's a slippery slope, first it's a boob job, then the Daffy Duck lip fillers, lipo etc. they started to look at what else they could "improve" but some have regrets and some are happy and some look like plastic dolls which are starting to melt.
Don't get me wrong, I have had a little improvement myself but subtle. Do what is right for you, and what makes you feel good about yourself.
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Having your boobs done isn't going to give you a cleavage. All a boob job does is enlarge them not bring them closer together. Only a push up bra or tit tape will do that (or tight clothing).
When I had my first set done back in 97, the surgeon asked me what size I wanted to go up to. I was a 30B (I was only a size 6 on the top, and a 12 on the bottom, so finding dresses and suits to fit me was a nightmare). I asked to go up to a C cup, as I didn't want huge boobs. The surgeon (although he was happy to give me a C cup), recommended I go for a D cup. He gave me his reasons for this, which were, going from a B to a C wouldn't make a great deal of difference, and that it wouldn't be money well spent. He showed me a C cup implant, which was a very similar size to what I was already, he then showed me a D and a DD implant, and asked me what I imagined my boobs to be like after the op. What I realised then, was that a DD would probably be best suited to me. So my first set were a DD, and they were a nice handful. Not too big, not too small. My current ones are a G cup, but that's another story, for another time.
Although you say you'd like to go from a D to a DD (if you do decide to get them done), if the surgeon is a good one, then s/he will show you the different sizes and you may opt for a bigger size if you have an idea of what you want your boobs to look like post op.
I cannot comment on whether it is good for business, as I had mine done many years before I started as a sex worker, but as many others have advised, do this for you not for your business. You might decide to move out of the sex industry in a years time, and you would have spent all that money on something you didn't really want.
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Years ago I worked in a brothel in my home country. The owner (a very nice, decent man) would give us interest-free loans if we wanted to get our tits done. Many of the girls took him up on this but I never did even though I had A-cups. The main reason for this was I knew that they'd need to be replaced at some point - ALL implants wear out and need to be removed or replaced in about 10-15 years. I didn't know what my life would be like at that point. Perhaps I'd be making much less money or simply not be able to take a couple of weeks off work to recover.
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Depends on the implants. The ones i have got a life time garanty so i dont need to remplace them only if i want biger ones again
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Do they not affect breast feeding? (I have no idea, but possibly a consideration for the future?)
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I've got natural bouncy B cups and 15 years ago had some wicked FF's which were ideal for stripping but didn't make any difference when I removed them part way through my escorting career 5 years ago. ;D
The skin bounced back and the scars are barely visible so if you really feel like you need to scratch that itch (albeit for a barely noticeable cup size) then all is not lost. Nipple sensitivity returned to normal (not that I'd noticed anything different prior, oddly. Probably a good thing with the neanderthals chewing on the fucking things). ::)
Although, as others quite rightly pointed out, it is not without risk & expense. :-*
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Depends on the implants. The ones i have got a life time garanty so i dont need to remplace them only if i want biger ones again
Doesn't that mean for the lifetime of the implants (10-15yrs) rather than your lifetime? So if they rupture within their lifetime you can get them replaced for nothing?
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Depends on the implants. The ones i have got a life time garanty so i dont need to remplace them only if i want biger ones again
Doesn't that mean for the lifetime of the implants (10-15yrs) rather than your lifetime? So if they rupture within their lifetime you can get them replaced for nothing?
Yes they are on my lifetime. The doctor give me a certificate that if something bad happen the clinique were i did it will fix the problem at no cost.
And also i want to say that the implants will not affect breast feeding
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If you want to make a selling point in your photos then why don't you look at something that stands out in your body? Like maybe you have a big curvy ass, or maybe beautiful long hair, nice waist or maybe spice up your photos with outstanding lingerie? I wouldn't do it just to hope for more clients. I have very big hanging belly skin and nobody really cares so much as I make my selling point with different areas of my body and the good attractive service and so... I want to remove the skin after loosing weight but I will do it not for the work, as the skin will be burning I think when will be summer, just for comfort.
Let us know what do you think stands out in your look other than you would hope would be the breasts.
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Im thinking of a boob job. Ive asked my clients what there views are on fake boobs . They have all sadi they prefer natural but they wouldnt be put off seeing a WG with fake boobs x
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Private clinic in UK offer fat transfer but they don't really offer best results. Better than nothing I can see they have improved their survival rate of fat, will have to see which Dr does best result though as it canon be done awfully, just because company has good photos doesn't mean you get the Dr that made those results possible so be diligent. You have to wear a Breast cup pump thing to get the blood vessels to your breasts to make sure the transfered fat has something to support on, if they don't offer that then walk away as that is a huge part of success . I am getting mine next year as I am payingupfront aka saving so will update If it works out or is crap and also added downtime and if business changes. Seems too far away I'm excited. I'm not going with private clinic though but was my second option if I was getting it done in uk
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About two weeks ago I had a tummy tuck and breast augmentation. The surgery went great and I'm the results are fantastic! Anyway, getting this done now was kind of bad timing because now I really need to get back to work. I have two 'sugar daddies' (if you could call them that) to hold me over so I can make it work for a while longer. I've been working at a massage parlour that just moved to a new location. The owners told me business is picking up so the sooner I can come back the better.
I'm healing up quite nicely but I still need to wear the surgical tape over my tummy tuck incision. I've had sex with no issues a few days ago but as you all must know erotic massage uses quite a bit of oil. I know it must be too early for me to go back and I shouldn't rush it. The only issues I'm having PO is some swelling when I'm walking too much.
Have any of you ladies had these procedures done? How long did you wait to go back to work?
Thanks!
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About two weeks ago I had a tummy tuck and breast augmentation. The surgery went great and I'm the results are fantastic! Anyway, getting this done now was kind of bad timing because now I really need to get back to work. I have two 'sugar daddies' (if you could call them that) to hold me over so I can make it work for a while longer. I've been working at a massage parlour that just moved to a new location. The owners told me business is picking up so the sooner I can come back the better.
I'm healing up quite nicely but I still need to wear the surgical tape over my tummy tuck incision. I've had sex with no issues a few days ago but as you all must know erotic massage uses quite a bit of oil. I know it must be too early for me to go back and I shouldn't rush it. The only issues I'm having PO is some swelling when I'm walking too much.
Have any of you ladies had these procedures done? How long did you wait to go back to work?
Thanks!
Hi Cummander - think i'm going to say what you already know as in you really shouldnt be considering going back to work 2 weeks post op its way to soon you may do your self harm a tummy tuck is extreme surgery your very swollen and tender internally, i had 3 whole months after my tummy tuck (6 weeks off after boob lift) so i didnt go back until incision scars completely healed and i was not wearing the compression garment any more either.
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Hi girls,
I'm going for my breast op soon and need advice on when I can work again, what's my limits and also just advice overall working in the sex industry with new breast.
X
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I had boobs and lipo together. Boobs were fine after 4 weeks but the Lipo was horrendous for pain and like Paris said you are black and blue. I had to take 3 months off because I was really sore to even touch and I only had it on my hips. The results are fantastic almost instant but be prepared to take a few months off so try and plan it during quiet periods (August I had mine when the kids were off school during holidays).
Let us all know about the laser lipo.
Good luck.
Linz x
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Hope you're healing well I'd love to have money and lipo breast reduction I envy any ladies have it done
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Has anyone had BBL surgery?
If so how as it effected there work for the recovery etc?
Would they recommend somewhere particular!
I have been wanting this surgery for a long time now and want to nail it just wanted my fellow girls feedback?
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I am considering going for this op but wondered if anyone has had one and if so, how long did you take to heal before you could start working again?
(I've had 2 c sections so know about the 'don't lift anything or drive for 6 weeks' but am hoping plastic surgery is different)
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I am considering going for this op but wondered if anyone has had one and if so, how long did you take to heal before you could start working again?
(I've had 2 c sections so know about the 'don't lift anything or drive for 6 weeks' but am hoping plastic surgery is different)
I had a mini tummy tuck in the UK a few years ago
I took 6 weeks off ( went on holiday 3 weeks after surgury )
It's pretty much the same as č- section really slightly worse as they re tighten your stomach muscles so it's harder to bend /stand up straight in my experience
I would plan for around 4 -6 weeks regardless
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Well I want to ask the ladies who had breast enhancement how long you didn't work after the surgery? I really wanna have mine done but I am not willing to take 4-6 weeks off for recovory. I will appreciate some help with my decision. Thanksxxxx
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Well I want to ask the ladies who had breast enhancement how long you didn't work after the surgery? I really wanna have mine done but I am not willing to take 4-6 weeks off for recovory. I will appreciate some help with my decision. Thanksxxxx
I wasnt working when I had mine done over 7 years ago but you HAVE to keep a sports bra on for at least 6 weeks, I had mine on even longer, I couldnt think of anything worse having my boobs done then fucking punters even just the bouncing of them let alone the ones who grab at them
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Hey ladies
Boobe jobs seem to be very expensive now days I was quoted 4 500 to 5 500 a few years back there were 3 800 for good surgeons . I don't fancy going abroad any recomendstations ?
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Hey ladies
Boobe jobs seem to be very expensive now days I was quoted 4 500 to 5 500 a few years back there were 3 800 for good surgeons . I don't fancy going abroad any recomendstations ?
Please keep recommendations for PMs, folks - that way the thread can stay on topic :).
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I will PM you barbie who i went with. one thing ladies must bare in mind is to not just save enough money for the surgery but also enough to cover your bills and general stuff whilst you recover also what if you take longer to heal than expected as some times complications do happen just make sure you have enough money to keep you while you heal as coming back to work to soon could make things worse.
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Hey ladies
Boobe jobs seem to be very expensive now days I was quoted 4 500 to 5 500 a few years back there were 3 800 for good surgeons . I don't fancy going abroad any recomendstations ?
I know you said you don't want surgury abroad but I have had surgury abroad several times successfully and happy to PM you the clinic that I went to
It was in Belgium and I had the consultation in the UK / London
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Have any off you had plastic surgery to try and booster your career?
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Have any off you had plastic surgery to try and booster your career?
No that would be just silly
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Would it be possible to only offer hand relief afterwards, so you could keep the dressings/suit thing on, or perhaps set up a glory hole so they couldn't see you whilst in recovery!
Hope it goes well!
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I had breast augmentation and had a couple of weeks off. I then did oral only bookings (discounted rate) for a month. This meant I had time to recover and still got paid. Clients didn't mind not being able to go the full way as it was a discounted service =).
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Have any off you had plastic surgery to try and booster your career?
I think if you are small-busted then it could potentially improve your career. I would choose a surgery and surgeon very carefully though. I've seen some absolutely terrible jobs in photos that look as if they are rock hard and must surely be uncomfortable.
However I would only do this if you like the "glam" look if you know what I mean? If you market yourself as "girl next door" natural looking type then I think fake boobs are going to not fit with that.
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Hi guys,
i have had a breast augmentation. I am fine in myself but my breasts look like they have been hacked by frankenstein ? should i wait and see clients till they've healed property or see clients and keep my bra on?
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Personally I'd wait until they are healed not its worth the risk of damaging them and I'd think most men would want them out and available to touch, squeeze and suck during a booking.
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thanks for your input xx
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A couple of years ago a girl posted on here about a client who squeezed her breasts so hard he ruptured an implant.
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Hi Girls
I have read some of the posts and I know some of you had undergone standard liposuction. Has anyone had vaser lipo (ultrasound)on abdomen with fat transfer to breasts?I have booked the treatment abroad (in Poland) and just wondering if anyone else had it done and how happy are you with the results (mainly the breasts area Im more interested in) I know it's individual thing but it would be nice to have someone to chat to when I'm post op. I am going to stay there for 2weeks (10 days after the lipo) and hoping to return to work after 3weeks but will def keep any interested girls posted;)
Thanks for comments
X
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A couple of years ago a girl posted on here about a client who squeezed her breasts so hard he ruptured an implant.
Whaaat? I will reconsider boob job :o
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My friend had uplift & implant surgury in cyprus and the surgeon put the implant in the wrong way
She was off work for 6 months & had bad scarring from the uplift
She is devastated she now has to find upwards of ?5000 to get it fixed
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Hey ladies. Did anyone had BBL? How long you took off for your recovery? And also dies the result fade away as the fat dies?
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Hi girls ( who has had surgery)
I've booked up to have a tummy tuck and lipo. I've been told to take it easy for 6 weeks but was just wondering how look it was before you want back to work?
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girls
has any of u done anal bleach?
i'd really love to have pink butt hole like the girls in porn but i got too many questions
is it safe? is it legal in the uk? cause i havent found any salon that does it
is laser better
i read somewhere that the results arent guaranteed, like it can become irregular, like some bits darker than others, like at that point some might rather keep it dark since at least its dark all over
thanks
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I haven't but saw a thread on here about something else (sure it was about hair removal but can't be sure) I think the girl said she got an anal bleaching thing from a sex shop, I was thinking about trying it myself, I'll have a look for the post x
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For a combination of reasons, I've piled on the pounds over the last say 6 years which is both unhealthy and unsightly. Primarily now for health reasons, I'm very seriously considering getting a gastric band and maybe before Christmas. My question is to anyone out there whose had it done; how long on average did it take you to return to this type of work? What sort of problems did you encounter and with the benefit of hindsight, is there anything you might have done differently?
*I haven't 100% made up my mind on band surgery but I think it's the safest, most reasonably effective and reversible of the different forms of bariatric surgery. If anyone knows of any good surgeons in Surrey/London, please let me know! Thanks.x
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For a combination of reasons, I've piled on the pounds over the last say 6 years which is both unhealthy and unsightly. Primarily now for health reasons, I'm very seriously considering getting a gastric band and maybe before Christmas. My question is to anyone out there whose had it done; how long on average did it take you to return to this type of work? What sort of problems did you encounter and with the benefit of hindsight, is there anything you might have done differently?
*I haven't 100% made up my mind on band surgery but I think it's the safest, most reasonably effective and reversible of the different forms of bariatric surgery. If anyone knows of any good surgeons in Surrey/London, please let me know! Thanks.x
First I'd say any decent surgeon would urge diet and exercise before you consider surgery.
A friend of mine had a band and had a lot of issues with the port - it basically got lost and they had to furkle around in her abdomen to find it. You'll have the scars from the keyhole surgery initially (I think three?), then the port scar will obviously be visible. It can take a while to get the tightness of the band right - too tight and you'll be nauseous/vomiting a lot, too loose and it won't be doing much good. Any alteration will require a trip to the clinic and access to the port. You might feel a lot weaker physically, at least initially.
Basically, short term at least, not great for a sex worker.
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After reading the posts on this got to say, for sure if anyone was thinking of lipo, I would honestly try and do it the natural way. Losing weight may seem hard work but its so worth it, you save a ton of money and you wont miss getting work while you recover. I used to be 13 stone and I managed to do it (I am a toned size 8) despite loving food so much! :-\
Also with regards to how much time to have after surgery, I think its always best to listen to your surgeon and most importantly your body. After both my boob jobs, I took my surgeons advice and took all the time off I needed, so maybe when planning surgery, plan it so theres no pressure on getting back to work asap. Not worth the risk :)
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I have a few friends that have had the gastric sleeve/band done and although they have lost the weight the skin is loose and hangining and their boobs have sagged. They were much happier before surgery. This may affect your confidence when ur taking your clothes off with clients. There's nothing more sexier than a woman confident in her body. If your clients see you as a happy confident sexy woman they will keep returning if you come across as insecure of your body that will put them off.
Best way is to make some simple changes in your life. Take time to go the gym and eat healthy. Its the best and safest option. I train 1hr a day 5xs a week for the last 2 years and have barely any body fat. Clients always comment on it too.overall it will make u alot happier and save u ton of money. Good luck
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I had surgery on my forehead 9 weeks ago due to skin cancer. I'm using blemish cover up and rocking a dodgy fringe.
I think the best bet is to cover it the best you can but if you can't cover it, rock it! Be confident. Men love confidence. Just make sure you are physically well enough. That is the main thing..xx
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First I'd say any decent surgeon would urge diet and exercise before you consider surgery.
A friend of mine had a band and had a lot of issues with the port - it basically got lost and they had to furkle around in her abdomen to find it. You'll have the scars from the keyhole surgery initially (I think three?), then the port scar will obviously be visible. It can take a while to get the tightness of the band right - too tight and you'll be nauseous/vomiting a lot, too loose and it won't be doing much good. Any alteration will require a trip to the clinic and access to the port. You might feel a lot weaker physically, at least initially.
Basically, short term at least, not great for a sex worker.
I agree it's not the quick fix it appears, the weight lost is usually I think 50 % of excess which for the poster would be 3 stone. A 3 stone loss is quite achievable in 6-12 months using diet and exercise. Some gastric banders do rebound because they've not dealt with the underlying reasons, or cannot change their lifestyle.
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Can we stick to the question regarding recoveey times and sex work folks, please? There are about a million weight loss forums online already :).
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I really can't emphasise enough to take recovery times with a pinch of salt , some are much much longer than they say .
It's really important to make sure you have the funds to cover time off.
I had my boob job a quite a while ago and whatever they said was Bull , it was only at around the 6 week mark I could catch my breath properly to hold a conversation , plus sleeping upright for a few weeks is not easy and the tight band and support bras etc .
I didn't go for a huge change, big enough but not massive , around 3 cup sizes , no uplift just under the muscle ( painful as they have to make the pockets ).
It felt like a had a ton of bricks on my chest and couldn't catch my breath ( apparently that's not uncommon )
If they're not under the muscle recovery is quicker but they will droop due to the weight .
All I'm saying is really don't take recovery times as standard.
I had a laparoscopy recently with some other surgery and got convinced before and after 6 weeks back to normal , I made an off the cuff comment to the Surgeon ( who had just finished his six week chat) about going back to a particular exercise and got a quick "oh no you can't do that , that'll be at least 3 months.
I was thinking heavy suitcase etc !
It wasn't a particularly strenuous exercise either .
Financially I've been crippled due to time off !!!
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Hey ladies
I havent been very happy with my looks lately I work out I go to the gym I
have tried many fad diets but still havent got the body of my dreams I would
like to get my breasts done but was also thinking of getting Liposuction too
which I do feel bit nervous about . Has any one had liposuction ?? was wondering
what the results were like and if its worth the money . x
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Merged. As per the title, please keep it work related :).
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Getting back on subject..... ;D I had my nose done yesterday and I plan to take at least 4-5 weeks off. Always hated my nose but omg wasnt expecting to feel so bad afterwards. Its amazing just how one area of your nose can affect your whole face and even breathing/throat. I keep looking in the mirror and thinking would be so funny to arrange a meet and see how the client would react! haha. Been honest about it with my regulars and of course most said I didnt need it doing and a couple were sweet enough to send me a message wishing me luck. so recap, if anyone is thinking of having a nose job, for sure take at LEAST 4 weeks off. Stay safe everyone xxxx
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omg didnt realise I would be so bad after my surgery :( (like to think this is 'helpful' info on any ladies thinking of having a nose job) for sure do more research into how your gonna feel post op!! Like didnt realise my nose would be 100% blocked for at least 1-2 weeks after, meaning I have to breathe through my mouth which has made it very sore and hard to eat/drink. Also non stop bits of blood and snot coming out all the time lol.
I dont regret doing it at all as ive always hated my nose but feel very low and depressed at the moment. Very lonely too, so thank you for much for this website its been a godsend these last few days.
Trying to remain positive and look forward to starting work again. Aiming for March. Hope everyone is having a good weekend so far xxx
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I've had my nose done too, few years ago now and remember the feeling of struggling to breathe, eat drink etc but it's no more than a few days. You should feel well enough to work in two or three weeks I guess although I reckon BJ's might be tricky! :o
I do remember the black eyes, impossible to cover up well for a good three weeks. Grab yourself some damn good concealer, if you don't have any order some online, they take longer to go than you think and they are BLACK as fuck!
If you can take more time off then do, look after yourself. Arnica is good for bruising but they probably advised that. Rest up and enjoy your new nose OMG it makes so much difference to confidence I can tell you. For me, it went from hating it before, loving it after but for the most part it's that I just don't notice it now and that's exactly what I wanted, so glad I had it done. :)
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I've had my nose done too, few years ago now and remember the feeling of struggling to breathe, eat drink etc but it's no more than a few days. You should feel well enough to work in two or three weeks I guess although I reckon BJ's might be tricky! :o
I do remember the black eyes, impossible to cover up well for a good three weeks. Grab yourself some damn good concealer, if you don't have any order some online, they take longer to go than you think and they are BLACK as fuck!
If you can take more time off then do, look after yourself. Arnica is good for bruising but they probably advised that. Rest up and enjoy your new nose OMG it makes so much difference to confidence I can tell you. For me, it went from hating it before, loving it after but for the most part it's that I just don't notice it now and that's exactly what I wanted, so glad I had it done. :)
Thanks for sharing your experience :) You know black eyes wise im quite lucky, only seem to have a line on upper eye lid (kinda looks like im wearing eye liner) For sure wont be back working till at least 1st March. At the moment just struggling with having a full nose of snot and blood and I cant do anything. Read that from other girls saying its an amazing but gross feeling when you go and they drain your nose for first time! I swear it will be like having an orgasm!! haha. On that subject, being honest.....not been able to make myself cum since having it done! no wonder I am so miserable!! but your right, know it will be worth it. My nose has always ruined my face. So will make such a difference!! Got to wait another 7-10 days before can see ;D xx
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Re the black eyes, mine weren't that bad the first few days but kicked in after about a week or so, they got a lot worse before they got better, I thought they weren't that bad and then oh fuck! You do think they would be worse to begin with but no so just be aware. Obviously my experience may be different! I think you said your nose was done 5 days ago now? They will probably still get worse. God the voice of doom! Sorry! I think if I'd had the sense to order a damn strong concealer online I would have been able to go out and about sooner.
On the up side, I found the pain very manageable and nowhere near as bad as I was expecting, once the plasters & packing etc was gone of course, such a relief! Mine was 'open' too so quite a lot was done to it, I won't go into details! :o
Congrats on your new nose!
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Re the black eyes, mine weren't that bad the first few days but kicked in after about a week or so, they got a lot worse before they got better, I thought they weren't that bad and then oh fuck! You do think they would be worse to begin with but no so just be aware. Obviously my experience may be different! I think you said your nose was done 5 days ago now? They will probably still get worse. God the voice of doom! Sorry! I think if I'd had the sense to order a damn strong concealer online I would have been able to go out and about sooner.
On the up side, I found the pain very manageable and nowhere near as bad as I was expecting, once the plasters & packing etc was gone of course, such a relief! Mine was 'open' too so quite a lot was done to it, I won't go into details! :o
Congrats on your new nose!
Sorry only just realised not replied to this. omg these last couple of days have been tough. Well its 2:30am and im still awake! haha not good. Feel so crap :'( starting to get more pain, eyes still not too bad although one is starting to come out a bit more. black eyes are the least of my problems at the moment lol. Just cant sleep and for some reason my stomach hurts so much.
Even after all this still no regrets and know will feel so much better when I can hopefully see the amazing results. Please feel free to share details! my surgeon told me he taken a lot of bone away so cant wait to see! :) xx
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Can we pleaae make sure we keep a sex work context here as per the rules, folks? We don't want it wandering off :).
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Oh poor you it is depressing but also exciting waiting for the results! We can share stories by PM if you want, I doubt many on here want the actual details ;D and I may have taken it slightly off topic!
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Oh poor you it is depressing but also exciting waiting for the results! We can share stories by PM if you want, I doubt many on here want the actual details ;D and I may have taken it slightly off topic!
Edit - Amy you just beat me to it!
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Im going to get my nose done ( anyone who can recommend please pm me )
can i ask how long it was before u could return to escorting?
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Im going to get my nose done ( anyone who can recommend please pm me )
can i ask how long it was before u could return to escorting?
Just seen your PM and replied ;D (as on the subject of escorting and to do with it) I took 4 weeks off after mine which for sure was enough time to heal but I took it easy (no facefucking etc) for the first couple of weeks xx
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Getting back on subject..... ;D I had my nose done yesterday and I plan to take at least 4-5 weeks off. Always hated my nose but omg wasnt expecting to feel so bad afterwards. Its amazing just how one area of your nose can affect your whole face and even breathing/throat. I keep looking in the mirror and thinking would be so funny to arrange a meet and see how the client would react! haha. Been honest about it with my regulars and of course most said I didnt need it doing and a couple were sweet enough to send me a message wishing me luck. so recap, if anyone is thinking of having a nose job, for sure take at LEAST 4 weeks off. Stay safe everyone xxxx
Hope your recovery isn't too much of an ordeal. I had this op done years ago , just be careful with sneezing in case it causes uneccasary bleeding down back of the throat if you had heyfever. .
Totally agree with aftercare with that one , seemed to be quite sore too.
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Hope your recovery isn't too much of an ordeal. I had this op done years ago , just be careful with sneezing in case it causes uneccasary bleeding down back of the throat if you had heyfever. .
Totally agree with aftercare with that one , seemed to be quite sore too.
Yeah, was horrible having a blocked nose for 2 weeks and not being about to blow (nose that is ;) ) recovery was fine overall and went back to escorting just under 4 weeks xx
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There's so brilliant advice here from the ladies ,I would love to get the money together for breast uplift and also lypo it would certainly give me a better shape .
I had a breast augmentation years ago but the scars were too much and that left obvious red lines under and around the breast and nipples wher they lift them.I'd like to improve those areas .
I'd need much time off then get back on track with work after that time
could do with botox too for forehead deep lines
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Has anyone here had a mini tummy tuck (no muscle issues which should make it easier recovery I think?) ? How long were you off? My possible future surgeon said 6 weeks but I'm not sure that's long enough given the amount of sex we have in this job. Also scarring and wound healing and work? I managed after my BA by keeping a bra on in bookings but I'm not sure how well always wearimg knickers would go down with my now clients.
I'm at the seeing consultant stage so nothing booked but time off is my biggest fear.
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Has anyone here had a mini tummy tuck (no muscle issues which should make it easier recovery I think?) ? How long were you off? My possible future surgeon said 6 weeks but I'm not sure that's long enough given the amount of sex we have in this job. Also scarring and wound healing and work? I managed after my BA by keeping a bra on in bookings but I'm not sure how well always wearimg knickers would go down with my now clients.
I'm at the seeing consultant stage so nothing booked but time off is my biggest fear.
My friend had a tummy tuck (with muscle repair) she hasn't worked for 8 weeks, but is just getting back now. She still has a bit of swelling and pain, but is starting to look great!
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My friend had a tummy tuck (with muscle repair) she hasn't worked for 8 weeks, but is just getting back now. She still has a bit of swelling and pain, but is starting to look great!
Thank you! The recovery sounds so hard, 8 weeks is so long. Is she going back to fs or lighter work? I'm was wondering if only offering short bookings like 3pmins with no fs would be advisable? I'm a total wimp with pain and I hypochondriac about hurting myself. I was so paranoid after my boobs I know I'll be the same with this.
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If you want to private message me i will put you in touch with her, she can give you more information about it. She is nearly back up to normal service lol but it has been a very painful road, but looking at her sooo worth it xxxx
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Hi has anyone had their boobs explanted ? and if so did it effect your work ?
many thanks in advance x
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Hi lovelys has anyone had a breast uplift?
I dont want implants just an uplift as due to losing weight and lactation mine have gone a bit south eben though im only a 30b. >:(
Seems an uplift is more expensive than implants? how long were you off work? thanks x
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Hi lovelys has anyone had a breast uplift?
I dont want implants just an uplift as due to losing weight and lactation mine have gone a bit south eben though im only a 30b. >:(
Seems an uplift is more expensive than implants? how long were you off work? thanks x
Uplift is more expensive as it’s more work
You will get a lot more scaring with a up lift as they often have to reposition the nipple so generallly a scar around the nipple and then a vertical scar from nipple to under the breast
My friend had a uplift and implants and it went wrong ( this was 3 years ago) implant was actually put in wrong way 🤮 it was done when she was living abroad
She had to pay almost 8k to get it fixed last year in the UK
She was off 6 -8 weeks
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Hi lovelys has anyone had a breast uplift?
I dont want implants just an uplift...
I recommend preparing for at least 2 months off work. The scars, though, will take years to lighten. (My own uplift scars, which are now 6 years old, will never fully fade, but I prefer the scars to sagging breasts).
I recommend you also to have implants along with the uplift (as I did...and now regret not having gone a lot bigger). The combined procedure doesn't cost much more than the uplift alone, the implants will very probably enhance your body-confidence (especially since they tend to compensate for the scarring resulting from the uplift), and they make it more worthwhile to undergo the general anaesthetic and the subsequent recovery process (which includes a few days of pain).
For your uplift, check whether your nipples are even. If they aren't, this can be corrected in the procedure. If you have implants, check whether they will be placed in front of the pectoral muscle or behind it. (If you have very small breasts, the implants should go behind the pectoral muscle in order to avoid implant-puckering which will show through the breast). In either an implant or an uplift procedure, over-sized nipples can be made smaller too.
If you have implants, ask by what route they will be put in (through the nipples, through the breast creases, through the armpit or through the belly-button). Also ask what sort of implants will be used. Textured silicone implants tend to be the most common choice by surgeons, as I understand it. Also ask how to avoid implant-rippling by the armpits as well as capsular contracture.
For any procedure, ask to see pictures of the surgeon's work and try to ensure that she / he shows you people who had the same surgical requirements as yours (so someone with breasts just like yours, for instance). Ask him / her how often the procedure goes wrong, what makes it go wrong and what she / he does about it. Ask her / him how often she / he performs the procedure in the first place too.
Lastly, see at least 3 surgeons for consultations before you make any decisions.
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Hey ladies. So next week I am travelling abroad for a long awaited breast enlargement surgery :)
I just wondered if there were any of you who could tell me how long you waited before you went back to work?
Granted.. everyone's healing time is different. Just getting excited now and curious to hear how long it took to heal and you was ok to work.
:) thank you.
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I’m getting my boobs done as well and I read somewhere it’s recommended to take at least 6-8 weeks off work.
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I took about 5 weeks off but I then did limited service and only saw gentle regs for a few weeks. I also didnt remove my top/Basque/bra for a couple of months as I didn't want to hurt myself and also ugly scars while healing.
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I think the reccommended time doesn't really account for people who's tits are their work tools. :)
Your body doesn't really start proper hardcore healing till 2 years after the op, that's the red zone when you're most likely to get encapsulation, hematomas and other issues.
I took about 2 months off and kept the industrial, rigid sports bras on 24/7. I didn't want complications. I had a small keloid scar for an unrelated op and wasn't going to take risks. Go back too early and some client grabs or rests on you could screw up the long term healing. I tried to keep them protected in a bra while seeing clients for weeks, so I was less exposed to damage. You just have to be smart and assertive with clients as you have two busy healing wounds for 2 years.
Afterwards I wear the industrial sports bra 24/7 to this day, except for work and sports when I use a proper super firm sports compresser top so nothing jiggles.....too much. Only when I need it to. ;D
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Hey ladies. So next week I am travelling abroad for a long awaited breast enlargement surgery :)
I just wondered if there were any of you who could tell me how long you waited before you went back to work?
Granted.. everyone's healing time is different. Just getting excited now and curious to hear how long it took to heal and you was ok to work.
:) thank you.
I hope you're going somewhere safe and with good quality medical back-up!
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Keep it work-related folks, please - the PM sysyem is working fine :)
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Hi lovelys id really appricate some advice on good breast surgeons in the uk!!
i have a consulatation in bristol next week but want a few to get a gauge!
(SORRY AMY not really sex related!!)
feel free to pm me x
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Work related answer - it depends what surgery you have and who is the surgeon. Usual time off work can be from 2 to 6 weeks and includes the ability to driving a car.
I had some work done years ago but luckily from the best Cosmetic surgeon in London, if not the country, and probably the world but am not knowledgeable about other countries and their surgeons outside of the UK.
Probably best not to look outside the UK is my best advice.
Can PM me if you need the name of the best surgeon - he is the best, for sure but has a long waiting list, but is so worth the wait - believe me!!!
Breast surgery is usually a 4 -6 week healing time and scars usually gone within 4 - 6 months.
E x
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Hi lovelys has anyone had a breast uplift?
I dont want implants just an uplift as due to losing weight and lactation mine have gone a bit south eben though im only a 30b. >:(
Seems an uplift is more expensive than implants? how long were you off work? thanks x
I know you may fee that you don’t want bigger breasts but an uplift will make your breasts look even smaller. I had a consultation many years ago and was advised to have just small implants aswell to ensure I kept a full set of tits, and good shape!
Any decent consultant will probably advise this.
As for recovery. Everyone is different. It depends on loads of different factors. What’s your immune system like. What if something goes wrong, infection, stitches playing up etc.
If all goes well you could be fine to work again in 6 weeks but then again it could be 4 months and to should be prepared for worst case scenerio really, not to be pessimistic but so you don’t end up worrying about finances etc should you get any set backs
Hope all goes well xx
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The other thing re. recovery time is if the lactation issue will cause a problem?
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Sorry for the shallow post. Sometimes we should pamper ourselves...i do not often but i want to to a filler on my lips.
need just an advice from somebody that it is used to it.
You would book on the morning early, get your lips done and take a booking at lunch time that involve kiss and owo?
Is it dangerous? infection? ahah i can ask to the clinic as well for kiss, but maybe for owo i would skip :)
What you think? I won t waste one full day do not work even because i really do not know when i am not busy...not easy to schedule something like it! Thank you and sorry again for my shallow post. but we need something light as well in life! ;D
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I only work a couple of days a week so I get mine done on my days off so it's not really an issue. I don't have loads put in and they are very natural, but afterwards they are quite swollen, sore and have bruised before, so I would advise having at least a day off afterwards, as I couldn't imagine kissing or doing oral after having it done.
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I would definitely say at least two days off as they feel really tight. I also felt like a duck for the first few days so I didn’t work. But after about 4/5 days I loved them xx
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I've gone to a booking just hours after having lip injections haha! But if say wait for the pain to go, can take a day or so x
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Can I ask the ladies who have had this done, how often do you need to get it done if wanting your lips to stay plump? Do you wait until the filler has totally disappeared before having another and if so how long does it usually last? I know this can vary from person to person but an idea would be good.
It must cost a fortune! Is there a reason you do not have a permanent implant which I asume lasts years?
I know I can read up on these things on the individual websites of these practitioners who obviously up sell their products but would rather know from ladies who have had it done.
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Can I ask the ladies who have had this done, how often do you need to get it done if wanting your lips to stay plump? Do you wait until the filler has totally disappeared before having another and if so how long does it usually last? I know this can vary from person to person but an idea would be good.
It must cost a fortune! Is there a reason you do not have a permanent implant which I asume lasts years?
I know I can read up on these things on the individual websites of these practitioners who obviously up sell their products but would rather know from ladies who have had it done.
It all depends on who you go to. It took about 4 appointments over 2 years for my lips to stay plump. I haven't had them done in over a year and they are still very large.
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Mine are very subtle so don't have much put in, but they last a hood year. Make sure you have numbing cream on before you get them done as it hurts like hell!
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Merged, and please keep it sex work related as per the forum rules :).
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Merged, and please keep it sex work related as per the forum rules :).
Yes I realised this and have now asked questions via private message. :)
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ah ok, thank you for advice! i done it several times, each 6 month since 3years..usually i do not get bruise or pain or marks. finger crossed this time too! yes feeling a duck! 8) ahah
i booked already but i can change or reschedule it 24hr in advance! i think that i would risk for a booking afterwards!
i ll see how react it! and if i got a booking too!
i won t take off! ;D i will on saturday usually i am working on the weekend! but i feel that this one will be not good as is 25th! so i guess that it is most probable be slow than next one for example! i ll be brave and i ll ask if i can give oral to my boyfriend to the clinic! ;D do not mind! i know that you can not train, not workout! i ll update on here if they said something...worried that i can get infection doing oral without!
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update from a duck! done filler on lips
recommendation: no sex for 24hr at least, if you do your filler go away. due to hormones
kiss and so owo not as well, risk of infection
:-X Happy duck btw! ;D :-*
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Hi ladies 5 days post op (breast enlargement and uplift) and have zero pain and feel fab been up walking etc since day 2.
my question is if anyone here has done the same how long did u roughly wait till returning, whilst i feel fine i of couse have scars atm and couple stitches so waiting for some healing but thinking ok for gentle meet in 2 /3 weeks time?
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2 months.
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Anyone had this procedure? It's like lipo, well it isn't as there is no surgery involved.
There's no need for any recovery time at all. I'm so tempted! Been thinking about it for a while as it freezes fat cells.
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Anyone had this procedure? It's like lipo, well it isn't as there is no surgery involved.
There's no need for any recovery time at all. I'm so tempted! Been thinking about it for a while as it freezes fat cells.
Gypsy if there's no recovery time, what is it you're asking, and how is it relevant to sex work?
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After Lipo you will be swollen and bruised for few weeks. You will look like a baloon if its in the stomach area. The recovery is less than more invasive procedures like Breast augmentation, Tummy tuck or BBL but I believe you will need to take good 3-4 weeks off.
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Gypsy if there's no recovery time, what is it you're asking, and how is it relevant to sex work?
Because while they say there is no recovery time needed, I've heard it can leave you badly bruised with some people. If I had it done I wouldn't want anyone to look at any bruises :)
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Anyone had this procedure? It's like lipo, well it isn't as there is no surgery involved.
There's no need for any recovery time at all. I'm so tempted! Been thinking about it for a while as it freezes fat cells.
I think this is cool sculpting or HiFu, as far as I know there is no downtime unless you get a bit of bruising (which is unlikely from what I've read) as it isn't an invasive treatment. I have just had my breast implants removed and new ones put in, I've been told 8 weeks off which I I dont doubt looking at the horrendous bruising I have (great results though)
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Because while they say there is no recovery time needed, I've heard it can leave you badly bruised with some people. If I had it done I wouldn't want anyone to look at any bruises :)
Everyone is different with bruising and swelling. Even with the same cosmetic procedure, some girls recover at varying rates.
About cool-sculpting, of course its advertised as painless and minimal bruising. But some people will get adverse reactions to it. It's hard to guess which of the category you belong in until you try. But always wise to have enough savings for 1 month off work (in case of complications or pain).
I had the lip filler done( looked like Frankenstein's wife for a few months.) I returned to work the next day with heavy lip bruising. Even if the clients noticed, they did not care, nor did it affect business.
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I'm thinking of getting a mini facelift later in the year, not sure of the downtime though, been researching it and general consensus is ok to have sex a couple of weeks after or 6 weeks for physical exercise.....I'm not sure what category I would fall into lol Has anyone had a mini facelift?
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I'm thinking of getting a mini facelift later in the year, not sure of the downtime though, been researching it and general consensus is ok to have sex a couple of weeks after or 6 weeks for physical exercise.....I'm not sure what category I would fall into lol Has anyone had a mini facelift?
Is that when they tighten your jawline?
If so, I would be interested myself..
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Yes tightens your neck and Jowls
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Take it to PM folks, please :)
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I'm having a breast enlargement later this year and was wondering how long it was before any ladies on here were comfortable enough to start work after their surgery? I know they have recovery guidelines but I'm assuming they apply to ladies who have 9 to 5 jobs that don't involve blokes grabbing hold of their tits and trying to get radio 2 on their nipples 😂😂
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I'm having a breast enlargement later this year and was wondering how long it was before any ladies on here were comfortable enough to start work after their surgery? I know they have recovery guidelines but I'm assuming they apply to ladies who have 9 to 5 jobs that don't involve blokes grabbing hold of their tits and trying to get radio 2 on their nipples 😂😂
I had mine redone in January, I took 12 weeks off work and excersise. Keep you compression bra on 24/7 during that time I even wear mine now as they are comfy. While things are quiet and I'm not working I've just had further surgery to my face, just recovering now, but thrilled with the results even now.
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2 months and after that wore pretty soft, transparent bras so they can see boobs but insisted on gentle touch and no hard play. I'd try not to get them out at all and used distraction. Exactly the same advice as CM. I'm also a 24/7 compression bra wearer except for work.
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I'm having a breast enlargement later this year and was wondering how long it was before any ladies on here were comfortable enough to start work after their surgery? I know they have recovery guidelines but I'm assuming they apply to ladies who have 9 to 5 jobs that don't involve blokes grabbing hold of their tits and trying to get radio 2 on their nipples 😂😂
I’ve been told minimum 6 weeks. Getting mine done spring next year.
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I wish I could afford plastic surgery.
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I wish I could afford plastic surgery.
Have you thought of going abroad? I've had 2 different surgeries abroad, the surgeons and facilities and prices imo are so much better than here.
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Have you thought of going abroad? I've had 2 different surgeries abroad, the surgeons and facilities and prices imo are so much better than here.
Yes but online scare stories and my mum always talks me out of it. Where did you go?
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Take it to PM folks, please :)
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Not exactly lipo but I had a nose job. I thought I would be able to return after a week ;D silly me, I ended up taking a month off.
I’d really advise you to take as much time off as you can to recover, even a nose job was quite taxing as my nose was (and still is) so sensitive I had to be careful when giving oral and kissing. I asked clients to be careful and they were all fine about this.
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You would book on the morning early, get your lips done and take a booking at lunch time that involve kiss and owo?
There’s no right or wrong answer to this, as everyone bruises and swells differently after having lip fillers. It all depends on you and the product they use. Ice helps.
Personally, it doesn’t bother me and I have my appointment when I’m free on the day. I go straight back to work, my lips feel a bit stiff but I can kiss and do OWO just fine. I don’t really bruise badly or swell. Everyone is different though :)
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if anyone wants to PM me cheap overseas surgery locations that you would recommend please do
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I had my first HIFU appointment yesterday. For my belly. I am a bit of a wuss when it comes to pain so the therapist cannot use the highest setting but it takes 2 months for it to properly reduce any sagging. I have to go three times three months apart.
If you look for more rural locations prices vary widely. She is doing mine fairly reasonably (£300 each time). Takes 2 hours. I lost nearly 2 inches immediately also.
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I had my first HIFU appointment yesterday. For my belly. I am a bit of a wuss when it comes to pain so the therapist cannot use the highest setting but it takes 2 months for it to properly reduce any sagging. I have to go three times three months apart.
If you look for more rural locations prices vary widely. She is doing mine fairly reasonably (£300 each time). Takes 2 hours. I lost nearly 2 inches immediately also.
Wow! That's incredible! Sorry, what's HIFU? ;D
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Wow! That's incredible! Sorry, what's HIFU? ;D
Google says skin tightening.
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Google says skin tightening.
Yeah, I Googled it and I have a machine that does something similar.
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It feels a little like a TENS machine.
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Take it to PM folks, please :)
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I’ve had lip filler before, and I recently dissolved to start building new lips (old stubborn filler was above my lip). I’m well aware that I need at least 5-7 days for lips to recover
However, I am considering getting cheeks, jaw and chin filler. I was wondering how many days before I work you would wait until having this procedure done? I’m just thinking in terms of blow Jobs and kissing, as I don’t want the filler to move around because I’ve gone back to work too soon
Do you think 3 days post filler is okay to work?
Thank you ☺️
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Yes it will be fine hun- I’ve worked same day ( not for lip filler) but the rest xx
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I’ve had lip filler before, and I recently dissolved to start building new lips (old stubborn filler was above my lip). I’m well aware that I need at least 5-7 days for lips to recover
However, I am considering getting cheeks, jaw and chin filler. I was wondering how many days before I work you would wait until having this procedure done? I’m just thinking in terms of blow Jobs and kissing, as I don’t want the filler to move around because I’ve gone back to work too soon
Do you think 3 days post filler is okay to work?
Thank you ☺️
Yeah, although chin and jaw can be quite sore and hard to give BJs for prolonged periods of time. I’d say take min 3 days off for those areas x
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Okay, thank you so much to both of you!
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Not surgery but adjacent. Has anyone had laser before? I have the appointment next week and I wonder if my skin might look hideous after? Should I take time off? (not that it is too busy anyway tbh).
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Not surgery but adjacent. Has anyone had laser before? I have the appointment next week and I wonder if my skin might look hideous after? Should I take time off? (not that it is too busy anyway tbh).
For face or hair removal? I've had fraxel laser for acne scarring before (people do it for anti ageing too) and my skin was horrendously sore and red for the rest of that day, and swollen. I think it was a bit tender for a couple of days after, but actually the laser itself left more scarring (weird skin texture that looks like lots of little dots a year on still) and didn't even remove any acne scars. Anyway, you shouldn't need to take too much time off, you can always cover redness with make up, but I did look a bit chipmunk-y for a couple of days still. I'm fairly certain I had a booking a day or two after as I'm now remembering being self conscious about my face and wanting to explain to the client that I don't always look so inflated ;D
Laser hair removal doesn't leave any evidence of treatment even immediately after, in my experience.
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It's for hair removal but I do have a thread vein I was thinking about also so thanks for the heads up. :)
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I found your reactions diminish the more you have laser hair removal - for at least the first couple of sessions expect some redness for a few hours. If they don't put some aloe vera gel on for you, buy some yourself, as it's very soothing.
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I found your reactions diminish the more you have laser hair removal - for at least the first couple of sessions expect some redness for a few hours. If they don't put some aloe vera gel on for you, buy some yourself, as it's very soothing.
Oooh I do have some, thank you, will do that. :)
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It's for hair removal but I do have a thread vein I was thinking about also so thanks for the heads up. :)
Don't know if you have already had the procedure done. I had laser treatment years ago for thread veins that were near my nostrils. I couldn't work for weeks. My skin turned a red purple colour and then scabbed over. I don't know why I bothered having it done, they weren't even that bad! 😊
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Don't know if you have already had the procedure done. I had laser treatment years ago for thread veins that were near my nostrils. I couldn't work for weeks. My skin turned a red purple colour and then scabbed over. I don't know why I bothered having it done, they weren't even that bad! 😊
Hi Rae,
Thanks for telling me, I've actually found out that they won't use the laser for me for anything but hair removal, so I won't be removing the thread vein, I'm starting the hair removal later on in the week.
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hi, i was booking a breast augmentation and wondering if i can be back to cam work asap! i mean 4 weeks off to heal and then back slowly! just doing something lol pussy and booty at least without showing my new boobs till completely healed!
;D thank you
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Hi ladies 5 days post op (breast enlargement and uplift) and have zero pain and feel fab been up walking etc since day 2.
my question is if anyone here has done the same how long did u roughly wait till returning, whilst i feel fine i of couse have scars atm and couple stitches so waiting for some healing but thinking ok for gentle meet in 2 /3 weeks time?
I had a lift & implants last October. I took 8 weeks off work & still clients laying on me was uncomfortable. I did have big implants though & went under the muscle but don’t think I’d have been able to work any sooner. I’m getting liposuction in a couple weeks I don’t think that recovery will be as long but I’m saving enough money for another 8 weeks off just incase. I think it’s a lot of money to pay for things so I wouldn’t wanna go back to work too soon an end up with something going wrong
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When I had dermal fillers two years ago I took from the Saturday to the Wednesday off.
This time it was done on a Sunday but I have an enormous purple bruise. I can use concealer but it would still show. This time it would need a week.
I am not working until September anyway.
To anybody who is interested the HIFU I had in the past hurt too much and did not last.
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Hi guys, anyone had tummy tuck or breast reduction and can say how long it took them to be back at work?
Tummy tuck seems like a such invasive procedure. And the scar is huge!!!
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For those interested im 2 years post boob enlargement and uplift and there perfect . I literally have zero scars and had no issues . Was back escorting after 4 weeks and back at the gym at week 5 . I lost no sensitivity and had no pain ! I guess we are all different thought x
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Franticgirl90,
A breast reduction is a much bigger undertaking than having an augmentation, so the scarring and rest period will be greater. Additionally, if you are not Caucasian, there is a greater chance of scarring and keloids. Either way, regardless of your ethnicity/skin colour, your surgeon/consultation will be better able to advise you.
As an aside, while I have never had an augmentation or reduction, I have had several lumpectomies, the first of which was almost three decades ago. The scars are still visible albeit faintly. They took a few years to get to this stage. No-one has ever commented on them. I know for all four surgeries, I was told to not drive/do anything strenuous or go to the gym for a good few months. In fact, if memory serves, I wasn't even allowed to shower for the first month/raise my arms above my head.
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For those interested im 2 years post boob enlargement and uplift and there perfect . I literally have zero scars and had no issues . Was back escorting after 4 weeks and back at the gym at week 5 . I lost no sensitivity and had no pain ! I guess we are all different thought x
I am seriously considering doing that procedure as I have had two children and although my chest is not that bad, it has seen better days. Could you write to PM to ask you for information?
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Hello ladies
This might be a funny question but I am thinking of getting some more lip fillers. Last time I waited about three days before returning to work and giving bjs and kissing, but my filler moved and not sure if that’s why
How long do you think is the ideal time for rest ?
Thank you
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Hello everyone
I got a liposuction and a boob job 4 months ago. I’m still not 100% healed and my boobs still hurt a bit. I know everyone is different, some heal faster than others, so just in case, be prepared to stay a bit longer in recovery if needed
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I've got a tummy tuck and liposuction booked in and it seems I may have underestimated how long it wold take to get back to sex work. I know it will probably be a while before I can get back to the full service, but I'm wondering if anyone has had cosmetic procedures and offered a more limited service - like just massage with relief for example, after a shorter time? Or webcam maybe?
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I'm booked for a mummy make over abroad in a few months, planning 6 weeks off. Trying to save like crazy. A friend of mine had TT 9 weeks ago and was back to sex (with her hubby) after 4 weeks, but I know I'll probably need longer, especially with having to ear Lingerie instead of the binder during work hours. I can't wait though, been planning this a very long time and will do my confidence the world of good.
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This might be a funny question but I am thinking of getting some more lip fillers. Last time I waited about three days before returning to work and giving bjs and kissing, but my filler moved and not sure if that’s why
How long do you think is the ideal time for rest ?
Thank you
I usually wait around 3 days myself after I get lip filler, mostly for the swelling to go away, but perhaps try waiting 5-7 days next time if you are worried? I am a smoker as well and I try not to add too much pressure on my lips for the first few days, but after most of the swelling is gone I find it's safe to do a bj.
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I'm booked for a mummy make over abroad in a few months, planning 6 weeks off. Trying to save like crazy. A friend of mine had TT 9 weeks ago and was back to sex (with her hubby) after 4 weeks, but I know I'll probably need longer, especially with having to ear Lingerie instead of the binder during work hours. I can't wait though, been planning this a very long time and will do my confidence the world of good.
Thanks for info Milf-glos. I was thinking of trying to get away with wearing my binder, hopefully it won't look too frumpy ??? but maybe especially if I just offering topless massage for a little while until I feel OK about offering sex etc. I'm hoping I don't need the muscle suturing as I think that is the big issue with healing a lot of the time. Hope your mummy make over goes well!
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Thanks for info Milf-glos. I was thinking of trying to get away with wearing my binder, hopefully it won't look too frumpy ??? but maybe especially if I just offering topless massage for a little while until I feel OK about offering sex etc. I'm hoping I don't need the muscle suturing as I think that is the big issue with healing a lot of the time. Hope your mummy make over goes well!
Really good idea just offering topless massage. Thanks hun. I can't wait.
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I really, really want to do tummy tuck too, but I can't find any legit information on how long will I have to take off work.
I can wear suspenders on my tummy so scarring won't be a problem but I'm wondering for how long will I have to stop having sex.
I never had children so I won't need muscles sewed together. Are there any black/brown ladies who did it in the UK and can recommend a clinic? As I'm worried about scarring.
I don't want to travel to eastern Europe as I want to have regular appointments and control scarring. I don't mind spending more in the UK.
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So I've had my tummy tuck about a month ago, I was back to work about a week ago, but I am only offering topless massage with some mild bondage, and I did not have the muscle stitch. Its all been fine so far, the only occasional issue being having to tell clients to not touch my midsection so as to not touch my incision area. Been good so far.
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So I've had my tummy tuck about a month ago, I was back to work about a week ago, but I am only offering topless massage with some mild bondage, and I did not have the muscle stitch. Its all been fine so far, the only occasional issue being having to tell clients to not touch my midsection so as to not touch my incision area. Been good so far.
Good to hear. I am going in under 3 months. I will have july and August to recover, but wondering if I can fit in the odd regular if I know they're gentle. I'm having uplift as well.
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Good to hear. I am going in under 3 months. I will have july and August to recover, but wondering if I can fit in the odd regular if I know they're gentle. I'm having uplift as well.
Yea I think it would be possible for me to have sex now if it were with someone who was very trustworthy to do it as I say, the only position I think I'd feel comfortable with though is probably doggy and maybe reverse cowgirl, sex wise, if they could behave and keep their hands in the right places. I guess if you are having your boobs done too that makes it harder?
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So I've had my tummy tuck about a month ago, I was back to work about a week ago, but I am only offering topless massage with some mild bondage, and I did not have the muscle stitch. Its all been fine so far, the only occasional issue being having to tell clients to not touch my midsection so as to not touch my incision area. Been good so far.
That's amazing to hear! Did you have a full or mini tummy tuck? How long you had to stay in bed after the surgery?
I do escort but I wouldn't mind stopping for a month or two and then continuing with suspender on. It is also a good idea to offer massage only services.
My doctor said I don't need a muscle stitch either so I guess it's only an incision which has to get healed.
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I had a full tummy tuck, muscle repair, lipo and fat transfer (bbl) at the end of March. I started seeing my gentle regs after 2 weeks, the ones who I know don’t have full service. I started doing full service at 4 weeks, I only see one or 2 clients a day. I’m still a bit sore and tender on my flanks. I wear a suspender belt and knickers, that covers the scar…I may get a tattoo in time to cover it, I’ll just see how it heals.
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That's amazing to hear! Did you have a full or mini tummy tuck? How long you had to stay in bed after the surgery?
I do escort but I wouldn't mind stopping for a month or two and then continuing with suspender on. It is also a good idea to offer massage only services.
My doctor said I don't need a muscle stitch either so I guess it's only an incision which has to get healed.
I had full tummy tuck, but no muscle stitch. I was in bed in the hospital for two days, and pretty physically disabled for about 4 days. After that I could walk about with help for a few days then I could walk for short distances on my own. I could take normal walks after about 10 days and back to massage around 3 weeks. To be honest I could probably do sex now but I just am enjoying having a bit of freedom from full sex for a while. Good luck with your surgery! :)
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I had a full tummy tuck, muscle repair, lipo and fat transfer (bbl) at the end of March. I started seeing my gentle regs after 2 weeks, the ones who I know don’t have full service. I started doing full service at 4 weeks, I only see one or 2 clients a day. I’m still a bit sore and tender on my flanks. I wear a suspender belt and knickers, that covers the scar…I may get a tattoo in time to cover it, I’ll just see how it heals.
Wow full service after 4 weeks! Well done, especially after so much work. I'm 4 weeks today and still nervous about having sex properly.
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Wow full service after 4 weeks! Well done, especially after so much work. I'm 4 weeks today and still nervous about having sex properly.
The tummy tuck didn’t bother me much, muscles were very sore at first. The lipo has been the worst part of everything, but at the same time it’s so worth the pain.
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Where have you ladies done your surgeries? In the UK or abroad?
I was thinking about going to Poland but I just read I shouldn't fly at least 14 days post-op!
It's a bloody long time!
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For the most part, most overseas clinics offer a package deal where you book the surgery along with (ample) recuperation time and visits from a nurse to change dressings/remove stitches/drains etc etc.
But, the main thing to consider is that while surgery is often cheaper overseas, what happens if on your return, you have an issue or some kind of problem and you need to see the surgeon ASAP but can’t travel?
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This is nothing to do with sex work now - once again, take it to PM please.
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Hi I'm due to get a gastric bypass.
Does anyone know how Long I will have to stay off work for? All the advice I've read is for none sex work jobs and I wouldn't tell my doctor about sex work
Please only comment if you had gastric bypass not any other surgery
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Hi I'm due to get a gastric bypass.
Does anyone know how Long I will have to stay off work for? All the advice I've read is for none sex work jobs and I wouldn't tell my doctor about sex work
Please only comment if you had gastric bypass not any other surgery
I would give yourself at least 6 weeks - it's pretty major surgery. You'll also take a while to get your diet sorted, and your digestive system will probably be unreliable for at least 3 months.
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Hi I'm due to get a gastric bypass.
Does anyone know how Long I will have to stay off work for? All the advice I've read is for none sex work jobs and I wouldn't tell my doctor about sex work
Please only comment if you had gastric bypass not any other surgery
I had bypass about a year before I started in sex work so I can't specifically comment on that. I went back to my office job 2 weeks exactly after surgery. I think I could probably have handled a couple of oral-only bookings a day at that stage, but penetration would definitely have been too much.
A lot will depend on how well your incisions heal, how much your insides get banged about during the op, how well your liver has shrunk on the pre-op diet, and your overall health. Also what type of service you normally provide - gentle GFE is very different to PSE! I'd suggest giving yourself 6 weeks, but start to do gentle jobs you think you can handle during that time if you feel up to it.
Feel free to PM me if you want to talk more.
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I've just come out of a double surgery yesterday, a breast lift and a rhinoplasty, has anyone any experience of working after either of these? After I had my tummy tuck I was offering massage with relief and mild bondage for a while, after about 3 weeks recovery, I'm hoping to do that again. Mostly worried about the breasts though, in case some idiot decides to ignore my 'no breast touching' rule I intend to flag heavily on my profile.
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I've just come out of a double surgery yesterday, a breast lift and a rhinoplasty, has anyone any experience of working after either of these? After I had my tummy tuck I was offering massage with relief and mild bondage for a while, after about 3 weeks recovery, I'm hoping to do that again. Mostly worried about the breasts though, in case some idiot decides to ignore my 'no breast touching' rule I intend to flag heavily on my profile.
I had the same breast lift in oktober and come back to work after 7 weeks
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I had the same breast lift in oktober and come back to work after 7 weeks
Hay Suzi, ah ok cool, was that full service appointments?
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I didn't do breast lift surgery, but one of my best friends did, it took her 3 months to get back to work full service.
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I didn't do breast lift surgery, but one of my best friends did, it took her 3 months to get back to work full service.
Woah that's long, I can see why you'd want to wait that long though tbf. Did she offer other things in the meantime, like hand relief etc?
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No, she rested during those months without working, she said that it hurt too much and she did not feel comfortable when her breasts were touched or brushed against, but I suppose that the healing process is different in each person.
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Everyone reacts different to surgery it’s like asking how long is a piece of string ….
I had breast lift and implants was fine straight away was in Costa coffee 48 hours later in town ‘ … back to work after 3 weeks but allowed no breast play for 6 weeks . Had a nose job and was back working after 2 weeks …
We are all different to how we heal !
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My boobs are 4 days after surgery and they don't feel painful, just a tad sore around incisions and itchy from healing, but even if not painful the worry is clients grabbing and causing injuries. Plus it take a month or so for the breasts to 'settle' into shape and I'd imagine sex might disrupt that. And with the nose job I probably won't be able to do doggy for a while. I've been thinking of moving over to straight fetish services for a while so now feels like a good time because I can much more easily control the session, where hands go etc and I can keep my dress on more easily etc
Yes of course there are differences, but its good to know the broad spectrum of possibilities... from there I use the 'plan for the worst and hope for the best' school of preparation.
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Yes I’m considering a nose job and want to see how long i will need to take off for my surgery before going back to work. I’m ok to take a month off if i have to.
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I just had something similar to a thigh lift:
I have been able to be a functional human being 3 weeks after surgery. And I have been able to have sex with no problem since week 6-8.
The scars are long, but very thin. In any case, there is nothing that tights cannot cover! :)
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Hi there;
I was wondering if anyone has undergone sterilisation (like having your tubes tied) or cosmetic procedures (boob job, micro blading, etc) for work purposes?
What was your decision making process and how did you find the procedure? If you had a boob job, did your work affect the size/cosmetics you chose?
Basically trying to understand if cosmetic procedures are worth it for work reasons, or if social reasons are needed too.
Thanks