Oh by the way I charge 130? for an hour not 200?

If somebody offers you more than your fee, it's normally because they're trying to 'tempt' you to do something you don't want to or wouldn't be happy doing (or else why would you want or need more than your fee?)

My guess is he wants to spend the day sending you dirty text messages knowing that you will not want to upset him so will play along with it. Then he will give an excuse why he cannot make it.

Sarah x x x

I'd be perplexed if somebody offered me more than my advertised fee and the first thing i'd think is time waster too.

If he'd paid you your standard rate then you gave a fantastic service and he thought you're worth more then  he could always give you a tip afterwards, but why would somebody genuine offer to pay extra for something not knowing whether he's even going to like it? It definitely screams fantasist to me and i take things like that with a pinch of salt x

I had this from a client who wanted 15 min quickie at really short notice. I said no initially, then he offered ?200, so I frantically arranged babysitter and got ready, I was 50/50 as to whether he would turn up, he did! Never seen it heard from again sadly, and only happened once in 3+ years.

That's brilliant! Luckily your gamble paid off. I wouldn't myself though.