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hellobello

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Why would a client lie about their age?
« on: 08 December 2024, 09:23:03 pm »
I'm in my final month of escorting at the moment, which may explain my more than usual no bullshit attitude as of late but Ive noticed that recently there has been an increase in clients lying to me about their age. Im 20 and have a cut off age for clients I wont see (due to my own personal comfort levels) and to enforce this I will always ask a client to give me their age before making a booking with me and if they are above 50 I will turn them away. A client I had this week told me he was 47 and when he arrived he looked 80+ and not in a good way. That day had been particularly busy for me to the point I'd lost a booking I potentially actually could have gone through with for this guy. I'm not ashamed to say I ripped in to him, not only for wasting both our times and loosing me money, but for having the gumption to think I wouldn't notice/ he'd get away with doing that. The smirk he had once we met each other thinking this would proceed  was enough to set me off and I kicked him out but not without asking him why exactly he as an 80+ yer old thought it was okay to lie about his age to effectively sleep with a teenager. He didn't like that at all and tried to make me feel bad  for apparently making him out to be some kind of predator - newsflash pal.

With the nature of what we do as working girls many of us will have boundaries of surrounding who we will and wont see in order to make doing this as comfortable for us as we can and I despise when clients cant seem to recognise that/ think their right to personal gratification supersedes that. It makes my skin crawl! Why do they do that! We have eyes!
« Last Edit: 08 December 2024, 09:28:47 pm by hellobello »

amy

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Re: Why would a client lie about their age?
« Reply #1 on: 08 December 2024, 09:30:49 pm »
Well I think you could have worded that better - it's perfectly OK for a punter of any age to have sex with a much younger person (and 20 is not a teenager) provided she/he is happy to take their booking. You are not and made this clear in your ad so he tried to trick you, and that's the part that is not OK. Surely you know that's why he lied though?

As to the question generally, I don't know why they do it either. I had one turn up this last week who claimed to be fifty in his text (I don't ask and don't care) but I'd have put him at sixty plus on sight - certainly not two years younger than me! To be fair, it could have just been a really fucking long paper round ;D.