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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Soniaescort on 30 May 2014, 10:41:35 am
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I just received text: " hi are you free tonight? If so I offer 200? for an hour ". For me sounds little bit strange? He after called me few times but I did not answer because I am afraid to see him after all. Do you think I am right or I am just paranoid?
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Oh by the way I charge 130? for an hour not 200? ???
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If somebody offers you more than your fee, it's normally because they're trying to 'tempt' you to do something you don't want to or wouldn't be happy doing (or else why would you want or need more than your fee?)
I would point out what your correct fee is in case he's missed it, but if he keeps it up I'd avoid.
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If somebody offers you more than your fee, it's normally because they're trying to 'tempt' you to do something you don't want to or wouldn't be happy doing (or else why would you want or need more than your fee?)
My guess is he wants to spend the day sending you dirty text messages knowing that you will not want to upset him so will play along with it. Then he will give an excuse why he cannot make it.
Sarah x x x
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Its normally because they know you are not available that late and are trying to push you nto a booking. It instantly turns me off as I feel they are the pushy type who think they can throw money at you to persuade you into doing what they want. Instant block for me.
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I'd be perplexed if somebody offered me more than my advertised fee and the first thing i'd think is time waster too.
If he'd paid you your standard rate then you gave a fantastic service and he thought you're worth more then he could always give you a tip afterwards, but why would somebody genuine offer to pay extra for something not knowing whether he's even going to like it? It definitely screams fantasist to me and i take things like that with a pinch of salt x
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I had this from a client who wanted 15 min quickie at really short notice. I said no initially, then he offered ?200, so I frantically arranged babysitter and got ready, I was 50/50 as to whether he would turn up, he did! Never seen it heard from again sadly, and only happened once in 3+ years.
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I had this from a client who wanted 15 min quickie at really short notice. I said no initially, then he offered ?200, so I frantically arranged babysitter and got ready, I was 50/50 as to whether he would turn up, he did! Never seen it heard from again sadly, and only happened once in 3+ years.
That's brilliant! Luckily your gamble paid off. I wouldn't myself though.
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Normally when I get crap like that sent to me its like 1am and I don't work from home so there is no way I am going back to my work flat. Last time I refused a pushy tossers kind offer of double my fee he replied with 'You are reported'. Proabably to Adultwork...but given my availability calendar does not show me as available at that time...I was like good luck with that lol.