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Re: Working after cosmetic surgery
« Reply #60 on: 25 December 2015, 07:50:41 pm »
I'm not talking specifically about work either. I get looks even at 40+ without a tiny skirt, low cut tops or a cleavage.

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Re: Working after cosmetic surgery
« Reply #61 on: 25 December 2015, 11:02:26 pm »
There's a lot more emphasis on booty over boobs and building an amazing bubble butt is actually doable. Check out the book Strong Curves. If you are willing to lift weights you can transform your body and not mess with your breasts and silicone.

But it takes commitment and time. Easier said than done. I lift weights but not as hard or as frequently as I should.

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Re: Working after cosmetic surgery
« Reply #62 on: 26 December 2015, 02:59:19 am »
There's a lot more emphasis on booty over boobs and building an amazing bubble butt is actually doable. Check out the book Strong Curves. If you are willing to lift weights you can transform your body and not mess with your breasts and silicone.

But it takes commitment and time. Easier said than done. I lift weights but not as hard or as frequently as I should.

I'd second the recommendation of Strong Curves. While I run strictly strength programs myself (Texas Method for life!), Bret Contreras is one of people who really have female-centric programming nailed down.

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Re: Working after cosmetic surgery
« Reply #63 on: 26 December 2015, 10:47:30 pm »
Thanks for the responses :) I'm currently a D and I was thinking of going to DD. The response seems very negative towards having it done, so I'm steering towards not doing it. I must stress though, for me to have enhancements done as a business decision, even if it isn't just a personal cosmetic desire, would be for me, as to be as successful as possible in this industry is what I want. The two come hand in hand.

So you want to gain 1/2 to 1 inch? Why bother going through all that pain and recovery? A D cup is a pretty good average Large size for many people (men AND women).

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Re: Working after cosmetic surgery
« Reply #64 on: 26 December 2015, 11:00:55 pm »
Thanks for the responses :) I'm currently a D and I was thinking of going to DD. The response seems very negative towards having it done, so I'm steering towards not doing it. I must stress though, for me to have enhancements done as a business decision, even if it isn't just a personal cosmetic desire, would be for me, as to be as successful as possible in this industry is what I want. The two come hand in hand.

So you want to gain 1/2 to 1 inch? Why bother going through all that pain and recovery? A D cup is a pretty good average Large size for many people (men AND women).

Agreed. I am AA I will do anything for a D. :(  It's just so expensive. Money for the surgery, money in case something goes wrong and you need revision, money for time off, then back to work and any money made go towards saving to get them redone in case they rupture. For me it's a sacrifice I am willing to make as I am not happy with the size of my tiny boobs. I am fed up with stuffing my bra with socks when I go out lol.

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Re: Working after cosmetic surgery
« Reply #65 on: 26 December 2015, 11:40:30 pm »
Thanks for the responses :) I'm currently a D and I was thinking of going to DD. The response seems very negative towards having it done, so I'm steering towards not doing it. I must stress though, for me to have enhancements done as a business decision, even if it isn't just a personal cosmetic desire, would be for me, as to be as successful as possible in this industry is what I want. The two come hand in hand.

So you want to gain 1/2 to 1 inch? Why bother going through all that pain and recovery? A D cup is a pretty good average Large size for many people (men AND women).

Agreed. I am AA I will do anything for a D. :(  It's just so expensive. Money for the surgery, money in case something goes wrong and you need revision, money for time off, then back to work and any money made go towards saving to get them redone in case they rupture. For me it's a sacrifice I am willing to make as I am not happy with the size of my tiny boobs. I am fed up with stuffing my bra with socks when I go out lol.

Ah but do you have a small body as well as small boobs? If so then your in perfect proportion.

I personally think small, petite women look beautiful with teeny boobs and then women who are shapely to have bigger boobs equally look great as they are all in proportion.

If I could turn back the clock, I wouldn't have had my boobs done.

But if you are feeling insecure and there's something you can do about it and it turns out well then you have to do what makes you feel better but yes, you need to be prepared for things going wrong.

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Re: Working after cosmetic surgery
« Reply #66 on: 29 December 2015, 11:29:50 am »
I have always been a cup F to G and by contrast I keep thinking of reducing them for quite some time.  My back hurts terribly and gym sessions or massages only help temporarily.  I always hated my huge bras that made my ex partners laugh when they put them on their heads looking like ants.


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Re: Working after cosmetic surgery
« Reply #67 on: 29 December 2015, 04:40:46 pm »
I had my boobs done a long time ago but not for work for myself.  I have picked up and lost a few clients but I really wouldn't get any surgery done for work, you can't claim it against your tax bill either.  I tried  ;D

I echo what other ladies say here, it doesn't increase work, and there are always risks of complications. 

A few ladies I have met have had quite a bit of temporary/perm work done to them and all I can say is it's a slippery slope,  first it's a boob job, then the Daffy Duck lip fillers, lipo etc.  they started to look at what else they could "improve" but some have regrets and some are happy and some look like plastic dolls which are starting to melt.

Don't get me wrong, I have had a little improvement myself but subtle.  Do what is right for you, and what makes you feel good about yourself.


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Re: Working after cosmetic surgery
« Reply #68 on: 29 December 2015, 05:11:58 pm »
Having your boobs done isn't going to give you a cleavage.  All a boob job does is enlarge them not bring them closer together.  Only a push up bra or tit tape will do that (or tight clothing). 

When I had my first set done back in 97, the surgeon asked me what size I wanted to go up to.  I was a 30B (I was only a size 6 on the top, and a 12 on the bottom,  so finding dresses and suits to fit me was a nightmare).  I asked to go up to a C cup, as I didn't want huge boobs.  The surgeon (although he was happy to give me a C cup), recommended I go for a D cup.  He gave me his reasons for this, which were, going from a B to a C wouldn't make a great deal of difference, and that it wouldn't be money well spent.  He showed me a C cup implant, which was a very similar size to what I was already, he then showed me a D and a DD implant, and asked me what I imagined my boobs to be like after the op.  What I realised then, was that a DD would probably be best suited to me.  So my first set were a DD, and they were a nice handful.  Not too big, not too small.  My current ones are a G cup, but that's another story, for another time.
Although you say you'd like to go from a D to a DD (if you do decide to get them done), if the surgeon is a good one, then s/he will show you the different sizes and you may opt for a bigger size if you have an idea of what you want your boobs to look like post op.

I cannot comment on whether it is good for business, as I had mine done many years before I started as a sex worker, but as many others have advised, do this for you not for your business.   You might decide to move out of the sex industry in a years time, and you would have spent all that money on something you didn't really want.

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Re: Working after cosmetic surgery
« Reply #69 on: 02 January 2016, 10:14:46 pm »
Years ago I worked in a brothel in my home country. The owner (a very nice, decent man) would give us interest-free loans if we wanted to get our tits done. Many of the girls took him up on this but I never did even though I had A-cups. The main reason for this was I knew that they'd need to be replaced at some point - ALL implants wear out and need to be removed or replaced in about 10-15 years. I didn't know what my life would be like at that point. Perhaps I'd be making much less money or simply not be able to take a couple of weeks off work to recover.

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Re: Working after cosmetic surgery
« Reply #70 on: 03 January 2016, 01:06:23 am »
Depends on the implants. The ones i have got a life time garanty so i dont need to remplace them only if i want biger ones again

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Re: Working after cosmetic surgery
« Reply #71 on: 03 January 2016, 01:50:58 am »
Do they not affect breast feeding? (I have no idea, but possibly a consideration for the future?)
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Re: Working after cosmetic surgery
« Reply #72 on: 03 January 2016, 01:14:23 pm »
I've got natural bouncy B cups and 15 years ago had some wicked FF's which were ideal for stripping but didn't make any difference when I removed them part way through my escorting career 5 years ago.  ;D

The skin bounced back and the scars are barely visible so if you really feel like you need to scratch that itch (albeit for a barely noticeable cup size) then all is not lost.  Nipple sensitivity returned to normal (not that I'd noticed anything different prior, oddly.  Probably a good thing with the neanderthals chewing on the fucking things).   ::)

Although, as others quite rightly pointed out, it is not without risk & expense.  :-*

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Re: Working after cosmetic surgery
« Reply #73 on: 03 January 2016, 05:01:32 pm »
Depends on the implants. The ones i have got a life time garanty so i dont need to remplace them only if i want biger ones again

Doesn't that mean for the lifetime of the implants (10-15yrs) rather than your lifetime? So if they rupture within their lifetime you can get them replaced for nothing?

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Re: Working after cosmetic surgery
« Reply #74 on: 03 January 2016, 09:54:55 pm »
Depends on the implants. The ones i have got a life time garanty so i dont need to remplace them only if i want biger ones again

Doesn't that mean for the lifetime of the implants (10-15yrs) rather than your lifetime? So if they rupture within their lifetime you can get them replaced for nothing?

Yes they are on my lifetime. The doctor give me a certificate that if something bad happen the clinique were i did it will fix the problem at no cost.
And also i want to say that the implants will not affect breast feeding