....client pleases escort. Thats what I've always been used to

Sounds to me like you should be the one paying.

No one is saying that the guys we see are totally selfish lovers, many of them want to please us aswell but they dont sit at home and think 'right, im going to pop down to the cash machine, take out a large amount of cash and pay someone to let be please them'  if they wanted to do that they could just give me the money and leave lol.  Your kidding yourself if you think that you are the main reason they are there.  They are paying to get their rocks off not yours....  What a lovely world you live in UA


I think you need to get yourself on a few of the forums aimed at both WG's and Punters and after a few weeks reading let us know if you still think its all about your pleasure.

They are paying to get their rocks off not yours....  What a lovely world you live in UA

Yes I do live in a wonderfilled world. But there's somewhat a misunderstanding here. 1st off, yes they do want to get pleasure also...of course. Im not saying they dont. 2nd, Believe me, I've had enough guys that (this is very known in the gay industry) want no reciprocation. there's been many times I've gotten my rocks and they didnt even want to. There's been many times they have gotten their rocks off and I havent.

Y'all are trying to discredit what Im saying, but its true. I didnt mean to make a big fuss about it. I was just saying what Im used to, sorry that it came out different in your cases. Trust me, I can go out right now and get off with someone and they wont need to get their rocks off. There are several guys out there that want nothing more than to get a guy off with no reciprocation. Straight men are somewhat different from gay men I guess so thats probably where the confusion comes in.

Point is, we are all escorts. There may be a bit of confusion between me being male and the majority of you ladies. Y'all undoubtably give great advice, but if there comes a time where something I mention isnt exactly what you're used to, I shouldnt get beat up for it!

ok well maybe a couple subjects been controversal but I'll tone it down some.

Controversial?! Tone it down?  Buddy, you are clueless.

I'm sure most people either wince when they see your posts or skip them altogether.  You've really made an ass of yourself and it's highly unlikely you'll ever recover.

Take a few days off and give us all a break, please.

Well, different folks, different strokes but you ought to take advice from ladies that are familiar with this kind of work and live in the real world.  I would think twice about taking advice from anyone in an alternative Trallala, Priscilla Queen of the Dessert world lol 

We may all be loosely in the same industry but there is a different approach in the UK.  The legal situation is different and straight men do not book us ladies to act like spoiled drama queens.  They want pampering and their needs addressed.  Many do also enjoy giving us pleasure but they are not paying ?180 an hour to get a crap attitude.  Otherwise they turn to dominatrices!  Please, please do not listen to the nonsense about them spoiling us!  And in the UK - the majority of work is for incalls - you will be quieter if you just offer outcalls.  Ladies who actually have been working for a while will confirm this.  Some ladies obviously get by with doing outcalls only but if you are not established you will probably have less bookings.  Take advice from someone so new and inexperienced in a different country, with a different gender and warped attitude with a huge sack of salt!  It simply takes some time for any new escort to get established and build up regulars.  Even with the best website and greatest photos you will get quiet spells.  As an outcall only escort, you are limited in the kind of bookings from the outset as most clients prefer to see the lady in her surrounding and would not want to go to the expense of booking a hotel room.  Perhaps you might try to book a cheap hotel room and heavily advertise it.  This is a business and you may need to invest to actually earn from it. Phrase your site in a way you feel comfortable and to reflect you.   

I don't want to join any cyber pitch fork mob either and usually just ignore certain posters.  I don't think anyone ought to become too proprietorial about a board just because they don't like what has been said.  Laugh and rise above it - gawd some of you would not last 2 seconds on certain forums lol   

Strickly speaking I don't think there's too much difference between doing outcalls only, I never used to use hotels and had plenty of bookings - that, of course, was a different financial climate though.

I still get a lot of outcall bookings sometimes and, for example, last sunday I booked a hotel and yet was out all day doing outcalls and had one half hour incall at the hotel.

Getting a hotel even one day a week is a good thing though, keep up on your website/adultwork what your incall day is and if anyone phones for one just let them know the day. If you don't have appointments, don't book - last minute is good for booking the morning of.

If you're in London I can send you a list of what some of the topsecret ones are (think i've stayed in about 11 of those).

xxx